Monday, July 22, 2019

Gf saw my stretch marks for the first time today.

I have stretch marks on my arms, hips, boobs, and thighs. They have been there since I've been borderline obese 3 years ago; now that I've lost a solid amount of weight they're of course still there. My girlfriend had never noticed them. But today she did, and pointed them out.

I can hardly be mad at her. They're there, she wasn't judgmental about them, she just noticed. I explained to her where they came from and that they're not going to go away. She said they "look like tiger stripes" and I knew she found that phrase on some misguided Tumblr post. When I started crying, she did not understand.

My stretch marks aren't "tiger stripes" or "lightning bolts" or anything of the like. They're there because I gained too much weight too quickly while falling into depression at age 15. They're there and they're never going to heal. They will forever remind me of how bad a job I once did at taking care of myself. They will always flag me down as someone who once lost control. They aren't pretty, they aren't a sign of beauty at all. Call me vain for hating them, I probably deserve it. But for the life of me I wish I had not done this to myself throughout my teenage years, and I wish I did not now have to spend my adolescence trying so hard to undo years of disordered eating. I wish I did not have stretch marks.

I explained all that to my girlfriend. I think she understands. She's been nothing but supportive throughout my weight loss journey; I love her even more for it. I know she wanted to say something nice, to let me know she loves me with my stretch marks. But desperately trying to see beauty where there is none is simply futile.

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Fun Question: What’s the most awkward thing someone has said to you when discussing your weight loss?

Ok so I’m 5 foot 5 and starting out was about 175 pounds (12 and a half stone, or about 78kg, female, 29).

I’ve lost about a stone so far (14 pounds, 6.3 kg), which isn’t that much but it’s a start.

My dad, who knows I’m trying to lose weight, put his foot in it so thoroughly yesterday.

Dad: “it’s funny, your face has really started to change! You can really see it.”

Me: (uncomfortable and awkward, makes lame joke): “I’m going to be really pretty soon.”

Dad: “Yeah, just like the old days”.

Good. Lord.

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

I mean, I think what he was trying to say was that I was starting to look like the slimmer version of myself, before injuries and mental health took up residence on my hips and stomach, but it did not compute. He was mortified and backed out the room very quickly.

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10 Tasty Blueberry Recipes You Need to Bookmark Right Now

Often labeled as a superfood, blueberries are chock-full of antioxidants. But they offer so much more than that. Blueberries contain Vitamin C, Vitamin K and Manganese, which is necessary for the body to build and maintain bone and connective tissue. These yummy little berries are also a good source of dietary fiber when eaten with the skin intact. Nutritious and sweet, blueberry recipes are the perfect go-to for those summer months.

Besides being such nutrition powerhouses, blueberries are also quite delicious. Their sweet flavor makes them wildly popular when baked or blended into dishes—or even just used as a yummy topping. They can be served atop oatmeal, yogurt, tarts, baked goods—or even just eaten plain and whole.

There are so many healthy ways to incorporate blueberries into your day. While you probably have lots of your own ideas for how to eat more blueberries this summer, we’ve rounded up our favorite blueberry recipes that you’re going to want to add to your list. After all, now is the time that this delicious fruit is in season.

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Check out 10 blueberry recipes that are perfect for summer:

1. No-Bake Blueberry Cheesecake for One >

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Few recipes are simpler than those that are “no-bake.” This recipe involves layering delicious ingredients, including a crumbled Nutrisystem Blueberry Lemon Baked Bar used for the “crust,” into a small dish or ramekin. When complete, it counts as one Nutrisystem Breakfast, one SmartCarb and one Extra. While this dish tastes incredibly indulgent, the cheesecake topping is made from healthful ingredients like fat-free ricotta cheese, blueberries and just a touch of honey—making it quite nutritious.

2. Blueberry Burst Energy Balls >

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Energy balls are all the rage and for good reason. They are easy to make, portable and packed with healthy ingredients that give you a burst of energy when you need a nutritious snack. These energy balls feature cashews, rolled oats, dates and blueberries. Everything is blended in a food processor to form a dough, which is rolled into balls—two of which count as one serving at 197 calories. On the Nutrisystem program, a serving also counts as one SmartCarb and one PowerFuel.

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3. Baked Blueberry Oatmeal Tart >

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This is one of our favorite blueberry recipes and couldn’t be easier to make. It involves heating up and then topping our Nutrisystem Baked Blueberry Oatmeal with nonfat Greek yogurt and blueberries. Though it only requires simple assembly, it will give you the taste and feel of a warm homemade breakfast. And it’s healthy, too. It’s very hearty and filling, yet this breakfast is only 168 calories. And it counts as two Extras on the Nutrisystem plan.

4. Blueberry Nut Sweet Potato Toast >

Blueberry-Nut-Sweet-Potato-Toast

If you like having toast in the morning, then give this no-bread, more nutritious alternative a try. It uses a medium sweet potato, cut into slices, as the base. After being crisped in the oven to create a “toast” texture, it is topped with cottage cheese, cinnamon, blueberries, nuts and honey. It’s absolutely packed with flavor and boasts the nutritional benefits of the sweet potato, including fiber, vitamin A, vitamin C and several other vitamins and minerals. And for all that taste, it’s only 176 calories, counting as one SmartCarb, one PowerFuel and one Extra.

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5. Blueberry Lemon Chia Jam >

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If you’re looking for a tasty but nutritious topping for your whole grain toast or crackers, then you’re going want to make this delicious jam. It combines blueberries and chia seeds, which are an excellent source of omega-3 fatty acids, rich in antioxidants, and even provide a boost of fiber. Combined with the juice of a lemon and just a touch of Stevia, this jam is sweet and flavorful without being high in calories (it only has 40 per serving!). It also counts as one Extra.

6. Instant Blueberry Crisp >

blueberry crisp

Though delicious, traditional blueberry crisp is made using quite a bit of sugar and butter—and usually served with whipped cream or ice cream. We developed a healthier version that is still full of flavor and has a lot less calories and fat—plus some great health benefits such as fiber and antioxidants. It combines a package of Nutrisystem’s oatmeal (either Maple Brown Sugar or Apple Cinnamon—your preference) with a cup of blueberries. It’s really that simple! On the Nutrisystem plan, it counts as one Breakfast and one SmartCarb.

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7. Blueberry Almond Nice Cream >

blueberry ice cream

It might sound too good to be true, but with this delicious dessert you can satisfy your craving for ice cream in a healthy way. At just 131 calories, the smooth and creamy texture of this “Nice Cream” is made from combining a frozen banana with frozen blueberries and almond milk. It’s sweet and delicious while also being totally guilt-free. In addition to all the antioxidants you’ll get from the blueberries, the banana packs in some added potassium, fiber and a variety of other nutrients. This dish counts as one SmartCarb and one Extra.

8. Blueberry Green Tea Smoothie >

blueberry-smoothie

If you love smoothies, then this is one of our blueberry recipes you’ve got to try. Combining a cup of iced green tea with frozen blueberries, nonfat Greek yogurt, Stevia and ice, it’s blended to smooth perfection. This is a smoothie you can feel good about sipping. Between the green tea and the blueberries, it’s absolutely brimming with antioxidants—and only has 108 calories. It counts as a half of a SmartCarb and a half of a PowerFuel on the Nutrisystem plan.

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9. Red, White & Blueberry Pancakes >

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This patriotic breakfast is packed with protein thanks to its use of a Nutrisystem Vanilla FreshStart Shake and egg whites to make the “pancake” batter. It’s then topped with a sweet berry sauce made from blueberries and strawberries and finished off with some sliced bananas. The recipe makes three pancakes, all of which count as a serving. It clocks in at only 251 calories despite being a very filling breakfast. On the Nutrisystem plan, it counts as one SmartCarb and one-and-a-half PowerFuels.

10. Red, White and Blueberry Smoothie >

blueberry recipes

The last of our blueberry recipes is another yummy smoothie to add to your list. This patriotic drink combines the flavors of strawberries and blueberries with vanilla for a sweet treat that is both delicious and nutritious. It uses a package of the Nutrisystem Vanilla FreshStart Shake for that indulgent vanilla flavor. Counting as one PowerFuel and one SmartCarb, this smoothie will also give you a big boost of vitamin C.

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Love yourself like Lizzo

I'm sure that everyone here knows that the right mental attitude is one of the fundamental building blocks to any substantial change that you want to make in your life, both on and off the scales. It's tough to keep going with something that can be draining both physically and mentally, so you have to have the right motivation and drive to keep heading towards whatever goal you have.

I was listening to Lizzo's album earlier (specifically Soulmate, which you should definitely check out) and she gave me a renewed perspective for my current weight loss journey. Yes, it's very important for me to shift a few pounds and become fitter - I don't want to forever be breathless when taking my daily walk uphill - but I have to love myself for who I am now. The girl who I'll be when I have lost a few dozen pounds will have more than enough love and pride for every version of herself for having reached her goals.

I am my own soulmate, because I believe that no-one else is as capable to have as much love for myself other than me.

So when I look at myself in the mirror now, I don't see two separate versions of myself anymore - meaning the woman who I am and the woman who I am going to be. I see myself as I am now with all of my unique qualities, just with a bit of extra padding that I know will shift eventually. It's more important to lose the unhealthy mindset when it comes to self esteem than losing the weight itself, because losing the extra chub will be a byproduct of your newfound happiness.

There are still days where I feel down, but I'll be damned if every other day I'm not looking into the mirror and saying, "damn, she's cute as hell!"

Thanks Lizzo. I'll be walking around today with extra pep in my step because my badass self is only going to get better from today.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 22 July 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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UPDATE: Stopped drinking soda, gained weight

Link to original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/ayqyz4/stopped_drinking_soda_gained_weight/
Hello again, almost 5 months have passed since my last post. I thought I'd give you guys an update, even though I know not many saw my last post, but I am thankful to those who replied to me. When I made that post I was roughly 77kg or 170lbs or and 177cm tall or 5'10". Right now I weigh 66kg(145lbs) and I am still 177cm tall. Life is better than ever and my self-confidence has gone up a lot thanks to my weight loss!

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Sunday, July 21, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Monday, 22 July 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.


Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

Need some questing buddies?


If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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