Wednesday, November 13, 2019

Alcohol & Weight Loss

Hi- I was hoping to hear from this group about your experience with Alcohol & Weight Loss.

My husband and I have always been “drinkers” I guess, not huge binge drinkers but the kind that have a beer or glass or wine with 75% of our dinners and have 2-4 almost every Friday and Saturday night.

Since I began focusing on weight loss, I’ve been treating alcohol like everything else I consume, either cutting back on portions or finding lower calorie “healthier” alternatives (ex. Vodka/Soda instead of craft beers or wine). I always track calories for alcohol (though sometimes I’m not confident of the accuracy because I feel like wine is so hard to find stats for).

I’m not opposed to cutting out alcohol for a month of so (plan to do this in January anyway). I’ve also considered cutting it out Sunday-Thursday but allowing it Friday/Saturday. But a lot of what I’m reading is about making changes that you can maintain the rest of your life, not just temporarily, based off of our lifestyle/hobbies/friends I don’t think going cold turkey will be the best long term.

Do you have any other strategies that work for you? Or what has been your experience in general?

Just interested to hear from this group in general!

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I just reached my starting weight again!

I don't want to tell any of my irls cause I'm afraid I may end up losing momemtum if I get too much praise, so I'm posting here instead. Sorry for the long post. Maybe a small trigger warning? I'm not sure.

So for the last couple of years, I've been stuck on the same weight. I've gone to the gym, I've tried eating less, I've tried and failed going on diets - nothing worked and I ended up giving up very quickly cause I wasn't seeing results. I got depressed and a little obsessed to the point where I think I almost started developing an eating disorder, but the fact that I had the desire to purge my food after binge eating was a massive warning sign for me, so I stopped myself and worked on my mental health for a while.

Since I've gotten better mentally, I've managed to work harder on my studies, I improved my relationship with my family a bit, and I've come to terms with a few of my social issues (definitely not all). I also got a part time job at a bar, mostly night shift. Everything was starting to go well; I was no longer obsessing over my weight (although I did think about it often), and I had gotten my depression unter control (with a lot of help from loved ones). However, due to balancing my studies with working night shift, I've gotten really stressed and tired (it didn't help that I spent hours on my phone or something instead of sleeping when I could). I have no time or energy to go to the gym, and I'm mostly too tired to care about eating healthy. The bar also offers 50% staff discount for one meal per shift, so I would eat something very unhealthy for dinner (such as a whole pizza or lots of fries) 3 times a week. The rest of the time, I'd buy food on campus, none of which was healthy at all. I was letting myself stress eat.

All of this eating and no exercise besides what my everyday life demanded of me was making my weight, which hadn't changed for years, start to pick up, and I didn't like how it felt. So I decided that now that my mental health is better, I want to improve my physical health as well: better sleep, better food, some exercise.

I took a different approach than I always have; instead of going on a diet and vigorously doing a ton of cardio, I started counting calories and doing yoga at home. I barely ever stay under my calorie limit, but I'm still learning and getting used to it, and it's making me super conscious of my portions. The yoga is helping me a lot with with movement my body doesn't normally get, and it just makes me feel good, even during the exercises - something that cardio doesn't do for me.

Since it's only been like a month or so, I didn't have any weight loss expectations; my aim for now was to just feel better - and I do! I'm keeping this in mind, even as I'm seeing the numbers very slowly drop on the scale.

Today, however, I'm letting myself feel triumphant, cause I just got myself back to the weight I've been on for years now. And, this time, I'm hoping to finally surpass it.

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To those of you starting out: I offer a helping hand

I see many posts on this subreddit from people who want to embark on their fat loss journey, but seem a bit lost. There is a host of good information on this subreddit, but I would love to help further.

To preface this post, I feel it prudent to highlight that I am a qualified level 3 personal trainer as well as a qualified physiotherapist. furthermore my wife is an FRCS (Plast) surgeon in the NHS. I say this to give you peace of mind that information i give is based on a strong foundation of biological knowledge, evidence as found in peer reviewed literature and experience (my wife has 20 years experience as a doctor).

Having said that, I invite any and all questions in relation to this subreddit. Unfortunately i cannot give tailored medical advice, as that would require a consultation, but i can certainly try to help enlighten those of you who have come across conflicting or confusing information.

Possible topics (not an exhaustive list):

Where to start, Psychology of change, Planning, Diet, Exercise, Nutrition, Aesthetics, Pain, Neurology, Medical conditions in relation to weight loss/exercise, General health, Hormones and homeostasis.

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I've lost 10kg and no one can see it

19F / 5"1, 79kg

I was the heaviest I had ever been at the end of my high school exams last year, and a full year later, I'm the lightest I've been in 3 years, but still very overweight. It feels like no one can see my progress except me - and I'm shocked because 10kg is the most weight I've ever managed to lose at once. I've been a yo-yo dieter since I was 14, always losing 6kg and then gaining it all back and more until I plateaued at almost 90kg at 18. I lost the 10kg in three months through calorie restriction and walking everywhere, and in the middle of it, got into a relationship with someone and lost some more due to fear of looking and feeling fat during intimate times. My boyfriend went through significant weight loss before dating me, and has a pretty healthy lifestyle now - he loves fitness and working out what foods are good for his body, and always encourages me to exercise and eat better in a way that doesn't pressure me because I know he genuinely wants whats best for my physical and mental health.

I haven't lost any more weight since August, and its November now. My lowest weight in June was 77kg, and its been slowly creeping back up. I desperately don't want to hit 80 again, but I have a huge fear of exercise and feel like everyone would be waiting for me to fail if I try to put myself back on a diet. I don't know how to healthily get back on track - I lack motivation and hate being perceived as the "fat girl on a diet". I'm having trouble finding someone to hold me accountable and share my progress with - all my friends who have experience with weight loss did so in a very disordered, unhealthy way, and I'm scared to ask my boyfriend for help because he's my safe space, and it would suck if it felt like I was disappointing him when I accidentally binge or slip up.

It feels like I'm comparing myself to everyone around me, and what little progress I make feels invisible. I want to feel lighter and stronger and more confident in myself. How do I get into a healthier mindset about weight loss to start my journey again?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 13 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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My wife told me I was starting to look sickly

A friend is on a low carb diet and we were discussing weight loss. He made a remark about getting super skinny and I realized that he was making a jab, so I said "Hey, I'll have you know that I've gained 3 lbs". His wife replied, "Oh, I thought you were looking healthier". I asked my wife about this and she said that I was starting to look "sickly" at a certain point. She couldn't really explain it any better than that. The other 2 had also told me that I was too skinny multiple times.

I lost weight by cutting calories in a yo-yo fashion to prevent plateaus, upping protein, taking supplements and doing resistance training every day. My goal was 150 lbs and I hit it. I also got stronger than I've ever been. I went as low as 148 and then ate more to quit losing because none of my clothes fit. I'm a 5'6" manlet. I don't understand how 5'6" at 150 could look sickly. I'm simply a small human. Help me understand.

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Stuck on what to do next? Really need help

Hey everyone, first off thank you for your help!

I’m a 5ft 3, 24F who is currently at 124lb (started at 132, 8 weeks ago). For my height and frame I know this is healthy however I do still have some fat stored around my stomach area and thighs that I am trying to lose. So would really like to get down to around 118

I’m really struggling at the moment as it seems like I’ve hit a mental block. I will admit I went in quite determined and would eat at around 1100 calories a day and was working out 3 times a week (mix of running and weight training to tone up). However, what I’m struggling with now is these last few pounds and sticking to such a restrictive diet. I am no stranger to dieting and weight loss and I know that what I was doing isn’t sustainable, however again, due to my short height I struggle to lose weight if I’m not being restrictive.

I really need some advice on how to lose these final few pounds without losing my mind and kicking myself every time I eat at maintainence. What doesn’t help is over the weekend I had takeout and on Monday ate more “pop chips” which meant the scale showed that I gained 3/4 of a lb. I know this is a small amount and probably water due to extra salt and carbs. But this will take me around 2 days of being “on track” to lose.

I’m also very conscious of the fact that, how do I maintain this in order to not gain weight once I’ve reached my goal. The only solution I can think of is calorie cycling? So eating in a deficit on some days, and maintainence or slightly over on occasions

I really appreciate help as I think now I’ve hit the 8 week mark, my body is trying to do everything it can to increase my calories (intense cravings and hunger) and it’s starting to stress me

Really appreciate the help, thank you!

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