Tuesday, June 13, 2023

★OFFICIAL WEEKLY★ Tantrum Tuesday: Share your complaints, vents and gripes June 13, 2023

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Monday, June 12, 2023

I feel so bad (vent)

I’ve been going through a tough patch in my weight loss and it’s been really bringin my mood down. Yesterday i was sick and my mom made me food, and it was really good. Now I usually make my foods tracked on my phone with calories and all that but i wasn’t even thinking about it yesterday since i felt so bad, i still feel bad today but i’m better. i asked my mom what she put in it and she gave me a recipe, it had a bunch of things that when i tracked it it shot through my calories for the day, i almost started crying. i can’t stop thinking about it and it keeps making me feel so bad. I know this day doesn’t define my weight loss journey but i can’t stop thinking about it and i need to get it off my chest

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So frustrated with minimal weight loss after months

Months ago, I started working with a bariatric doctor. I started logging everything, working with both a dietician and nutritionist, and talking to the doctor once a week, covered by the Canadian health care system.

At my starting weight, my minimal maintenance calories were like 2500-2700. Gradually (with medical supervision and direction), I lowered calories per day, only 100 at a time. One week, 2200, maybe next week 2100 per day. And now at 1700 per day. And obviously not all calories are equal, so I track and manage macros to get balanced nutrition.

I also returned to the gym, and have gradually increased exercise.

The result? Almost nothing. I lost 5-7 pounds in the first month, and then it slowed and slowed, and now it’s gradually creeping up. At 1700 calories per day.

The doctor did a 3-month evaluation, and said it was kind of odd how little I’ve lost, and ninety-some percent of patients lose much more. 🤷‍♂️🙃

He’s started me on Saxenda to see if that makes a difference.

I’m not looking for magic solutions, but it would be nice to hear if anyone else has had frustratingly near-zero results no matter the change in diet, nutrition, or calorie intake.

Thanks.

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The Power of a Power Nap

If given the choice between a coffee break or a nap, which would you choose?

One third of all Americans choose the nap which, like caffeine, can leave you alert, refreshed, recharged and ready to take on whatever the rest of the day throws at you. One benefit of the nap option: You won’t be tempted to include a couple of biscotti with it.

But not all naps are created equal. The best, say most experts, are relatively short—10 to 30 minutes. Often referred to as “power naps” or “cat naps,” these short snoozes bypass the deeper cycles of sleep that can make you feel groggy and woozy when you wake up.

Physical and Emotional Benefits of Power Naps

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Naps have been shown to benefit physical and emotional health in many ways, including increasing reaction time, boosting mood, helping you think and learn better, and boosting memory.

For example, a research review, published in the Journal of Sleep Research, found that naps can help improve performance on certain tasks, such as addition, logical reasoning, symbol recognition and reaction time.

Other research has shown that napping is a mood regulator. Naps are associated with more positive moods and one study found that taking a short snooze can help you be less impulsive and frustrated, a bonus if you happen to be on a weight loss plan.

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Studies on the effects of napping on memory in seniors point up the importance of keeping your afternoon crash to a minimum for best results. One study, published in the Journal of the American Geriatrics Society, found that older people who napped for 30 to 90 minutes had better word recall (a sign of a healthy memory) than those who didn’t nap or who napped longer than an hour and a half.

According to experts at John Hopkins Medicine, one reason for this finding may be that longer naps are indicative of poor nighttime sleep. If you’re chronically sleep deprived, you may find yourself napping in the daytime whether you want to or not. We’re all equipped with a natural, chemical-driven impulse called “homeostatic sleep drive” which makes us feel pressured to sleep, much like certain body chemicals tell us we need to eat. If you’ve had a good night’s sleep, that drive is low. A nap can keep it low.

How to Get Better Sleep: 6 Habits That Are Disrupting Your Sleep Cycle

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However, while napping may be just the thing for an occasional bad night’s sleep, it isn’t a long-term solution for many nights of insomnia or poor sleep, which is a risk factor for obesity. Research has found that people who don’t get enough sleep at night tend to experience increased appetite and choose foods that are high in calories and carbs.

As long as you aren’t using your naps as a bandage on a bigger sleep problem and you follow some guidelines for making the most of your afternoon siesta, napping can be better than a coffee break for giving you a fresher outlook on life.

Rules to Follow for a Powerful Power Nap

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1. Keep naps brief: 10 to 20 minutes is ideal, says The Sleep Foundation. (FYI: Studies have found that naps shorter than that aren’t as restorative.) To make sure you don’t oversleep, set an alarm on your phone to wake you up.

2. The best time for a short nap is between one and four o’clock in the afternoon, say experts from the Johns Hopkins Sleep Disorders Center. Earlier afternoon is probably better since your nap then is less likely to make it harder to fall asleep at night, according to sleep experts from The Cleveland Clinic.

3. Find a quiet cozy place to sleep. This might be impossible at work, unless you’re fortunate to work at some larger corporations, like Ben & Jerry’s and Google, that supply designated nap spaces for employees to help promote energy and creativity. But if you’re at home, a comfy couch or your bed is a good place to catch a few Zzzs after lunch.

Don’t feel bad if naps don’t come naturally to you or you don’t find them refreshing or helpful. Studies have found that regular nap lovers seem to be hardwired to stay in lighter stages of sleep, while infrequent nappers fall into deeper sleep which can leave them feeling groggy, not alert, when they wake up.

Successful napping, a recent Harvard study found, may actually be in your genes. Using genetic information from a number of databases, including 23andMe, a consumer genetic testing company, the researchers found a number of genes linked to a propensity for napping. You either got ‘em or you don’t, so don’t lose any sleep over it.

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Any weight loss success while depressed? Anyone?

I’m mainly here to vent but if anyone has helpful suggestions or success stories those are appreciated. I’m 30f and I’ve been treated for mild depression for 5 years. Nothing has helped, at least not with the motivation side of things. I don’t feel like I’m sad or anything, just extremely unmotivated. I sleep way too long, have a terrible sleep schedule, and really struggle with staying on top of normal daily tasks. My house is a disaster. I eat only junk food and way too much of it. I do attempt to eat healthier and count calories but it never lasts more than two weeks, followed by months of overeating and no motivation.

I’m 5’8” and 220 lbs, about 40 of those lbs were gained in the last few years. I mention my weight to my doctor and she doesn’t seem to want me to focus on weight loss. She says I probably won’t have much luck with dieting and losing weight without improving my mental health first. Which I do agree with because that has proven true for me but it’s SO frustrating! I think my mental health would vastly improve if I lost weight, yet I can’t lose weight until my mental health improves??! I’m not even basing that off what my doctor said, I’m basing it off the fact that I literally cannot stick to ANYTHING, health related or otherwise, because of my depression. I have read every book out there for forming better habits and NOTHING sticks. I’m on my fifth antidepressant and I’m not noticing any changes with energy and motivation.

Anyone else like me with stubborn depression? Have you had success with weight loss WHILE depressed? If so what has helped you. I’m just so frustrated that my weight keeps climbing and makes me even more depressed! How do I reverse this terrible cycle?

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Sunday, June 11, 2023

How do you guys transition from eating for pleasure to eating for health, or better yet eating less for weight loss?

I have struggled my whole life because I love food and I eat impulsively. I think I am kind of addicted to sugar too, I love little chocolate candies and treats.

For the past two years I have been around 245 lbs which as a 6 ft broad built man doesn't look that bad on me, but I'd rather be around 200-220 lbs. Also I'm 21 for reference.

I typically go to the gym 3 times a week and save for the last two weeks I have kept this up pretty consistently for the last two years (I recently moved my living situation 2 hours away and started working 42 hours a week so I haven't had a chance to get back in the gym, its coming this week tho).

When I started college almost five years ago, it was the most fit I've ever been. I think it's because I had to walk all over a huge campus every day including uphill walks, and I ate exclusively at the dining hall which served healthy food that I didn't have to prep and was prepaid. Also not to mention I was extremely poor, I think I had like $40 in my checking account for most of my Freshman year. Anyways during my freshman year I dropped from the 245 that I was during most of high school to 225. I felt really good and I looked skinny, honestly.

Fastforwarding to the current day I'm about 270 lbs and I work at a desk job. Again I'm a big boy by default so I dont look obese but I'm way heavier than I want to be. I am pretty good at eating well while I'm at work, only maybe 1200 cals while I'm there. When I get home I usually eat fast food because I struggle to find the time to cook a nutritious dinner. I work a little more than full time and I do jiu jitsu 3-5 days a week after work so I'm out of my house 6 am to 8 pm most days.

After dinner (typically 1400 ish calories of fast food) I usually snack on like 400-1000 calories of chocolate and/or ice cream. I don't always do this but on average I do it probably 4.5/7 days of the week. I know this is the problem and I always regret it but in the moment it just feels so natural and warranted. Almost like a reward for a hard days work.

Anyways I'm just wondering if anyone has broken out of this way of thinking because I just feel like I'm so used to eating like shit in the nighttime. It doesn't help that my mom does the exact same thing and is also extremely overweight: ultimately it's my decision to put that stuff in my body though, although it's very hard to resist.

TLDR: how do you stop feasting on chocolate for the dopamine and enjoyment, and start only eating when hungry and mainly nutritious foods?

Thanks for reading y'all

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Small victories, bigger lifestyle changes

20sF 5’6” SW: 252.5 CW: 247 GW:160

I started taking my weight loss journey more seriously less than a month ago, and I’ve lost ~5 pounds since then!

I know I have a long way to go, but I’m so happy about this small SV. In the past, every time I’ve lost weight/attempted to lose weight, I would try to cut out the foods I loved (carbs!), cut calories unsustainably, and burn out after a week (or less).

This time around, I’m trying to take a more realistic approach. I refuse to cut out any foods I enjoy and instead focus on CICO; this means I can enjoy what like while not going overboard. Instead of spending an hour everyday on cardio and forcing myself to do try to HIIT, I now do a low intensity cardio warmup and have started weight lifting (which I really enjoy) 6 days a week. I’ve even convinced some of my friends to be gym buddies with me.

Most importantly, I also have a history of binge ED. I’ve learned that restricting food groups or trying to do intermittent fasting are the quickest way to trigger a binge. Now, if I want something sweet or know that eating something will make me go over my calorie limit by a little bit for the day, I don’t sweat it. I’d rather be over by 200-500 calories and get back on the wagon the next day than binge 2000 calories in one setting.

It’s a little tricky at points, because I have loved ones who advise me to crash diet (cut out carbs, cut out junk food, etc) and lose the weight fast and then go back to eating what I like when I’m in maintenance. In the past, I would have, mostly because I want to see results immediately, but I realize that’s just a recipe for disaster now.

However, weighing myself today and realizing I lost some weight — even if it is just water weight — has motivated me to keep going. I just wanted to tell someone, because I don’t think anyone in my life thinks 5 lbs is a big deal.

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