Tuesday, April 20, 2021

Weight loss plateau and self-hatred

Hi! I think this is a quite suitable place for this small rant and I could definitely use some advice. I'm a 17 year old female, I weigh around 70 kg (154 pounds) and I'm 170 cm (5'5") tall. I've been struggling with weight loss for quite a long time now, a few years ago I came down from 85 kg (187 pounds) to 65 (143 pounds), however it wasn't in a very healthy way, so when I stopped starving myself when I hit my goal weight, I gained around 15. Now I've managed to get down to my current weight, however, I'm still extremely unhappy with the way I look and I have absolutely no idea what can I do to get to my ideal weight - 60 kg (132 pounds). Currently I eat around 1500 calories a day (this is my rough estimate, I don't count them), I do HIIT 3-4 times a week, sometimes other kinds of exercises and I go on long walks quite frequently. I do see that my body is getting more toned, but the thing I'm most insecure about is my belly, and it's just not getting thinner, the scale isn't moving either. Yesterday I cried because I just can't help but feel that my body is disgusting, whenever I look at my stomach, saggy breasts and stretch marks literally everywhere i just feel disgusted with who I am. I probably should just reduce my calorie intake, but I don't know where the healthy limit is really, and I don't want to start counting each calorie again, because it has an extremely negative effect on my mental health.

Any advice will be appreciated, I just really want to finally feel happy with the way I look. Thank you in advance! :)

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Looking to accelerate my weight loss but not sure how to go about it

My weight loss journey started back in August 2020 and slowly since then I've come to lose 18lbs. Now that I'm starting to feel some benefits from the weight loss (Better sleep, better fitting clothes) I'm looking to accelerate my weight loss with more exercise.

From August I've only purely been doing calorie counting and in Jan this year I've started purposefully walking around 30mins per day which has helped.

I don't have time to go to the gym due to travel so my best time for workouts is between 7-8am before working from home. Is it something as simple as flicking on a youtube training video?

Can anyone recommend an outdoor mat to use on concrete to avoid damage to my hands, knees and possible shin splinters?

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At a loss for dieting, Can someone give some advise?

I am a male in my 30s. I've always carried belly fat. I eat pretty healthy and yes I have a snack here and there (when not dieting). I am a person that would prefer to eat raw fruit or veg over a bag of chips or cookies When I am dieting I am strict. I have tried the keto diet 2 times. The first time I lost 20-30 lbs in 3 months (very strict and used the carb manager app). Then the weight loss just stopped so I went back to normal dieting. Half of the weight came back after I went back to normal eating. I went back on the Keto diet a few months ago and lost about 10-15 lbs in 3 weeks. Same cycle weight came back and I hit a plateau. It was suggested to me that the weight I may be losing is more water weight that I wouldn't be losing fat that fast.

I am trying a diet I used to go on when I was into weight lifting, high protein (white meat), low carb, no sugar. Even when I was into weight lifting I always had a belly. Daily diet consist of

-Breakfast- 1 egg omelet with spinach and sometimes chicken OR oatmeal with berries and Green Tea.

-Lunch Salad plain or with grilled chicken (healthy dressing)

-Fish or Chicken cooked in coconut oil or in the oven, 1 cup of brown Rice (sometimes an egg mixed), salad or green veg.

**I have been on this diet for 2 weeks, I feel healthier but lost zero weight.

Even when I am not dieting 99% of the time I have salads for lunch and always drink water.

I thought maybe there is something going on with my health but all my blood work is great. I am 5'10" 209. Are there any other diet suggestions out there or thoughts?

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difference between net calories and total calories

17F H: 4’10.36 (148.25cm) W: 112lbs (50.8kg)

I’ve recently started trying to lose weight and read up on here that 1200 calories is the minimum you should eat. It’s also recommended to exercise and burn off calories so weight loss is quicker, specially for people like me who fall onto the short end.

My tdee is around 1500 and I usually eat 1200. I burn around 320 calories through walking and biking each day. Meaning my net calories ends up being 880.

Due to this I have two questions that keep bothering me.

1: is it okay to be at net 880 calories?

2: what’s the difference between eating 880 calories only while not exercising and eating 1200 but having 880 net calories

I’m sorry if any of this is confusing. I’m not exactly sure how to word what I’m asking. All I know is that I want to lose weight as sustainably and as healthily as possible, so any help will be much appreciated. Thank you!

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NSV: New friend assumed I've been fit for years.

28M 175cm SW140kg, CW90kg, GW80kg

In the last year I've lost 50kg (~110 lbs) from 140>90kg. About 6 months ago I started a new sport, and recently I was at a dinner with some teammates and met someone for the first time.

When I mentioned I'd only joined the sport 6 months ago, my new friend acted surprised that I was new and told me he'd assumed I had been playing for years because I was in good shape and based on my shoulders.

I tried to be humble about it, but to be honest in the last year amongst all the lovely things I've been told, everyone's surprise and shock, that is what meant the most to me. My housemates are sick of me talking about the weight loss, and I don't want to brag about it, but I'm so proud of myself that I've been able to do that in a year.

I'm still on my journey with another 10kg to go, but just a reminder of the importance of perseverance. You can do it!

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After a two week break from weight loss I need to get back on track

The last two weeks were always going to be difficult, 1) bars are open for the first time in months, uh-oh, and 2) I'm in the middle of a home renovation and we've been without a kitchen for ten days. We had a little portable stove to use but for the last three days haven't even had that, so have been going out to buy coffee and takeaways etc. The structural work has now been done so in the next few days I can reinstall our kitchen, but basically it's been stressful, and physically demanding, and I've eaten either at maintenance or a little over maintenence for about two weeks.

I know that if I get back on track soon then it won't matter that I've taken two weeks off. But I'm worried I'm going to keep finding excuses. If anyone has a similar experience I'd love to hear it. It's only been two weeks but I feel like my motivation has changed so much.

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Monday, April 19, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 20 April 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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