Sunday, February 24, 2019

I finally broke my plateau!

I've been slowly losing weight over the past year. Not as aggressively as a lot of you on here, for sure - I'm down about 40lbs over the year, and aiming for the same this year. If the rate stays consistent (I know it may not) then I'll be back at my high school weight by the end of the third year, and meet my lowest around half a year after that. I'm setting interim goals - for this year, I want to get back under 200lbs. The loss over the past year included some setbacks and mistakes, so I think it's very reasonable for me.

Speaking of setbacks...until this week I had been stuck between 240-245lb for 3 months. I think it was a number of things, including some body recomposition, because I did lose a couple of inches during that time. But it was also the holidays, eating out too much, etc etc. The usual culprits. But. I finally realized it wasn't going to magically change unless I upped my activity or reduced my calories. So I dialed my calories in from the recommended 1lb/week loss and here I am! Weighed in at 234.6lb this morning and I am so, so proud of myself. I've had extended weight loss plateaus before, and in the past that had been the point where I would give up and yo-yo back up to where I started or worse. But this time I wasn't going to let that happen.

Obviously I probably could have figured this out a little sooner, but I'm so glad that I did, even if it took me a couple months to get there. I've started eating foods with more protein instead of carbs for breakfast and wow, what a difference it makes in my hunger level. I'm eating literally half the calories and feeling full for hours instead of getting hungry an hour later.

As for activity, I still need to figure something out. I've been doing belly dance once a week for 4 months and I love it, but I still have a hard time regularly exercising at other times during the week. I talked to my instructor about private lessons so that's one avenue to more exercise that I love. But the other things I've tried...eh. I get tired of yoga after a few months and stop. I have a stationary bike that I don't get tired of, but without fail I end up hurting either my knees or feet on it and don't get back on for a while.

I did spend last weekend digging up grass in my yard to turn into a flower bed, and that was great exercise, but obviously not something I can do every weekend. But I am finding myself naturally making changes in my life to be more active and eat better, and that is encouraging to me.

Not really looking for advice here - I know that I probably need to be a little more religious about the accuracy of my logging, and that ultimately I'm going to need to either be more active or eat less or both to continue the losing trend over time. But I'm finding that making small changes is working really well for me, so I'm going to take it one step at a time. Today I'm just happy that I took those steps instead of giving up.

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SV: I've officially hit my first goal: Onederland! Also some lessons I've learned about getting healthy.

Long post ahead folks.

First things first – I've lost weight before. At the time I was just under the weight I reached today (196lbs to be exact) and I dropped around 40lbs in an exceptionally unhealthy way. I became very obsessive and eventually my SO convinced me that I needed to stop.

Fast forward 2 years and I stepped on the scale to find myself even heavier than I was the first time I tried to lose weight. I knew I needed to do something about it but I was also worried that I'd fall into bad patterns. So this time I promised myself I'd do it slowly. I wouldn't count every calorie but also do some intuitive eating. I wouldn't just STOP eating altogether. I'd exercise a little but not so much that I would faint in the middle of the street. You know, the basic be good to yourself stuff that doesn't always come easy to the people who've been taught they're nothing just because they take up more physical space than others.

And it has been working. I started around 6 months ago and I've lost 35lbs. Unlike last time I can actually see the change in the mirror. Like, actually see it. What's more, I believe it. I don't think the scale is lying to me or that the clothes were always this loose when they certainly weren't. I'm making progress. Seeing that I'd made it to onederland and my first tangible scale goal today made me so happy, and instead of planning out how I could loose more faster I went for a walk in the sunshine (I live in Australia), bought myself some new bras (very much needed), and had an ice cream just because I felt like it.

Onto the lessons (which are working for me and hopefully might help someone else).

  1. Weight loss doesn't need to be fast. It doesn't need to be slow either, it just needs to work for you. I think the problem with fast weight loss for me is that it becomes far too much like a hurdle that I have to jump over before everything can go back to normal. That way of thinking is bad for me in many ways – the least of which is that getting healthy is a lifestyle change that doesn't have an end date. I think it's easy to look at the awesome progress people make on here and get a little caught up in it. Those achievements are amazing and you all rule! But there's nothing wrong with taking it slow. It doesn't take away from what you're doing. We're all just here trying to be better versions of ourselves.
  2. Exercise isn't everything, but if you're going to do it find something you enjoy. Exercise totally helps and I've been doing it but it's not a dealbreaker. Also, you don't have to go to the gym 3/4/5 days a week if that's not your jam. I go to yoga because it helps with my anxiety and I found a studio I really like. Sometimes I only go once a week and sometimes I don't go at all because I don't feel like it. I try and treat exercise in the same way I do food, in that it's not a hurdle but something I'm incorporating into my everyday life.
  3. Everything in moderation. Sometimes my calorie deficient is 600 calories for the day. Sometimes it's 200 calories for the day. Sometimes I have no idea what it is and I just trust myself. Because I love food. I actually write about it pretty often for my job. I didn't want to go back to the place where I'd made something I love the enemy. Because for me, food is not the enemy. My unhealthy eating can be traced back to plenty of mental/emotional issues and overeating is just a symptom. So, if I want pasta I eat it – but only a small portion. Or, if I want an ice cream I log it and adjust my calories for the day. Or, sometimes (but not too often), I just eat something because I want it and that's the end of it. I won't undo all my work with one burger – it's when I'm eating one secret McDonalds meal a day that I have to be worried.
  4. Address the emotional stuff. I don't know about anyone else but, in some ways, I had a pretty messed up childhood. To say I eat my feelings is the simplest way to explain what I do to cope with some of my pain. There's a lot more to it than that though. And talking to someone about it, really going in deep and not shying away from the hard stuff, has helped with so much more than just the number on the scale. I highly recommend doing it even if you think you're totally fine. Sometimes it's good just to talk to someone who is completely seperate from your life.

Okay I think that's probably long enough. I guess I have to think what my next tangible goal will be now (I'm thinking 180lbs). Thanks so much for reading and I hope this helps some of you in some way!

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I've plateaued on my weight. I'm scared and I don't know what to do.

Hey ya'll. To make a long story short, I was at around 450 pounds during June of last year before I went under the knife and got my gastric sleeve surgery done. For those first 6 months, everything was going great. For the first time in my life, I felt like food was on my side, rather than this constant battle.

But slowly, I started returning to those haunting habits. I reincorporated Pepsi back into my diet after promising myself that I was done with soft drinks. I've now developed an obsession with the chili they sell at Wendy's because it's one of the things that doesn't fuck with my stomach too much. Ever since these habits have started to resurface, my weight loss has completely plateaued. I'm around 330 pounds but I'm so defeated that I'm afraid of stepping on the scale.

This is the second night in a row where I'm crying my eyes out in the Wendy's parking lot because I physically can't stop myself from going inside. I don't know what to do, I'm at a complete loss. This is my last hurdle to actually restarting my life. If I fail this, I die. I die in a bed alone.

I'm in desperate need of help, please just tell me what to do and where to go. Just anything that will head me in the right direction. Thank you.

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Need some advice!

Hey guys, first time poster here. On my phone and english is not my first language so sorry for weird or wrong spelling. Im not sure where to get advice about this or if this is allowed but here it goes. Some background, I have lost 30 kgs by myself since July last year. Some stuff in my life happend and I ended up homeless. With no place to cook food you lose weight but it was only good beacuse I was at 130 kg wich is alot for a 23 year old. I feel alot better and have an apartment now so not homeless anymore. I eat better and are out for walks almost all the time so Im still loosing weight. I stay away from sodas, fast food and sweets. My problem is, I have mental illnesses. Anxiety, adhd and other stuff. And I can feel my depression coming back. When I get depressed, I dont eat. At all. Nothing tastes, I dont feel hungry, I dont get outside. I dont even get out of bed some days and Im scared it will affect my weight loss. Im afraid I will stop eating and letting my body go in starvation mode and save everything. I have a psychologist and I will see her next week. I just want some advice or tips from you guys who are struggling or have been struggling, you know how hard this is. I dont want to fall back, I dont want to lose progress. Not sure what to do.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 24 February 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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When you begin to doubt your progress..

Take pictures!

Wear old clothes!

The mind is sometimes your biggest enemy throughout all this and can not only make you feel like you are not going forward, but even backwards.

By taking pictures you can see the differences, especially when comparing pictures with the same articles of clothings. Sometimes you will notice not only have you lost weight, you have gone down 2 or 3 sizes, you now have muscle lines on your legs and back and abs, and your face looks slimmer and your hair looks healthier!

Document everything!

I have stacks upon stacks of notebooks where I record all my caloric intakes for the days, including cheat days, and exercises. It is easy to feel like you are not doing enough but as long as everything is recorded, the mind games lose out in the end.

And finally, be kind to yourself!

No one is perfect. Celebrate your victories against tempatations and take your falls as an oppurtunity to do better than next time. Turn cheat days into refeed days and an oppurtunity to kill it the next day at the gym. Take the imperfection of this process as a healthy reminder that weight loss is a lifestyle change and not a straight forward road and embrace the ups and downs of this life changing journey.

Good luck :)

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Saturday, February 23, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Sunday, 24 February 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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