Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Stage 2 update

Currently I’m at 271.1(61lbs down). I’m 1lb away from completing the step 2 portion of my weight loss which is pretty exciting. I was off by about a month and a half but I did have a maintenance month so let’s say 15 days off lol. Let’s go over some changes or things I’ve stuck too since the last one:

  1. Stats- I haven’t come close to beating the streak of 53 days without being in a caloric surplus, but that’s ok. That’s never my intended goal and life started lifeing itself. I’m currently 176/196 days in being in a deficit for the year and 215/235 days since the start of my current weightloss push. In 33 weeks, I’ve lost an average of 1.84lbs a week and that includes one maintenance month due to a limited time double job and multiple events. I think I did go perfect in may though lol. Once again, most of the surplus days involved eating with friends, but I have since been able to even manage these days with how the last week went where me and a friend worked the fair and I didn’t go over once(tons of walking as well).

2.Nutrition- combining 2 and 3 of my last update because it’s really molded into something where all the food is the same. So, I used to eat breakfast mainly by cooking or a snack here or there or eating out here or there. I’ve since been integrating any type of food into my day to day. Frozen food, eating out, cooking, fruits, veggies, it really doesn’t matter to me. Carbs especially have gotten consumed more than any other macro and we’re talking about soda, candy, along with fruit or potatoes. Literally ate a burger, with a soda and a vitamin water, and I’ll probably have a snack later, a game to play, and dinner. I’ll go into why it doesn’t matter later. My goal here is to take control of all food rather than avoiding something because someone calls it “bad” or “unhealthy”. I treat food as “low performance” or “high performance” but even then simple carbs can be a valuable thing for someone heavy in cardio. This is something I will stick to u til my goal changes to eating for fitness reasons rather than weight loss.

3.Exercise- As I said above, exercise I do is all cardio but I could be walking, sprinting, etc. I play a lot of basketball so the high MET is really putting my caloric burn up a ton, especially since I’m playing for 1-2 hours as a runner. I still have the same knee issue and I’ve even gathered a couple more unique injuries I’ve had to deal with probably from the lack of muscle maybe, but I’m doing my best to adjust and stay healthy: however, given last weeks deal where I was only able to walk, I feel much more confident I can lose weight without the need for it. I’ve come to the conclusion that I will start lifting at the 210-230 mark with my brother or my friend so I can really turn the heat up, but for now it’s just weight loss.

  1. Motivation- no real change here. I don’t need motivation at all, but if I do feel there’s something off because you know emotions can take over, I always look over my data to keep me focused on the overall progress. I know, it’s never easy when you see the scale and see it don’t move, but with each plateau passed, it makes this much more easier the 2nd, 3rd, and so on time.

  2. Hunger Levels- anytime I’ve had issue with hunger, it’s when I don’t eat periodically enough throughout the day. Mostly happens when I have a pretty heavy breakfast from eating out somewhere cause my fam wants like a breakfast burrito or something like that or my own doing eating too many times before work and having to survive. I do treat it as a warning rather than needing to eat so it’s pretty easy to ignore it. However, I will just eat something small once every couple hours to manage it mostly in the form of a serving or two.

6- water intake- probably my biggest issue here. Not because I hate water or anything. It just feels like a chore to me lol. I have been trying to get in more and I know I do need it when exercising but just have trouble reminding myself to drink do something. I think Itol be easier when I’m in the maintaining stage so I’m not subconsciously worried about the weight since I know it doesn’t mean anything regarding that.

7-body measurements- my waist has dropped to a fluctuation of 52-50.5. That’s the only one I really focused on but yeah it’s about a drop of 4-5.5 inches since the last one. I think my arm dropped 1.5 inches, my leg still looks the same, but maybe there’s some change there. My neck lost an inch or two. I think I have a pretty good idea about how long it will take for there to be a change in inch, so I can start preparing for what clothes are gonna probably have to go.

8-clothing- which brings me to that. Kinda crazy. I have 114 on my sheet, and only 26 are left that can’t fit good for normal purposes. I’ve already gotten rid of multiple hoodies, I’ve added about 7-10 shirts to my gym wear, and I’ve modified the ones I was currently wearing. If you have seen my last update, there was this one flannel shirt hoodie I mentioned that I really wanted to fit in and I was shocked that I’m actually only about 1 inch away from it being a complete comfy fit. I had leave the bottom button off but other than that, loved it. Of course, I’m looking to fit into the other clothes, but not really sure where to go from there. If my trends are correct, I’m gonna have more clothes that don’t fit than clothes that do going the other way which will be bittersweet, but the clothes I like getting will be much more attainable. I really have an issue with shorts because I only have one pair that is pretty small when I get down while the rest of them will make my legs look like toothpicks. Time to look around lol.

9-mindset- this will be a new one I’m adding, but it will be more or less the same. I’ve now changed my mindset to a longterm life goal of how I want to navigate my body composition for now, later, next 10 years, and life. It could change but the habits I’ve now established will be implemented regardless of the mindset. The mindset being I don’t take food out of any of my diets unless they don’t support the goal I’m planning. So, for losing weight, I don’t need to take anything out especially with cardio, I just need to shorten serving sizes. Because basketball is prominent in the exercise, I’m afforded more forgiveness to simple carbs. If I were to take on fitness bodybuilding, I put more emphasis on protein intake and I will probably have to up my serving sizes for “bulking stages” and lower my sizes for “cutting stages”. If I were to get old where high intensity sports become a pastime to me, then I’ll look to eat more clean for the goal of longevity, but that’s how I’m gonna operate from now on. As I get used to each stage, it will be clockwork, but the way I eat will stay the same give or take.

So there’s my update I’ve added a couple changes to my current goals

Stage 1:300lbs✅

Stage 2:270lbs(1.1lb)

Stage 3:240lbs(31.1lbs) EST:11/25

Stage 4:210-220lb(51.1lbs-61.1lbs) EST:03/26

Stage 5:maintain/optimize fitness(foreseeable future)

Any questions about things I do in detail, you’ll see me in the comments 👍🏾 until the holidays

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Monday, July 14, 2025

Should I lose any more weight?

so i have been on weight loss journey for 4 months now, I am 5'3 my starting weight is around 180 pounds, i gained a lot of my weight due to relationship weight and birth control, my previous weight before 180 pounds was around 125-127 pounds. i was pretty acitve person, but since i gained almost 50 pounds i stopped being active, but in the begining of the year i started going to gym for the first 2 months but didnt limited my diet that much. On march i started to properly eating in a calorie deficit, and after 4 months, i dropped more than 50 pounds, my current weight is around 128 pounds.

I dont know why going into this, my goal weight is always 120 pounds becuase this is the goal weight even before i gained the weight (like when i was around 125-127 pounds). But i looked at my pictures when i was around 125 -127 pounds like years ago, even though i am a couple pound heavy, i looked way skinner.

Heres are my current measurment:

my waist is 63-64 cm (around 25 inches)

Hips is 37 inches

Thighs: 19 in

Neck: 30 cm (11.8 in)

Bust: 92 cm (36.2 in)

So i dontk now if i should keep losing weight to 120 pounds or start maintaining now cuz i also dont want to look just skinny i have decent amount muscle as well and some abs definiton and i certianly dont want to lose my curve??? any advice would be helpful!

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rambling: how i am dealing with food noise, cravings, constant hunger

hey guys! i just wanted to ramble here about my journey to a calorie deficit. hopefully this can help someone <3

background: i've been counting calories for about 11 years now. constantly stuck in yoyo dieting. gaining a bunch of weight. losing it. gaining it AGAIN.. and a bit more on top D: it was always because i would cut my calories extremely drastically and could never stick to the deficit long term. [i was bullied severely so i would always want to lose weight as fast as possible so those comments would stop]

i went through one of the most stressful times of my life last year and used food to cope. as a result, i lost all my hunger cues and honestly i suspect i had some insulin resistance problem as i had a) constant sugar cravings b) never feeling full even if i was eating enough calories c) binging episodes back to back d) constant food noise ....the list goes on :(

i decided to go on a calorie deficit again this summer. this time, it was going to be different. i decided, i would not race against time. if i needed 1 year to lose the weight. 2 years. so be it. therefore, i kept my deficit minimal + closer to my maintenance. initially when i started out.. i was actually struggling because i was used to eating 3000-4000 kcals throughout my college semester 😭 and it all evened out. i focused on food quality, increasing my fiber + protein. i also fixed my sleep. i have a HUGE sweet tooth.. ik too much fruit is bad for u but i'd munch on a bunch of watermelon and oranges which i think is much better than refined cookies + juice boxes id be sipping on everyday prior to this lol. these things were GAME CHANGERS to my food noise + constant cravings. (even tho i initially hated the taste of a lot of "health foods" .. ik.. i'm an adult😭 )

i've been on my deficit for about 6-7 weeks now. and have just started tapering down my deficit more after eating closer to maintenance. i finally feel full after my meals again and don't feel constant hunger! even the luteal phase hunger is gone!!!

sometimes, we aren't feeding out bodies the right things it needs. ofcourse, CICO this and CICO that. however, WHAT you eat is for your health. HOW MUCH you eat is for your weight.

i would also struggle to be in my deficit when exercising as i would get RAVENOUS (even smth as little as 10k steps). hence why initially, i focused on my food quality first as weight loss in 90% nutrition. i rly hope to just eat at my new deficit for a couple of weeks .. see how i am doing and then start to incorporate some form of physical activity.

i really hope if by making these small changes in a stepwise manner will allow me to stick to them for a longer time rather than ditching them again. and turning back to square one.

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I’ve dieted for years but the weight won’t come off..

OK, so the title is obviously Bait-ey. I have dieted for years. Calories in calories out, daily tracking. I know how much I’m eating down to the calorie. I can eyeball portions to the gram, Ive verified with a scale. the problem is not that I’m eating at a deficit and not losing. I’m not making any claim that I’ve eaten 1200 cal for the last six months and I haven’t lost a pound. The weight that im maintaining makes total sense given my intake, so the problem isn’t a discrepancy there, it’s just that I CANT. FORCE MYSELF. INTO A DEFICIT. CaIl it a willpower problem, but I get ravenously hungry with alarming frequency. I eat clean, but when I’m hungry I can’t focus at all and my mood is very poor. I will be successful with minor, reasonable deficits (I’ve tried daily deficits as low as 200 cals!) for a couple of weeks at a time, but will inevitably wake up very hungry one day and go on the most unbelievable animal like binge you’ve ever seen. I hate eating, I don’t want to think about it and would love to save money by lowering my TDEE through weight loss. but I cannot keep on with this fruitless binge cycle which has seen my focus and productivity dramatically impaired. Clearly traditional CICO does not work for me. Has anyone had a similar struggle with CICO? Have you found alternatives to reduce appetite and Decenter food from your life? Edit: if you’re going to downvote I’d at least like to know why :(((

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Sunday, July 13, 2025

Who has actually successfully lost belly fat?

I know you can’t spot reduce fat, and it all comes down to calories in/calories out, but I have lost about 12 pounds and want to lose about 12-15more and my weight has not budged for quite some time .

Further, most of my weight collects in my midsection so I look like I have a beer belly (even tho I don’t drink) despite my weight loss

Was has actually worked for you? Walking 10k steps a day? Running? Eliminating sweets? Lifting? Something else? All the above? I am feeling really discouraged recently. I am a male in my 30s if that matters.

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Grandpa told me that no one will ever marry me because of my weight loss

I (27F) have recently returned from vacation and visited my grandpa for the first time in 6 weeks. My family isn't big on bodyshaming and would rarely comment on people's bodies and honestly I don't think i look too different from before i traveled. I was just happy I managed to lose weight on vacation when it's so easy to get distracted and want to treat yourself. Anyways, he pulled me aside and told me I look much thinner now and that no one will ever marry me. It wasn't until last month I was no longer "overweight" using the BMI measurements (I lost 22 pounds) and I'm not done with my weight loss journey yet. I also spent a lot of money on a nutritionist to help me manage my weight and give me my meal plans every week. Mum told me he just "finds bigger women more attractive" but it's still so heartless with all the money spent, eating healthier, working out for 5 months. I wish people knew that not every opinion needs to be said out loud.

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Demotivated at gym

Hope it’s okay to post this here. I’m hoping to hear some positive experiences with gaining muscle definition so I don’t lose all hope.

I train 3-4 times a week and do dumbbells/kettlebells and treadmill. I’m not amazing at it, I can’t run but I’ve been pretty consistent for the last 6 months. I currently lift 6kg dumbbells which sounds pathetic I know but I started the year with 3kgs so at least that’s progress. I know that my muscles are getting bigger, I can feel the difference in them especially my triceps. But my body fat according to my scale is 38% (down from 40%, again pathetic but it’s took me 5 months just to lose 10lbs). So I feel like I’m doing this work and no one can see it as I’m just a whale. I know I have to lose the fat first so am I wasting my time building muscle and should I just focus on losing weight? But I also know that resistance training is good for weight loss, I’m so confused. FYI I’m 150lbs & 5ft.

And then I get super jealous when I see slim women that I know don’t go to the gym and they have biceps, like lovely toned well defined arms and they don’t lift. And if I tell people I lift they probably think I’m delusional as my arms are just enormous. And there’s no chance of anyone seeing the quads in my thighs.

Eurgh I hate it.

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