Saturday, September 26, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 26 September 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Friday, September 25, 2020

Please Help Me, I'm Stuck

Hey! My name is Sidney, I'm a 17 year old male and I've struggled with my weight all my life. I came to this community for insight on where and how to get started. I see myself before where I make too many mistakes with weight loss. I tried it all and now I just feel stuck and hopeless.

With weight comes bullying and now that i'm in my senior year it has kind of settled down but, it's still there. No one should have to go through being bullied for weight but i guess that's how society is sometimes. But, now things are starting to light up for me. I decided I follow in my father's footsteps and join the Army ROTC in college next year ( Im close to getting the scholarship!). But, what i need help on is improving myself physically. I have put this off for way too long and I don't have time to waste. Any tips are useful and appreciated greatly :). I also need help on the aspect of running, I run two miles a day but at a pace of 20 minutes ( 10 mins each mile) and for the army to pass the test i need to be around 16 minutes. Do you get faster when you lose weight? any advice on running helps too.

Thank you to whoever responds to this and happy friday!!!!!!!

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🤡 Clown Moves to Avoid During Your Weight-loss Journey

Over the last year, I've managed to drop from being 73kg at 5'2" to 50kg (110lbs). This was only possible by changing the habits and ideas I had about food, eating and health. Along the way I definitely did some clown behaviour that slowed down my weightloss and had other negative consequences. So I'm sharing them today, in hopes that they'll prevent others from doing so:

🤡 #1. Not eating for days. Granted fasting works really well for some people. But what I noticed was, this would always eventually lead to binging/regaining all the weight back. But the important lesson recognising this pattern of behaviour wasn't sustainable for me and stopping.

🤡 #2. Not eating protein. Oh my god I wanna go back and smack myself. Please make sure you eat enough protein or you will lose so much hair, and muscle mass. Also I was binging so much more when I had less than the minimum amount of protein for my height/weight a day. Protein is so essential, I can't stress it enough.

🤡#3. Obsessively weighing myself, especially in a negative mindset. There's nothing good that comes out of it. When you notice yourself obsessing about your weight/food etc, it means you're probably on an unsustainable diet, and something needs to change. Also don't weigh yourself after a binge. Wait a few days, about 3-4 days where you are following your normal routine again. And then feel free to do so.

🤡#4. Restricting the day after a binge. Don't do it. Just follow your normal routine, normal calories (maybe slightly less if you're really full). Don't punish yourself with exercise or eating less. Weight loss needs to come from a place of caring about yourself. Self loathing and hatred will never let you be successful.

🤡#5. Wanting really fast results. The only correct way is a sustainable long term lifestyle change. If you can't see yourself following this "diet" for life, you have the wrong diet. Even if you manage to lose weight short term, you won't have gone through the mental journey, and the habit changes, that will help you sustain this for life.

Please share your own mistakes and clown behaviour down below!

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Scheduled my Tummy Tuck!!

So, I am nearing the end of my weight loss journey. Well, the losing phase. I have more or less been in the maintenance phase since April. Feel free to look at my last post for more info on my background.

However, with shifting my focus towards weight training and running, I realized that I would never get the look that I want without surgery. I lost in the neighborhood of 130 pounds. I look great in clothing now, but the loose skin around my stomach area increasingly bothered me.

After a lot of research and several consultations, I found the perfect doctor and I have set up at surgery date for January 11th!! I'm very excited. It feels like the final stage of weight loss. The ultimate reward. My surgeon was incredibly impressed and congratulatory about my weight loss and referred to this surgery as just the "cherry on the top of your hard work". That's how I'm viewing it now.

When I get closer, I'll post pictures. And if people are interested, I'll share my experiences post-surgery. I know many people here deal with the same issues of loose skin as I do.

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Secretory Phase Plateaus (menstrual cycle)

After tracking my weight loss for 5 months, I have come to learn that the two weeks between ovulation and my period, I always plateau. And then 1-2 days before my period, the weight comes off in droves. I’ll “lose” 1.5 lbs the first day of my period, then another pound the next day, etc. Over the week of my period and the week after, I am losing weight again.

It almost feels like all the weight I should have been losing comes off the days right before and first days of my period. And then I lose very steadily (1-2lbs/week) for the next two weeks... and then back to a plateau.

Does anyone know what could be causing this? I average where I want to be (1-2lbs a week or 4-8lbs a month), but I get nervous when the scale drops so significantly all at once. My only idea is I’m retaining the water to replace the fat loss or something else with my hormones is happening.

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Husband wants to lose weight but is TERRIFIED of being hungry

Looking for some advice, articles, or whatever to help out my husband as we begin a weight-loss journey together.

He says he wants to lose weight and I KNOW he is frustrated with how much he has gained with the pandemic. I am starting my own weight loss and am aiming to lose 20 lbs with CICO - about 8 of those are pandemic pounds. He needs to drop probably 50-60 lbs but is terrified of weighing himself, admitting how much he needs to lose (because it seems overwhelming to him), or "being hungry" at all, ever. Like he gets panicky if he feels like he's not going to have enough food. He thinks if a dinner isn't well over 1000 calories it won't be nearly enough, so he's reluctant to try meal services or plans (usually 600-800 cals) because he thinks he'll starve. He often snacks quickly after meals no matter how much he just ate. If a meal doesn't have meat as a main ingredient he talks before we even start eating about how it can't possibly fill him up. You get the picture. I don't know how to combat this mindset and obviously, I can't change it for him but I'm hoping to point him gently in some healthy directions to investigate on his own.

For the record, he loves to walk and we often walk 4-6 miles a day. Not every day, but usually at LEAST 3-4 times a week and sometimes 6-7. So he does get a good activity level.

When talking about diet options I'm unsure what to recommend to him. We ate pretty much Whole30 for a number of months last year and he liked that because it doesn't overtly restrict calories, but neither of us lost much weight on it. I also had to plan and make EVERYTHING and I just don't know if I can do that this time, for various reasons, and I'm not crazy about Whole30, for various reasons. I know I can't own his diet plan for him, and would like to empower him to own his destiny. So give me your suggestions, please! Either for me, on how to help and support him, or specific advice for him that I can share. :)

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It's a journey, sometimes you take a shortcut, sometimes you take a roundabout

A few nights ago, I started typing a long rant about gaining the weight back. I was slightly tipsy and I saved it as a draft. September has been dreadful to me.

I started my weight loss journey last December. After the summer holidays, I was exactly where I wanted to be. I was exercising every day, tracking every calorie, I was getting really close to my goal. I was finally looking just the way I always to wanted to look.

I felt immensely proud, and it lasted a split second. Right after that, I started feeling a suffocating feeling of dread. I lost the weight, but I was still the same person, I was still leaving the same life. All my efforts suddenly felt useless.

At the same moment, I got a medical intervention and I was in pain for a week. I couldn't exercise and my cooking became more indulgent. I went back to work and got hit by post-holiday depression.

I'm an emotional eater and coped with fast food, sugar and alcohol. I was also avoiding Myfitnesspal and keeping away for the scale. Not surprisingly, I gained weight. A total of 6 pounds according to this morning weight in.

Instead of ranting about the weight gain, I wanted to share what I learned from this episode:

I needed this break. I was putting too much pressure on myself this summer and was low key obsessed with tracking and exercising. Now that I took a break, I'm upping my calories from 1200 to 1400 but will not exercise every day. I think my breakdown was also a result of being too strict.

I have to track my calories still. It's annoying but obviously, I can't still trust myself. It might take years to figure out how to eat and cook the right amount of food, and that's ok.

It's not a big deal, a month doesn't erase the whole journey. I learned so much about myself and I'm excited to learn even more.

It's harmful to project too much on your journey. Life is not like a makeover scene in a 90's movie. I'm thinking of starting therapy to deal with my emotional eating and body dysmorphia.

So this morning, I went on a run for the first time since early September. Running in nature in the fall is absolutely magic. It felt good. I was not running to lose weight, I was running for myself.

I hope that at the end of this journey, I will not only find a skinnier version of myself but a version that learned to take unconditionally care of herself.

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