Saturday, October 16, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 17 October 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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For those of you who had a yo-yoing weight, what got you out of the cycle?

Hello everyone,

The title sums up my question, but here is some context.

I started my weight loss journey in March 2020. So far so good until December 2020, where I had lost 20 pounds (from 170 lbs to 150 lbs, 23F). However, I am stuck there since.

I managed to go down to 143 lbs this summer with IF, but when my semester (at university) started again, my usual stress came back and I do overeat during stressful times.

I am seeing someone for my anxiety. Meditation also helped a lot with that. But I feel like When I have less time in my life to « think » about weight loss, I slip into my bad habits again. I would like to make permanent changes in my lifestyle to lose and maintain my weight afterward. Although I know how to do it (move more, eat less by any method that I tried), there’s something I can’t quite figure out.

I do exercice a lot and love it (run minimum 5k per day), and I move a lot during my day so it’s hard for me to really know my caloric deficit per day.

I feel like at first I was super motivated, but now I got tired of the process and can’t go back to my losing trend…

Any tip from ex « yo-yoers » for me? :)

Thank you in advance!

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i've had enough

i spent the past year and a half trying to lose weight only to end up gaining 100+ lbs. I started out at a healthy weight and just wanted to lose like 20lbs. Then, I got stuck in a binge-restrict cycle that I couldn't get out of. I was gaining weight rapidly. I eventually started purging and I thought that would help with at least, but it ended up just fucking up my metabolism and slightly slowing down the rate of weight gain. I was still gaining weight. I went to rehab because my binging and purging got so bad that I was suffering from electrolyte imbalances and suicidal ideation. At this point, there was like an 80lb increase in my weight.

I feel so fucked. I gained even more weight in rehab. My treatment team didn't intend for me to gain weight but my body couldn't figure shit out. It's like it couldn't even process regular eating without gaining weight. I was on a 2000 calorie diet and weighed like 200lb at that point. I should have been losing, but I ended up gaining 20lbs there. I'm only 5' 5" btw.

Don't get me wrong, I'm so happy that I'm no longer binging and purging but I'm so depressed about my weight. I have been doing everything everyone has asked of me: i eat regularly according to my mealplan, I take my meds, I go to therapy, I exercise regularly. I'm doing everything and I just feel like I fucked myself over so much and nobody is helping me to get my body back to where it needs to be. Since the weight gain, I've had an increase in lots of medical problems (hypertension, higher-normal A1C, loss of period, tachycardia, etc.) and yet my treatment team (of doctors, a therapist, and a dietician) don't see it necessary to put me on a weight loss diet. They think my weight will regulate itself with time but its been 6 fucking months and all i've done is gain weight.

I've decided to just say fuck it all and try to lose weight again. Hopefully this time around I won't gain weight. In the past, I've lost a lot of weight successfully but it was again related to disordered eating (eating too little, intense fear of weight gain, etc.).

I just want to be normal. I hate that this is what my body has become. I hate that I let myself get this way.

Starting tomorrow: more exercise, less calories.

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What am I doing wrong? Please help!

Hi All, I am about to rip all my hair out in frustration because I just can't seem to make ANY form of progress in my weight loss and I just don't understand why.
30 year old female. Current weight 76kgs/167lbs, goal weight 65kgs/143lbs.
For the past 3 months I have been stuck at current weight. I joined a gym, where I am going 4 times per week. Focusing on weight training and cardio. I eat the same thing for breakfast and lunch every day, protein shake after my workouts. Dinner I don't count the calories, but it's usually a big plate of veggies and then some meat/brown rice type of situation. I'm drinking lots of water.
I have been taking progress photos, measurements and weighing myself and they are all exactly the same.
Honestly, what am I doing wrong?

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Is this normal for anyone else?

I've lost 35 or so pounds since August, but I still think I look disgusting. I'm still planning to go to my goal weight I'm not stopping even when I start to notice differences obviously, but it would be nice to see.

How is 30 pounds still not enough to see physical changes? I can't take pictures of myself because of various types of dysphorias for comparison but like... I really feel like I'm not making progress despite the scale telling me I am and the fact I know I'm in a huge ass decifict. ( I decided to subtract based on my maintenance weight rather than my current calorie intake needs or whatever.) I feel like it's because I'm tall (5'11), but I read that 30 pounds is a noticeable difference? Then again I started at 280 (my heaviest ever.) And kind have been losing it rapidly. It's been around 3 months and a half now, I was also told in another 3 months it'd be more noticeable but besides how much better I feel internally from being healthy and exercising almost everyday I'm not seeing physical rewards other than the scale letting me know I lost another pound.

I guess I kind of want to know other tall peoples experience with this? Thanks. But also if any long time weight loss people can give me some advice about noticing changes that would be cool too.

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My mother keeps actively triggering me to binge

I'm 17 and have been overweight all my life and have been 300lbs throughout my teenage years. These past two years I recognised that my weight is going to cause me multiple health problems, especially as my father died of a weight related heart attack. I've lost a small amount, down to around 270lbs. And I could have lost a lot more if it wasn't for living with my mother.

My mother has made fun of my weight and appearance for as long as I could remember. By the time I was 5, I was too self conscious about my appearance to leave the car and never tried to make any friends because my mother always told me everyone was repulsed by me. Every day without fail, she remarks on how disgusting or evil I am, and that caused me to stress eat tremendously as a kid, and I still do it now.

But the thing is, despite thinking I look hideous at this weight, she does everything she can to stop me from losing weight. She was very obese herself until she was around 40, and belittling me most likely makes her feel better about her body. I would say I'm trying to eat healthy and want less processed frozen foods. She then proceededs to bring me what I asked for but also a heap of processed junk food that overflows the house. When I cook healthy meals, she says she wants a portion. But then she looks at what I make and turns her nose up at it, because she doesn't eat vegetables or anything without meat. So portion control doesn't work for me. And every other day, she orders take out and keeps asking and asking and asking if I want any. She won't stop until I say yes. And then I'll eat what I've given, because my willpower is so weak when everything I'm craving is right infront of me.

I have no idea what to do. I've tried everything but I keep getting sabotaged by my own mother. I joined a weight loss programme for the first time last week, but it's useless with my mother around. I feel extremely stuck. My mental health and physical health is just always declining every day and it sucks, because I'm really trying to do better, even with a weight like her around my neck

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How do I get my dream body? It feels impossible.

Hi everyone, I have been trying to lose weight for a quite a while now and it just feels impossible.

I can't afford to go to a dietician right now because it's pretty expensive where I live and I don't have enough money saved for it, so I tried to search a bit on internet but I get so discouraged and I end up thinking 'alright, I have to be fat for the rest of my days'.

I am 165 cm and I weight around 78-79 kilos. I want to lose about 25 kilos but I don't know how, when I try to eat less I end up binging and when I try to exercise I end up giving up (I don't want to go to the gym because I feel like everyone's watching and judging me, even tho I know they don't.. but that's how my mind thinks).

Lately I've been watching some tv shows about idols and dancers and every time I watch any episodes I cry and cry because I would love to become a dancer one day but it feels impossible. I tried dancing as to move my body a little more but I het frustrated because I can't do certain movements, I can't catch up with the rhythm, I can't learn a lot because I get tired... and all of that just makes me feel like my body is a burden to me and also to my family.

I guess what I lack is discipline but I don't know how to built it, I don't have a routine, I don't know what to eat and what to don't, I don't know what exercises to do and what I shouldn't do...

I just feel like losing weight would probably resolve 99% of my problems, actually I'm pretty confident about it because growing up with this body gave me so many problems and my mind hot to a point where I don't even want to go out because I don't want people to look at my body...

Please, someone help me, please tell me what should I do, if there are any sources online that I can use for my weight loss journey, if there are any youtube videos I can follow for exercising, even if there are any Podcasts... I'm okay with everything..

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