Tuesday, April 13, 2021

Feeling so defeated

Hey guys, first time posting. I’ve debated actually posting for a while but I just feel so defeated, I feel like I need to speak to some people that might understand my situation. To give some background, I’m a 23F, sitting at 202lbs (my heaviest weight ever). I’ve been overweight most of my life, but around grade 11-12 I lost a lot of weight through severe restriction and strict keto. I managed to get to a point where I was actually comfortable with my body, but looking back now I realize I did it through some really unhealthy and unsustainable ways. I maintained my weight of ~135lbs for about a year, then got into my first serious relationship and noticed some weight coming on. By the time that relationship ended, I’d probably gained about 15lbs. I had great habits though, working out at the gym, clean eating, all that. Then I got into my next serious relationship and covid hit, two things that really didn’t help my weight gain. The biggest struggle for me, however, is that I’ve realized that I think I’m either somewhat addicted or dependent on smoking weed, and the munchies after are what absolutely ruin me. I could have a great day of clean eating (exercising consistently is still hard for me), and then I just obliterate my calories with an awful binge session. Over the past year and a half I’ve probably smoked almost every night (minus a few weeks where I’d successfully stopped smoking but fell back on the wagon) and gained ~40-50lbs. I’m just so disappointed in myself for getting to where I am, and just how much I hate myself and my body. I know that my weight loss journey will include a lot of things that aren’t necessarily weight loss related (addiction and binge eating recovery), but I guess I just wanted some insight from some people who might’ve gone through similar struggles and might have some advice for where to start and how to not get overwhelmed? I’m just struggling so much and I’m having such a hard time getting through the days lately. Thanks everyone, I appreciate it so much ❤️

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First time in 8 years I'm not obese!!!

A little about me, I am 197cm tall, 29 years old, and I was kind of fit throughout my teens but when I met my sons mom I started gaining weight, I was at 75kgs when I met her and when my son was born (I was 20) I was at 97kgs, and a few years later I was at 160kgs!!! Seriously I just wasn't happy, I convinced myself that it was ok if I die early, I will probably get to see my son be an adult.

When I saw how big I really was though, I couldn't believe it. I knew I was killing myself, but I looked like a huge ogre, kids were terrified of me haha! I eventually felt I wanted to go back to the old me, feeling good about myself, so at around 160kgs I started losing weight, but I was not serious, after 3 years of trying to lose weight I had only lost 25kgs, so I was still stuck at 135kgs. Sure, better... But I felt like I had failed super hard. I went back and forth between diet and eating junk.

This year though, things have changed drastically for me. We started a weight loss competition in our family since most of us are obese, or really heavy, between jan1 and apr1 and the loser had to eat something disgusting like pig brains, etc, and I wasn't going to lose to my baby brother. So I started limiting calories and I trained regularly, and I went from 135.3kgs to 119.5kgs and I won the competition with 0.1%, felt good! I decided not to stop though, because I am in a really good place right now, and when I force myself to train even when I dont want to I end up feeling a lot better than I did before I trained. And I also have a bet with a friend of mine that I have to weigh 100kg by july 16th, else I have to run around in a thong in my city for 3km and send it on instagram live. I'm not going to do that lol. My town is way too small and I dont want ppl coming up to be in the store commenting on my bum.

Anyways, today I weighed in at 116.2kgs, which means by bmi standards I am just below obesity level. I know that tomorrow I might be at 116.8kg and be obese again, but it still feels like, not really an accomplishment but rather a milestone in my journey. I know that this time I will actually get to a healthy weight, because I actually eat the right foods so even though I do feel hungry at times, its not nearly as bad as it used to be. And I also train even when I feel like making excuses for why I can't. That last reason is huge for me, and I think this is possible because I bought an exercise bike to have at home instead of going to the gym, so I just go to my room and start without thinking about it.

Training schedule: 50min on my bike 2x a day with one day rest every 2 weeks or 3 weeks.
Kcal consumption: 1600-2000 / day

Thoughts about that: Honestly I feel great doing this, but I know I really should start lifting weights, but I just strongly dislike weights but cardio is for the most part actually really fun for me. When I get into it I like seeing how far I can push it. I have giant sweat puddles on my floor after each session and I feel great. But my bmr is going down for sure and I will probably have more lose skin than I have to have. And maybe I am eating too few calories, Im not sure. I am losing weight rapidly as of late, in march I actually lost 9kgs which is a lot. So I might have to rethink my kcal consumption and possibly switch out one cardio session every other day for a full body workout at the gym with weights.

Please let me know your thoughts about this, do you think I'm heading down a bad path doing only cardio? Is my kcal too low? Please share from your own experience.

Regards

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A little motivation

First a little backstory.....I’ve been on a weight loss journey for the past 2 years. I’ve lost 30 pounds without really trying. (Just being more active stopped eating fast food, etc.) Now I’m actually trying to lose 18 pounds before I get married to meet my goal weight of 145ish (I’m 5’4). I’ve been really consistent with working out with a personal trainer, following a good meal plan, and being active overall. But making weight-loss a primary goal has made my progress seem slow and I can’t help but compare myself to others. Also, when I slip off the wagon a bit I worry I’ve undid all my good progress. For anyone struggling like me here’s some motivation and reminders for myself: 1.) Focus on the non scale victories like how you feel, your confidence, how much healthier you are now. 2.) Recognize it’s not realistic to eat 100% clean all the time and a couple slip ups won’t undo your progress. This is a lifestyle change and by staying consistent overall you’re going to make progress. 3.) Social media is fake and all those bodies you compare yourself too have been specifically posed and edited to make them look as good as possible. 4.) You’re beautiful, desirable and capable as the person you are right now and in every stage of your journey.

Stay strong everyone ❤️

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Monday, April 12, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 13 April 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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The quarantine fifteen became the quarantine twenty five.

So, last March when people started joking about everyone gaining weight I puffed up my chest and decided that wouldn’t be me. I logged my calories, got outside for a walk everyday. Did pretty well, managed to lose a few pounds.

Then came summer and no end in sight to the pandemic. I don’t like working from home. First world problem, I know, but the isolation was getting to me. I enjoy my social office. I let the good habits slide a little. Maybe in the new year. Then the new year came and it was clear I wouldn’t get back to work until a vaccine was out and widely distributed. (I’m in Canada, so I’m looking at late summer probably). I stopped going for walks in the cold winter. I stopped logging my calories. I noticed some weight gain. I figured maybe 10 pounds.

I stepped on a scale yesterday. 25 pounds. Three ish years work of weight loss (I’m not a fast loser) undone. I feel so disappointed with myself.

I know it’s not a linear path and today was #1 of a fresh start. I’ll get there. Back to work in 5 or 6 months. That’s time to be able to fit into my work clothes again. Just putting this out there for anyone in the same boat. It’s not a failure. It’s just a blip on the chart.

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What "lesser" side effect of weight loss are you most looking forward to?

I've been overweight since I was in middle school. I honestly don't know what my face would even look like at a healthy weight and I seriously can't wait to find out. What if I'm handsome?!?!? I know there's a jawline in there somewhere, and I'm not going to stop until I find it.

Regaining lost inches from my nether region is another biggie. Pun intended?

I feel so much more committed now than I ever have in the past, regarding losing weight. I feel like my mind is in the right spot, my routines and eating habits are getting better, and I love thinking about all the little victories as I march toward metaphorical greatness. For once, I'm enjoying the journey, and making changes I can live with forever. I wonder what other things I can look forward to that I haven't even considered yet.

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I fell off the wagon and the wagon left... What now?

I was doing great. For months I was doing fantastic with logging meals, cutting out junk food, working out, all of it. Then I went to the doctor and turns out I'm allergic to an anesthetic and I couldn't use my arm for two weeks. Since I was focused on my arm I let go of my good habits. I haven't worked out in a month, I open my weight loss app but end up getting off it before I read an article or log my meals. I'm not doing anything. Somehow I've not gained weight but I'm not losing anymore. I just don't have the motivation to do it anymore. How do you jump back into all the things you were doing? Now weight loss seems so daunting. My big why doesn't seem as big now. I still have the desire to lose I just don't have the drive. Any advice to get back to it?

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