Wednesday, September 8, 2021

How to focus on diet with a Traumatic life event

I've been on a pretty long weight loss journey, on and off for 4 years, and lost around 70 pounds. I'm 25yo and 5'7, current weight 224. About three months ago, I found out that my dad is terminally ill. I've been taking care of him around the clock along with my siblings and it's been so hard to stay focused. Luckily I haven't gained but there has been zero loss. I cannot seem to stay on the CICO train like before. But I am working out daily which is something.To anyone who had been in a similar situation like this before, any advice? How did you deal with it? I know it's normal for this to take a back seat, but having a positive goal in mind would be a good thing for me atm.

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Fatalistic Mentality About Losing Weight - A Gal Just Needs To Vent

Hi all,

(NSFW for a progress pic showing my midriff).

This is my first time posting to this sub. I've read quite a bit and I'm so impressed with everyone and their realistic attitude towards weight loss. I've never posted about my weight or goals before, but I'm glad that there's a space for me to do just that.

I don't know if it's because some bad stuff has happened in my life lately, but I find myself having a very fatalistic attitude towards my weight loss goals.

I've always been healthy and fairly active. I love lifting weights and back in 2018, I lost 14 lbs in 3 months. Maybe my life was much happier back then, I don't know. I'm 5'1, 27 years old, and currently 155lbs. My goal weight is 135lbs. I have no thyroid problems or anything that would prevent me from losing weight.

I had a partner who was proud of the fact that I'd be healthy and go to the gym, after telling me that I wasn't as nice looking as I could have been. He said he'd be more attracted to me if I was slimmer than I was at the time. https://imgur.com/3JeXp7n That was me at 135ish lbs back in 2014-2015 (when he told me I could have looked better.) I never gained the freshman 15 in college. I gained the senior 20 at which point I looked like this: https://imgur.com/HAEv56b I was round 155lbs at that time (which is where I am now in 2021). I guess I started being healthy just for him but something happened and I fell off the wagon. I yoyo-ed a lot since then, but I never got back to being 142lbs.

I left my boyfriend at the beginning of this year. I got tired of not being good enough. My weight and my overall look wasn't something he was happy with. I don't think I have a right to blame someone else for my insecurities, and the fact is that I've always had a problem with how I looked, even before I met him. In that first photo I showed you all, I didn't think I was good enough. But now that I look much worse https://imgur.com/de57R78, that feeling has only increased. I'm at a point where I'm wondering what the hell is wrong with me. Why can't I just do what I know how to do: count my calories, lift, do cardio, all the things that I know will get me where I need to go?

I have a weird thing in my head that if I don't see results by tomorrow, it's not worth it. All I've been doing lately is working and coming home. I've since dealt with that and reduced my hours. I guess I'm not entirely sure what it is I'm looking for. Maybe just someone to tell me that I can do it and to not give up? And that there are others who are struggling like this as well? I don't know. I think the concept of time is scaring me too. Like if I take too long, something bad will happen? Maybe it messed with me a lot that someone so close to me didn't like how I looked. I'm struggling between self acceptance and wondering what others think of me. No one's ever called me fat, but that should be irrelevant. If I don't feel like I'm at my best, it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks. I'm just...a mental, emotional, and physical mess at the moment.

It's funny, I put my foot down and bought a whole bunch of fruits and vegetables because I decided I was gonna go that way. Turns out I'm pretty allergic to pineapple and had a really bad allergic reaction for the past 3 days. I know what to do, I guess I just want someone to believe in me...because I'm having a hard time believing in myself after my break up and a whole lot of other garbage that's happened this year. This has been the hardest year of my life in a lot of ways. It's hard to remember that I can do what I set my mind to..

Thanks for listening all.

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Long haul weight loss

SW 344 CW 306

I’ve yoyo dieted all my life, usual story, I end up bigger every time.

This time I decided I was going to aim for 1lb a week and I go to gym four days per week, had a personal trainer for a while so I still follow that routine. It’s taken me around 8 months, it’s been slow but I have lost every week and I am still eating relatively high calories - however I am now getting bored and restless. I feel myself slipping back into heavier restriction and feeling weaker at the gym which is giving me binges urges for the first time in a long time.

I guess I’m looking to see if anyone as big as me managed to lose their weight over the long haul. If I still with slow but easy approach it will take me a couple of years still.

Positives: my fitness is significantly better

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Weight loss stalled and I'm struggling with will-power

I've hit a plateau. I know it's just temporary and the scale will move, but man. It's so much easier to be diligent when you see the payoff.

For about 2 weeks the scale hasn't moved one pound. I'm weighing myself every morning before I eat breakfast. I'm staying strictly below 1200 calories a day and working out, and I know it's accurate because I measure and log literally every single little bite that I take. My cravings and hunger have crept back in this week and it sucks. I haven't waivered, but food is back on my mind. When I was seeing a 2-3lb loss every week it helped me be motivated and I didn't battle hunger or cravings, but when I stall like this I start feeling frustrated and start getting hungry again. It's like I feel like the treats and goal gets pushed further and further away.

I made a promise to myself that I would not eat a single cookie or piece of junk until I go to Mexico in November, and I've stuck with that because I know if I start allowing cheats I'll fall off the wagon again. I have a horrible relationship with food. Last night my son had a baseball game and I told him if he played well we'd get a DQ blizzard on the way home. Normally I could order him one and be fine not wanting one myself, but last night I *almost* ordered one for myself. It sucks.

This is frustrating because I was mentally doing really well with this, until this week.

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Advice Needed

Hello, I need some advice with my weight loss plan.

I started off at 98kg, and I am currently stuck in a plateau at around 88-89kg for around 4 months, my goal is to reach around 78-80kg.

Gender:Male

Age:17

Height:172cm

Weight:89kg

Bodyfat%:25.9 (calculator.net/body-fat-calculator)

I do weight training 6 days a week, I am also trying to start up doing cardio as well. I am getting stronger with my lifts so maybe i could be putting on muscle.I am currently eating 1913 calories(30%Protein,35%Carb,30%Fat).I have a fitness tracker but it says on average I am burning 3500 calories every day, which I am assuming is a big overestimation. I don't know if I am eating over my deficit and have got the numbers wrong. I am very sure I am not misreporting my food as I weigh all my food.

Any advice is appreciated. Thanks

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Is there a significant difference between walking a lot at once and walking for smaller distances, but multiple times a day?

I am a 24yo male (5'8", 190 lbs) and I want to set a goal to reach 20,000 steps every day but I also work full-time at an office job, so it's hard to find that time to walk. Also, I'm not trying to walk a bunch in the morning and after work because I personally find long extended walks quite boring, so I figured I would try taking some shorter walks every hour at work.

Would this be as effective for weight loss as walking all of that in one go, or are there big differences? I know that there are other variables, like how fast I am walking, but is there a significant difference between walking close to 20,000 steps in one walk and taking 1,000 steps every hour?

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7 Science-Backed Foods for Healthy Aging

Eating right (and exercising) is important, no matter your age. But as you get older, certain foods you choose can go a long a way to helping keep your skin youthful, mind sharp, and reduce your risk of age-related disease. Here are seven foods to help you age healthfully:

1. Berries

Berries are full of antioxidants and fiber

Whether you prefer them blue or black, sweet like a strawberry or tart as a raspberry, these beautiful fruit jewels are all bursting with a variety of antioxidants, vitamins, minerals and fiber, which can help reduce your risk of cancer and other chronic diseases.

Blueberries, for example, are rich in protective plant compounds that can help fight inflammation.1 Raspberries and blackberries are packed with fiber, which can help with digestive health and may help lower your risk for heart disease and Type 2 diabetes.1,2 And the darker the berry hue, the richer they are in flavonoids like anthocyanins that may help with memory—key to healthy aging.3

Add your favorite berries to yogurt or oatmeal, toss a handful into a smoothie or salad, or check out these tasty ways to enjoy strawberries and cook with blueberries! >

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2. Salmon

Salmon is a key source of omega-3s

It’s all about the omega-3s in this fatty fish. Research suggests consuming omega-3 fatty acids can help keep your heart and eyes healthy and may lower your risk of Alzheimer’s and certain cancers, letting you age healthfully. Other fatty fish include mackerel and tuna, as well as herring and sardines.3,4

Need more reasons to eat salmon? Here are eight of them, plus four simple recipes to get more salmon into your diet! >

3. Spinach

Nutrient-dense spinach has vitamin A and vitamin K

Spinach is among the most nutrient-dense foods, meaning it delivers lots of vitamins and minerals for very few calories; it sets a strong foundation for your health both now and as you age.5 It’s loaded with vitamin A, which is important for normal vision and your immune system.5,6 It’s also a good source of vitamins K, C and E, plus antioxidants that protect against cancer.5 Dark leafy greens may also help improve memory, according to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics.3

Enjoy your spinach in a salad or simply sautéed. You can also bake it into a hot spinach and artichoke dip or even work it into your morning flapjacks (!) with this spinach banana pancake recipe. >

4. Nuts

Nuts have anti-inflammatory properties and promote good heart health

You’ve heard eating nuts is good for your heart, but did you realize how essential they are for healthy aging? Research suggests they may reduce bad cholesterol levels, inflammation connected to heart disease and the risk of developing blood clots, according to the Mayo Clinic.7 Walnuts may improve cognitive function, and growing research suggests that consuming nuts and seeds every day can lower your risk of diabetes and heart disease, and may also lengthen your life.3,8

Here are 10 of the healthiest nuts to help you get these and other health benefits. Just don’t go too, well … nuts on nuts. They are high in calories, so limit your portions to two tablespoons per serving.

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5. Avocado

Avocado makes your skin better and reduces your blood pressure

You love it on toast—and your skin loves you for eating it. Studies suggest there’s a beneficial association between avocado consumption and skin health, and they contain a variety of nutrients that may prevent the negative effects of aging and help protect against UV damage.9 Avocados are also rich in potassium, which is especially important as you age: consuming adequate potassium and limiting sodium may lower your risk of high blood pressure.9,2

Learn more about the health powers of avocados (and how to get that pit out) here! > And if you want to try an inspired twist on your avocado toast standard, check out these three recipes Nutrisystem customers are buzzing about. >

6. Red Bell Pepper

Red bell peppers have the vitamin C your body needs to make collagen

This brightly colored veggie is loaded with vitamin C—a nutrient your body needs to make collagen, which helps the healthy aging of your skin by maintaining its elasticity.10,11 And research suggests a higher intake of vitamin C is associated with a lower likelihood of a wrinkled appearance and age-related skin dryness.12,13 Vitamin C also acts as an antioxidant, protecting cells from damage and boosting the immune system.11 Red peppers are also a good source of vitamin A, which helps the heart, lungs, kidneys and other organs work properly.10,6

Want to grow your own peppers at home? Here’s how! >

7. Yogurt

Yogurt is rich in probiotics and calcium

It’s got the calcium your bones and teeth need.2,14 It’s got the protein your muscles need. Some even have the probiotics that your gut and immune system need!14 There’s also research suggesting that yogurt is good for heart health, and eating it as part of a healthy diet can help prevent long-term weight gain.14,15

Choose plain, nonfat or Greek-style yogurt and try one of these nine parfait recipes perfect for every palate! >

*Always speak with your doctor before starting a new diet or making any dietary changes.

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Sources:

  1. https://www.aicr.org/resources/blog/enjoy-the-health-benefits-of-berries/
  2. https://www.eatright.org/health/wellness/healthy-aging/special-nutrient-needs-of-older-adults
  3. https://www.eatright.org/health/wellness/healthy-aging/4-types-of-foods-to-support-memory
  4. https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/Omega3FattyAcids-Consumer/
  5. https://www.ars.usda.gov/plains-area/gfnd/gfhnrc/docs/news-2013/dark-green-leafy-vegetables/
  6. https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/VitaminA-Consumer/
  7. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/heart-disease/in-depth/nuts/art-20046635
  8. https://www.health.harvard.edu/nutrition/why-nutritionists-are-crazy-about-nuts
  9. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3664913/
  10. https://www.naturefresh.ca/bell-pepper-faqs-facts/
  11. https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/VitaminC-Consumer/
  12. https://academic.oup.com/ajcn/article/86/4/1225/4649573
  13. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5579659/
  14. https://health.clevelandclinic.org/is-yogurt-good-for-you/
  15. https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/food-features/yogurt

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