Saturday, June 20, 2020

NSV: I weigh less than my boyfriend!

I finally weigh less than my boyfriend!! It's by 1 pound at the moment, but it's still less! This hasn't happened since we first started dating in 2018.

It's more of a personal victory that I can now say I've lost the "relationship" weight I put on in the past couple of years than anything else. Not that he has ever commented or cared about any kind of weight gain, he loves me no matter what and has made that perfectly clear. For me though, I just stopped being comfortable in my own skin and how clothes were fitting me, so I decided to really commit to losing the weight this year.

Background:
I have done the up and down in terms of weight before. I hit my highest weight in 2012 at 230lbs and was completely miserable. I started dieting and made it down to 210lbs in 2013, then 180lbs in 2014. But life and my bad habits started up again and I yo-yo'd but from 2016 to 2017 I went from 195lbs down to 160lbs, my lowest ever weight.

After that, weight slowly crept back up until May 2018 I weighed in at 190lbs again and have been hovering up and down by 5lbs ever since. After seeing the new years eve pictures we took with all my friends in January 2020, I weighed myself the next day and came in at 196lbs and I just couldn't take it anymore. All my clothes were tight and uncomfortable. I felt terrible and I just had to change. I would say though that I only got really serious at the end of April. Since then I've gone from 191lbs to 175lbs. I am determined to keep up with this, and my short term goal is to lose 10lbs before my birthday in August (I'm turning the big 3-0, so I want to feel good going into a new decade).

Today is about celebrating the small victories! Even my pants are becoming quite loose, and I tried on one of my bikini tops and it looks pretty good today.

My weight loss has always been done through CICO, and in the past couple of weeks I've been doing a 16:8 IF schedule and it has really helped curb my snacking and improve my relationship with food (I'm a person who goes to snacks and binge eating for comfort when I'm upset or just bored.).

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Losing weight with chronic pain and autoimmune disease

I've lost 70 pounds so far. It's time for me to get back on the wagon and lose the last 55 pounds. I've managed to maintain my weight loss through my rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis this past year and half, and the chronic pain I've struggled with as a result. I've struggled with depression as a result of that too, so I'm proud that I haven't regained any. However, I know that I'll have less pain if I can get the rest of the weight off. My goal is to hit around 125 pounds by the end of summer 2021. I lost the first 70 pounds through careful calorie counting and a lot of walking. At the moment, my mobility is limited due to the RA (It is still not well controlled-working on that, but it's a process!) Anyone have tips for low-impact exercise I can do at home? I don't have access to a pool or anything like that. I'm down to try videos, etc. I'm aware I don't need to exercise to lose, but it is helpful for me!

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In need of some encouragement.

So I don't really have anyone to share this with so I thought I'd post here. So I've just recently started my weight loss journey (from June 1st 2020) using CICO and IF and have completely given up on carbs, sugars, fried foods etc and while I have lost 7 lbs that way I've encountered a problem that I didn't think was a problem before. The problem known as my "family" .I always knew that my family and wouldn't see eye to eye about my recent change in diet so I kept it a secret from them cause I didn't want to made fun of. But because of my drastic change in eating habits they quickly noticed that something is different with her and confronted me about it and I told them and too my surprise they seemed to support me and I thought I hit the jackpot of the life! But then today something happened which has me reconsidering things , you see I come from an Asian family where using lots of oil to cook food is like a staple diet and today I saw my dad (yea once a year when he wishes he cooks) cook chicken curry and he put like (I'm not exaggerating even the slightest bit) a half a bottle of oil in there to make the curry and while I myself was excited to eat chicken my family aside I was gonna eat it's boiled /grilled version of it. And because of the amount of oil put in I regretfully declined cause I thought that if I once again get a taste of the "unhealthy good life" I'll not be able go back and that's when I was told off and scolded . And they had comments like this towards me "oil gives flavour eating a little bit won't make you anymore fat then you already are", and stuff like "what was the point of cooking this if you won't eat because your head is filled with wrong notions about your weight", "obsessing about your weight when you are not even that fat (fyi I'm 180 lbs)" and then my mother joined and said "that I told her eating one piece won't make a difference to her" .. and while I was forced to listen to such comments I wondered to myself is it really ok to eat one piece? While the entire curry was just floating in oil and ive been contemplating that maybe I was the one in the wrong and that maybe to make them happy I should have eaten it. And I'm torn about this so I need some advice.

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NSV- A small doesn’t seem that small anymore

I have been a large/extra large for 4 years now. I haven’t worn pants with a single digit size since I was 8. Yesterday, I went clothes shopping - an activity that I would normally dread but throughout my weight loss journey has gotten better. With quarantine, I haven’t been able to try anything on in store, but I could still go in and browse. I am currently a medium in most clothing items.

I used to think a small shirt was unobtainable and that nobody could ever fit in that. I used to think that even if I lost weight I would still be in a large/extra large shirt because of my frame(which has shrunk throughout the process). I took a look at a small shirt and I was like.. that isn’t actually that.. small? I was shocked to see how close I was getting to being able to fit in it.

I’ve only lost 30 pounds and still have 35 to go. But this was a major NSV to me.. things are starting to feel like I can actually obtain them and that I am making real progress. For those who are just starting out and things feel impossible: They are completely obtainable.. it feels impossible until it’s not. You just have to keep working. I have been doing Keto and CICO since the end of February and I have never had this much success with losing weight. Find supportive people or just tell a couple people and ask them to keep you accountable. It helps so much in the long run.

It takes a lot of hard work mentally to lose the weight. Don’t let negative thoughts or cravings discourage you. Try new things on when you go clothes shopping that you might not have before.. you know- the clothing style that you swear to never buy- and when you see how it fits, let that encourage you. It may sound like a vain encouragement but it is very encouraging to see things fit that you never would have thought would fit before.

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I feel like I'm finally being good to myself for the first time in my life

I feel like I need to type this out, not sure if I'll post it yet, but it will most likely be long.

I was always more on the compact/muscly side, which made me incredibly insecure even as a kid. I've also had a completely out of control sweet tooth ever since I can remember (I'm talking sneaking into the kitchen and climbing shelves in the middle of the night as a kid). My mom in particular is a very healthy person though, and I stayed a completely normal weight until I moved out to university, at which point I started slowly but steadily gaining weight, mostly due to my lack of restraint when it comes to candy. Now I'm [F]25, 1.65m (about 5'4'') and currently at 76kg (168lbs). My highest weight was a few months ago at 80kg (176lbs) - I had gone to visit my girlfriend in her home country, which has a lot of incredible food to offer. I don't get to go very often so I didn't hold back, and well.

Over the last 7 years I tried several times to lose the weight, always using CICO, and it never worked. I got tired of counting, would eat things that I didn't log because I had convinced myself that they somehow "didn't count", and always gave up after a few weeks tops, while somehow still being convinced that I was continuing to lose weight (I wasn't). I did stay active and participated in a pretty demanding team sport, which I'm sure is responsible for me not gaining even more weight, but my unhealthy diet and weight also kept me from excelling in this sport, which was extremely frustrating.

Now for the good part: about 18 months ago I moved to a different city for my graduate degree. I was extremely unhappy at first and struggled with debilitating anxiety and sleeping issues, which wasn't great, but prompted me to finally seek treatment for what I am now realising has been a lifelong problem. I am going to therapy and taking medication for my anxiety, and working through a number of self-esteem issues with my therapist, many of which are related to being gay and closeted as a child and teenager.

I am learning to treat myself with respect and kindness, and it has helped immensely with my lifestyle and subsequently my weight loss. I realised that CICO just wasn't for me, because if I wanted to be successful I needed to make changes that I could keep up for the rest of my life, and I could barely keep up with counting calories for a few days in a row. I realised that I needed to fix my relationship with candy, and starting to restrict myself to a candy cheat day once a week, and then every two weeks. It was hard at first, and it's still a struggle to walk past the candy aisle in the supermarket without buying anything, but I can tell that things are shifting. I'm craving candy less and less, and am actually noticing how crappy I feel on my cheat days when I eat lots of it. I go running a few times a week because it helps with my anxiety, and I'm starting to view it as something kind I do for myself rather than a chore I need to get done. I'm thinking about this less as a weight loss period after which I'll go back to "normal", and more as a change I'm making in my life that is healthier and kinder for myself.

I still weigh myself and get excited about a new lowest weight, but I'm just as happy with these non-scale victories and how much happier I am with myself.

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I got to my goal weight!

before/after

I am 5'2, 23,F.

So I don't really have anyone to share this to, so I decided to share with all of you. I'm a lurker on this sub, as well as xxketo and ketorecipes.

So, last year was my final year of University and I also got into a car accident in my supposed final semester. It wasn't too serious, I just had a concussion but that made me have to take another semester before I could graduate.

Anyways, I basically slept a lot and just ate chocolate (because it is my comfort food and I love it) and also fast food. I had gained some unwelcomed weight during my studies (I was bouncing between 150 to 160 pounds a lot), and of course my weight gain went up with all that chocolate!

August 2019, the before pic, was my biggest weight. 176 pounds. I honestly couldn't believe it. I knew I had that freshman 15 to lose but now another 15-20 pounds on top of that?!?

So I started my weight loss journey in September (2019) and I am proud to say that as of today , I am 125!! (Smaller than my high school weight)

I'm so happy and I'm looking forward to maintaining this body and toning :)

TLDR; lost 50 pounds

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 20 June 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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