Obviously there are tons of benefits to weight loss and I know basically all of them at this point, however I wanted to really know if that goes away, and if the feeling of being on edge goes away?
I’m more just talking about general laughing, mocking, looks, etc. but I guess you can include other stuff, other types of bullying, whatever you want to call it.
I’m obese and have always felt so picked on in a million different ways, and has made doing normal things more difficult, like I’m always super aware of how people might look at me when I’m sitting in front of them (aka not at the very back seat), don’t like to eat in public except if it’s a restaurant or cafe, careful which bus seat to get and analyse how each person might look at me if they might have to sit next to me, taking time to stand before entering a lecture after walking up stairs because I’m out of breath or having to go in and trying to cover it with a cough and holding my mouth like I’ve got a itchy throat or something. I could give loads of real life examples of actual situations where stuff has happened rather than just everyday where I’m afraid of people’s perceptions and what could happen, but you get the point.
So just wanted to know if that went away and if you can relax in public? I really hope so.
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