Sunday, January 12, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 12 January 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Saturday, January 11, 2020

How do I start my journey to lose weight?

I’m a 23 year old male; I’ve struggled with my weight since i was a child. As of now I’m 6’1 290 lbs. I have a big built but I have big thighs and a big stomach and a chubby face. I don’t know what to do or how to start my diet there’s so much information on weight loss I just don’t know what I should and shouldn’t follow. But I desperately need help. I’d like to get on the right track and hold my self accountable and maintain a strong willpower through my entire journey.

I like to smoke weed; it helps tremendously with my anxiety. Yes I get the munchies obviously but maybe there’s a way i can eat healthy things instead of shit food? Idk. I sound stupid right now but I literally have no where else to turn too. Please help me out guys. I just wanna be healthy and look as good as I used too.

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Any Coping Advice?

Hey guys! So I’m very much at the beginning of my weight loss journey- I’m a nineteen year old female, and my current weight is 290 lbs (5’6). I’ve been using food as an unhealthy coping mechanism for as long as I can remember- but I would really like to change that. I’ve removed most temptations from my house- chips, high sugar foods, etc- but I still find myself trying to fall back into old habits. I’m committed to change my lifestyle to that which is cohesive to first losing, and then maintaining, a healthy body weight; that being said it’s much harder then just writing it out. Does anyone have any advice for turning my attention away from my old snacking habits, and towards more useful thoughts? The mental game of losing weight and gaining a healthier outlook on life is half the battle, it seems.

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Has weight loss impacted your dating life?

5'3, SW: 200, CW: 160, GW: 125.

I just started dating again at my CW. I am using the apps and I am able to get a lot of matches and dates. I have always got at least a second date but I am finding that guys aren't willing to be exclusive or take things further with me after 3-5 dates. Thankfully I have never been ghosted but the reasons are always super vague, most of the time it's because they met someone else. I understand this is part of modern dating, a lot of people are constantly looking for the next best thing. It is strange too because I almost always have great dates, they are never really awkward, we get along well, similar interests and humour etc.

Naturally I cannot shake the feeling that I would be a lot more successful in dating if I was thinner. I have a lot of things going for me and it's weird for me to say this, it feels really narcissistic and I am even cringing as I type but I have always been told I have a pretty face. I get it though, people are more attracted to healthy bodies and that's cool. I guess confidence is a major factor as well. I lack it when it comes to my body and it probably shows. Guys like confident girls.

I confided my thoughts to a friend who has recently dropped from 240 to 140 (5'9) so she is pretty slim now. She said she never had a problem with getting attention or sex when overweight but now she has noticed that guys not only give her that, but they are also more willing to take her seriously and want to commit.

I would like to hear some other stories. I am curious to see how weight loss has impacted your dating life?

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Hi, I'm new here, and would like to ask for...support? To talk about it? Idk. I'm just not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

Hey there, guess I should introduce myself, I'm Michelle. I'm 24, 208lbs, 5'2" and I live in Dallas, TX. I've just joined y'all today. And I'm having a really rough day.

I guess where I'm starting from is first this weight of course, I've started hot yoga a week or so ago, and I've been trying to eat better/think about what I'm eating for the past 10 days. But I'm so depressed about it.

I have always felt it's been a little bit harder to exercise, I was born with cerebral palsy, but it is so mild that most people don't notice until I talk about it. It's an internal struggle, really. I just look like I walk with one tip-toe on the left and bend my knee a little. My left calf is half the size of my right. But inside, its painful to put that heel down, to run, to stretch, hell, even standing too long feels like I'm pulling something. That lack of fine motor control irritates me so much when I'm trying to be more active. Forget the pain, I'm just so upset that shit that's so easy for everyone else, like just to balance on my left leg, I cannot do even if I try for days and days.

And you know mental health & weight loss are connected, right, so like many of us, I've got some of that going on, too. I've had major depression and panic attacks over half my life. I developed PTSD from trauma by 18. And I'm just generally anxious and overthink all the time. I'm not really sure if I've developed an eating disorder, I just think of that as like anorexia or bulimia. But, I'm certainly not thin, nor do I purge after I binge. I do binge, then feel horrible after, but don't really purge. Sometimes, I'll just not eat at all after until I'm starving the next day or whatever. Rinse & repeat.

My diet isn't terrible. I don't drink sodas daily, I'll maybe have one or two in a month. I do drink coffee but not like Starbucks, I make my own espresso lattees/cappuccinos with 2% and no sugar. When I cook, on most nights, I always have veggies, I love broccoli, I love baking salmon, only "bad" stuff really is roasted potatoes or white rice. However, takeout is the big issue I think. Not so much fast food, that's only once a week or so, but I love thai food and ramen and stuff like that. Even at home, I will mimic that stir fry over rice or pad kee mao, e.t.c. I definitely overeat eating out, even if I take some home or tell myself just have half the plate, I feel like crap about it. And sweets.... that's it, I think. Always ending the night with something, if that's a bowl of cereal, half a pint of ice cream, a piece of pie, or even just a serving of chocolate almonds.

I do smoke weed, but I'm not like the typical stoner, per se. I used to smoke all day, eat lots of snacks, junk, but then after college & that I quit for 5 months or so and now I smoke one or two times with my boyfriend or friends in front of the TV before bed.

My boyfriend, since we've lived together, has lost a total of like 70 pounds. He claims its my relatively healthy cooking and him walking half an hour plus every day, but it just seems so much easier for him. Makes me a little sad, even though I'm really proud of him committing for his health. I know it's scientifically harder for women, but it seems REALLY hard, impossible for me to lose that much.

Maybe my goals are unrealistic? My feed is full of celebrity women, weight loss stories, links to videos of extreme weight loss and so on. I just feel so far behind the rest of the world.

My journey has been slow. A couple years ago, I was doing roller derby believe it or not, until I wound up both injured on my disabled "side" and not fitting in with the clique. They'd stick me on the "lazy fat" team or raise lap time requirements for tryouts and such. So moving out of town to transfer colleges seemed like the perfect farewell when really I beat myself up, stuck in that cycle of "I'm not good enough no matter how much I loved skating". Then, I got gastritis or something, I was unable to keep food down for my first semester at the new school. I lost 30 pounds from August to November or something, I was sleeping or in the bathroom basically. My professors wanted to try to talk to me but I didn't even know what was going on. When I couldn't keep water down, I went home and went to the ER. They told me it was probably gastritis, but could also just be anxiety. Which made me feel even worse. Slowly, I recovered, but started eating more because I felt like I'd missed out or something? I just remember going on those first dates with my boyfriend, and our shared love of good food. Austin is a great foodie city.

So, a year ago, I was trying to find an outfit for graduation, and just remember seeing 208 on the scale, and bursting into tears because the dress wouldn't fit, was way too small. I was all boobs and hips in the worst way. My boyfriend held me and said just like I was there for him, he'd support me in this, too. So, I went to this local medical center where they had a monitored weight loss program. The doc points out my cholesterol and whatnot, verbatim I remember "you are VERY overweight, you need to do something..." and so I went upstairs to their weight loss clinic. They showed me that I had to measure food, stop eating junk, count calories, weigh in every week and go over it, but they had a counselor that talked to me about it each week. I kinda miss that part. Even though I've been in therapy for a decade and just started EMDR.

I made progress at that clinic of about 30lbs , but I had to move back to Dallas. Im not sure if it's the depressing memories here, the common sedentary lifestyle, or the fact that pretty much the only entertainment besides going out drinking (which I hate) is to eat or shop. And shopping makes me miserable.

Sorry for the TLDR story, but I just would love some input or support.

What am I missing? Am I going in the right direction this time around? Do y'all feel how I feel? Am I completely screwing this up?

It's time for hot yoga again, I'd better go. But thank you for reading, I hope to hear some of your stories/advice/input. I think it might help me a lot

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Introducing myself + the irony of having only 6-8 pounds to lose -- HELP!!!

Hello everyone. I am Miss Twinkleton, and I would like to shed 6 - 8 pounds and maintain my weight loss. I am 22 years old, 5"2 and currently weigh 116 pounds and I would like to weight anywhere between 108 - 110 pounds.

Now that the basic facts are out of the way, let me express my admiration for the will power of everyone on this subreddit. I cannot even fathom losing twenty or forty pounds, let alone 100+. I sense the absurdness of my position and of this post. One would think that accomplishing my goals would be so easy considering how little weight I have to lose, but it seems the reality is anything but. For several years, I have maintained a weight of 120 - 123 pounds. I tried to shed weight many times, but with no success. I would lose perhaps two pounds at most and put them back on a few weeks later. I consoled myself with the thought that I was not overweight.

Quite by accident, I dropped down to 117 over the past four months. In the midst of undertaking an extended audition tour in a big city, I unwittingly fasted, since I did not have enough money to eat three meals a day. I also used public transportation and walked a lot more to save costs. The weight loss was so unintended that I did not notice it until I returned home and others began to make comments. After catching a nasty flu, I dropped down even further to 112 pounds.

Unfortunately, over the past two weeks, the scale has climbed back up to 116 lbs. I have settled back into my home routine. I cook for my large family, and we all share in purchasing a large grocery haul. I am sure that I am eating more simply because I have access to more food. I eat a balanced and mostly vegan diet and have done so for all my life, but I am concerned about quantity. I have introduced gym workouts for three days out of the week, but the scale keeps creeping upwards.

My questions are:

  1. how do I ensure that I lose weight at a healthy rate? Should I stick to eating 1400 calories a day and keep up with the exercise?
  2. I have never counted calories in my life! I wonder whether or not I should revert to skipping a meal or two a day, since that method served as the catalyst of my previous weight gain.
  3. What are some common misconceptions about losing weight? Are there any other subredditors who have experienced dropping only ten or twenty pounds?

It feels frustrating fixating on those insignificant 6 - 8 lbs, and at the same time I am aware I might come across as a complainer, especially considering the number of brave folkswho have shed fifty pounds or more through sheer dedication. I am very grateful for the time you are taking to read this post and I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

With thanks,

Miss Twinkleton

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The latest (hopefully final) restart! F48 5’5” 159.6 > 154.4 = -5 lbs in the first 6 days

tldr CICO, “eat back” 60% of exercise calories, and no one to talk to about my modest little success getting started again losing weight!

CICO using SparkPeople’s recommended calories to lose 2 lbs per week (the max they allow). I’ve been near or slightly over the recommended top of the range of 1500-1850/day, which feels like a HUGE decrease from what I was eating before, (when I was not tracking).

Doing a 6 day/week home exercise program and “eating back” 60% of the calories my Polar heart rate monitor says I burned during the exercise.

Really struggling to do the exercise first thing in the morning every day! I know the weight loss is due to the calorie deficit but I previously lost weight doing CICO and this home exercise program, and I have some kind of mental thing about doing the 2 together. Like if I can force myself to do the exercise per the schedule, everything else in my life will fall into place too. (There is plenty else in my life that desperately needs improvement/continued very hard work!) There’s no way I’ll exercise if I don’t do it before work or anything else - at least as far as I have willpower these days.

I used to buy into the “limited willpower” theory but apparently psychology research has now debunked that limit (please don’t correct me if I’m wrong, I WANT to believe it’s unlimited). Or, maybe it’s not that people with more willpower can force themselves more, but rather that they focus on the fun experience as well as the later benefits of exercise, so they want to exercise rather than forcing it. I really want to have this mentality about exercise and more!!!

Anyone else just starting again, like I am? Honestly I had to write about this here because my SO is already extremely overweight, and probably going to start taking the same med that made him get overweight in the first place, again. Because even gaining more weight is better than not taking the med, and no other med works. I sympathize with him and feel like it’s gloating to mention my own weight loss. Haha/sadly there’s not anyone else in my life that I would want to tell either!

Keep up the efforts, my friends, we’ve got this!!!

Edit: I’m vegan. I was hesitant to mention it, but I should be real.

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