I'm down just over 50lbs. My husband has not made much comment on my progress. I asked him not to because he doesn't celebrate me in a way I feel celebrated.
He started off kinda making comments like "of course you're going with the vegetarian omelette" or "are you sure you can eat that?"
These comments are well-meaning and supportive, but I was and am still feeling insecure about sharing my weight loss with anyone. I don't want excess commentary on my choices from family and close friends.
Anyways, tonight when we were having our adult time, my husband went to grab my thighs. They've always been his favorite part of my body. *Cue pause* and barely audible "wtf??"
I was like "what's wrong?"
And he said "Well I guess I just hadn't realized how your body has changed. There's a lot less to grab than there used to be" (MASSIVE EYE ROLL to this bc I haven't dropped any pants sizes)
I was torn between feeling flattered and self conscious. I told him when I started that I'll likely wind up with loose skin and he said he would love me no matter what. Anyways, there's my kinda sorta NSV for today!
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