Thursday, November 8, 2018

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 08 November 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Binge eating: 3 reasons why you might be binging & tips on how to stop

Binging can be an extremely sensitive topic. The experience of binge eating is very individual and will look different for each person but my hope for this post is to share my experiences so that you will not feel alone. And that it can be helpful for at least one person.

My experience with Binge Eating.

Binge eating disorder is something that I struggled with from a young age. I grew up in a household with a single parent where unfortunately we were left to fend for ourselves a lot of the time and eating became a reliable friend and enjoyable pass time for me. I would eat in secret all afternoon until my dad got home from work. This is the kind of binge eating which lead me to weigh almost 300 lbs.

I have also experienced the kind of binge eating which was induced by over-restriction, over-exercising and falling in to vicious cycles of dieting and binging. For the purposes of this post I'm going to focus on this type of binging as it can be a common hurdle that those of us who are working on losing weight.

Reasons for binge eating

Overeating Processed foods (Trigger foods) Binging can be triggered for some people by eating delicious, highly processed foods. Foods like potato chips, cookies - things that have a high fat level combined with sugar or salt which makes the food extremely palatable and difficult to stop eating.

The danger here is when we start to associate these binges on these foods with our own lack of willpower. This is not a willpower issue. Let's talk about the food industry for a minute. This is a billion dollar industry where experts are literally FABRICATING these foods to make them as addictive as possible. "Lays - betcha can't eat just one."

Food companies that want to make money off of you by making you eat and subsequently purchase larger portions of their food. Don't think for a minute that it is your lack of willpower that causes you to overeat on these foods.

Tips on how to stop:

  1. Don't keep the foods that are difficult for you to portion control in the house.
  2. If the food is in the house due to your partner, kids or roommate - find a way to have it out of sight. This could be asking your spouse to store those junk food snacks in a different cupboard where it is out of your sight. The idea is if you're not tempted every time you walk in to the kitchen, you won't exhaust yourself "resisting temptations" all day.
  3. Buy smaller portions of the food - buy only as much as you will eat in one serving. There's absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying a portion of junk food but when it comes to binge eating, the context can matter. Rather than eating a tub of ice cream alone on your sofa, if you're craving ice cream, meet up with a friend to go out for a gelato.

Binging due to over restriction, actual hunger:

After losing 100lbs in 2012, I spent the following year struggling with binge eating and yo-yo dieting. I had taken up running and had been under fuelling myself eating a low-calorie vegan diet and my body was screaming out for more calories. In the evenings I would be binging on whatever "healthy" foods I had in the house like oatmeal, raisins, and dates. During extended periods of weight loss is that our AMAZING bodies realize what is happening as a famine and will do whatever it can to signal to our subconscious minds that we need to eat as much as we can of whatever we can get our hands on so that we can plump up our fat reserves.

Obviously this causes a problem when there's a disagreement between our conscious brain (I want to lose weight) and our unconscious brain (we are starving, EAT MORE) After binging, it's typical to wake up the next day and consciously tell ourselves that we are not good enough, that we need to increase our willpower.

This type of thinking only makes you feel more unworthy and that you need to double down on the diet. You swear to diet even harder from now on - and the same cycle repeats.

Tips on how to stop:

  1. If you have overeaten one day, do not try to overcompensate for it the next day. This is a slippery slope for falling in to disordered eating patterns. If you were legitimately hungry, you've done your body well by eating a bit extra. Keep calm and carry on.
  2. Notice patterns in your eating. Do you find yourself doing a great job staying on track during the week but end up going hog wild on the weekend? Maybe you need to relax your diet a bit - if you increase the amount of calories you're eating each day during the week, you won't feel as restricted and feel the need to overeat on the weekends.
  3. The type of diet that each person chooses to eat is highly individual and I totally respect each and every person who is paleo, keto, vegan, carnivore, whatever it may be. But if you are having trouble eating in a consistent way while trying to follow a diet which cuts out an entire food group or large set of food types - please just consider whether it is the right way of eating for you. You should enjoy your diet and not feel overly restricted.

Emotional / Behavioural reasons (Bad Habits)

This type of overeating is basically any time you're eating over your calorie goal when you're not hungry. It can be triggered by boredom, anxiety, loneliness, sadness. Those evenings when you're just going back and forth from the sofa to the fridge.

Tips on how to stop

  1. Avoid labelling foods as "good" or "bad". Thinking that a food is prohibited can increase the desire to binge on that 'bad' food simply because you're not allowed to have it. It can lead to all or nothing thinking. Well, I've eaten the cookies, I may as well just go all in and order a pizza for dinner too. It is not necessary to eat only nutritious food 100% of the time.
  2. Stay busy in the evenings if this is the time you struggle with overeating. Pick up a new hobby where you need to use your hands and you can't snack mindlessly.
  3. Reserve your willpower for the grocery store. As we know, willpower is a finite resource. Save your willpower for when you're in the grocery store and stick to buying the foods on your shopping list. Use this time to plan ahead and find healthier versions of the snacks you love which won't prompt you to go crazy overeating. Fruits for sweet cravings or popcorn is another great one.

To end, here's a quote that's been floating around this subreddit for years.

"Just because you have one flat tire does not mean you need to slash the other 3."

That's to say, just because you go off plan for one meal it doesn't mean you have blown it and should go ahead and eat all your favourite foods.

The most important advice when it comes to binge eating is to never give up trying to stop. Keep working on doing better.

If you made it all the way through, thank you for reading! I originally wrote this all down as a script for a youtube video I wanted to make, if anyone wants to check out the video on my channel, I go by the same username over there.

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Wednesday, November 7, 2018

26 lbs lost and stuck. Any advice/tips to push forward?

Hello ladies and gents of Reddit. Been browsing reddit for a while now and decided to make a post in hope of gaining some insight.

(Apologies for the few paragraphs of information)

I started my weight loss journey at the beginning of June this year after seeing photos of myself taken during a trip with friends to NYC. At 208 lbs I was use to the way I looked. But for some reason this time, when I looked through the pictures, I felt dread and mild embarrassment.

'Oh god look at my neck. My arms. Everything! So fat. Talk about unattractive.'

I've felt bad about my weight before, but never felt this ashamed. Oof.

So after I got back home from my trip I resolved to start losing weight seriously. I was finally tired and motivated enough to change.

With the MFP app I began eating (at first) 1330 calories a day and cutting out all bad/ processed food and drinks. The first month I lost weight rather quickly (10 lbs), which was obviously water weight. The first 3 months I did well (moved down to 1200 calories a day). Not too much of a physical change, but I was getting somewhere.

Then September came and the loss came to a sudden halt. I didn't really panic, since I knew everyone hits some walls during their journey. I just kept doing what I had been these past months. Well by the end of September I had only lost 3 lbs.

I signed up for the gym mid to late October and so far have only done 4-5 days of working out. I didn't expect anything to change in only a few workouts. But before and after, I've been stuck at the same weight of 182 lbs for a whole 30 days.

That caused me to be a little depressed and spend the whole weekend eating/drinking whatever I wanted.

I really don't know what to do to get passed this little wall. I heard it was unhealthy to go lower than 1200 calories a day for women. I feel down, but I don't want to give up.

If anyone has any advice or tips, it's greatly appreciated.

More about me:

24/F 5 feet 3 inches SW: 208 CW: 182 GW: 130

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Thursday, 08 November 2018

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

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Eating well until someone gifts me snacks... then I binge like a beast.... help

I have adopted a loose plant-based diet for a little less than a year now for weight loss, acne problems and digestion issues. Everything have been going well and I have lost 15 pounds, my skin cleared up a bit and my general health has improved. Coming from a background of eating disorder, this year has been the most successful year for me in a very long time in terms of eating and diet, but I am still struggling with controlling myself when it comes to snacks, or sweet food in particular. When I shop for my own groceries I always stay on track and I watch what I eat. I don't mind a little slip up sometimes - I take responsibilities of my own decisions and actions. However, when I am gifted food and snacks by friends, my lovely friends who are so sweet and would always offer me many gifts including food, I will be indulging all the sugar and carbs later that evening until only the crumbs are left. I simply do not have any self-control or will-power to NOT finish what is in the pantry. I feel like I have to finish it asap so that I don't have to think about it all day long, knowing that I am going to give in at any given moment until the kitchen is only left with the 'normal'/'healthy' food that I would normally eat for my meals. How can I go about this - how do I get rid of the mindset that I have to finish everything before I don't feel distracted by the food, and just eat like a normal person in general?

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Down 61 pounds today - Thank you! (and sorry for the long read).

Hey everyone! Thanks for this great community! I'm happy to have been a lurker till today.

Here it goes: Everyone knows what has to be done yada yada yada. We have the knowledge. We have the support. We have the examples. It helps, but ultimately it comes down to each one of us. It's effing hard till you put your mind into it, till you convince yourself you will be better now and even better in the future. Sure, it has been shitty - but it can't possibly be worse tomorrow if you start today. There's no way. Thing is, you've got to choose doing it for yourself, even tho you can obivoulsy still think of your loved ones and the good it will bring them too. I know I did think about my spouse and my 2 kids, but ultimately it was me: my health, my self steem, my living, my tomorrow.

Having said that, I went from 373 lbs in June/2017 to 312 lbs in November/2018 (38 yo male, 6'4/6'5). Down 61 pounds. It seems a great deal, sure, but I still have some ways to go. I'd like to be lighter, maybe 40 pounds or so lighter. I have time - and most implortantly I now have the means.

What I did when I find myself the heaviest I'd ever been: started looking for a sport - one that would not wreck my joints, that would not brake my feet and ankles and one that would not kill me immediately by heart attack. It had to be something I'd play for myself, not for a team - I couldn't let them down; one that I could choose wether to push harder for a short moment or save myself from dying.

So, after some considerarions, I started "playing" beach tennis. I mean, I stood at a court and had shots thrown at me. Out-of-shape, tired-in-2-minutes, immobile-like-a-cone beach tennis. I could return the ball if it was 5 inches around me; other then that, nope. Should I try my tiny little jump sideways to reach for a wider ball or do I let it slide? Sure enough, I'd always let it go. Didn't matter, I wasn't there to win, I was there to start being healthier. Strech my arms and legs sometimes. Step on sand. Get tired for a while. That was my initial goal, no more, no less.

Anyway, I endured. After my 1-hour class a week, I started trying eating less: salad and chicken breast, for a start, if only for that meal. Rest of the week, I ate like a 370 lbs person does: diet soda, pasta/bread/pizza/deep fried whatever, some sweets. I didn't miss that one tiny little meal after the class, afterall. Maybe I should do that twice a week, I thought. Just maybe. Just that one meal, see how it goes.

So, after 2 months, I added another 1 hour class to my schedule. Wednesdays nights and Saturdays mornings. A light dinner on Wednesdays, a light lunch on Saturdays. Not bad - I'd compensate some other time. No big deal.

Anyway, I started to see some change in my game performance. I would last longer on the court, I'd have better shots, I'd even want to play some more games sometimes. Sure I would think I should put more effort into it - like DIETING (damn) to complement my training -, but like I said (and you all know), it IS too hard. Yes, I can play 1 more hour each week, but there's no way I'm giving up my burgers. That was my train of thought. The usual stuff.

Ultimately, I now realize you gotta be convinced from within. I wasn't ready yet, but I sure was changing.

So, "since I can't easily change my intakes", I thought, "maybe I should try the gym". And I went for it. And I quit in 2 weeks, no shame. I know I should have tried harder - hell, stop trying and just do it! But I think sometimes you just have to find something else to give you motivation. For me, that was my beach tennis, not the gym. My twice-a-week, 1-hour-classes, light-meals-afterwards, less-eating-through-those-days beach tennis.

Fast forward 6/8 months of playing more and eating less - not always, but at least on the days I trained - and I accepted an invitation to play a tournament. Sure, why not? It's just another no big deal thing, afterall. Lost all of my six matches, but put on a fight. Endured. Completed all the games. I was okay with myself. "That's okay", I thought, "6 months ago I wouldn't even get out of my house to walk".

A few weeks later, another tournament, and lost again all of my 6 matches, tho I played better. "Maybe I have to train a little harder". "And wouldn't it be better if I also lost a little bit of weight"? "Let's try this", I thought. Just this time, just for these weeks befor the next one, just to see how it goes. No big deal.

"Just till my next tournament, no soda". It had started: a change of habits. I'm aware of it now. "Let's cut down on carbs", I thought, just to see how it goes. "People swear by it, so maybe it works?". All that keto I keep reading about at Redditt? "I can eat some more later, but just for now let's put that on hold".

Those 1-hour classes twice a week were still going strong, ultimately it was the part of the plan that I sticked to with no fail. Sometimes I would eat pizza at a week night, but it was less than usual. Soda I had cut. Pasta, eating less. Bread, rice, nah, let's leave it. Sweets? An ice cream sometimes. But just a little. Till my next tournament.

Well, the next tournament came and I won it, full stop. 65 players, 1 champion, and that was me. It had worked. People would compliment me on my game and on my weight loss. I had no awareness about my weight, honestly: I only wanted to be healthier and improve my game, be faster, more agile, do some dives to save some shots. Stepped on a scale and realized it: 46 pounds less. That was 65 days ago.

With my newfound will and realizing I had done a lot of the heavy lifting without barely noticing it, I went further: "now I will actively eat healthier, cut soda for good, eat less carbs, less sweets". Till my next tournament. That was it. And it's still working - I just lost another 15 pounds. My game is still improving, my clothes fit way better, my children and spouse compliment me. I'm happy for them, and I'm happy for mylself. I just know I'll keep doing this until I ultimately reach what I think it's better for myself, no hard goals in mind: be healthier, play better, enjoy life better, be a better example for them. Maybe 15 pounds less? 20 less? 8 less? Whatever makes me healthier and happier. No hard numbers, no hard goals. Be better each day, maybe just a little. Eat a slice or 2 of pizza tomorrow, but not today. Just not today. Are you positive you want it today? Then it's only one slice. Stick to it. It works if that's what you really want, from within.

I'm not going back to my old weight because I finally found what works for me, and most importantly, what matters to me: not that crappy soda can or that third slice of pizza, but better living, better felling, better breathing, better sleeping, better everything. Just a little bit of willpower - some excercise, some light dieting for a start, something that works for you. You'll feel better guaranteed. And even better tomorrow and the day after. Start now, just to see how it goes - "no big deal".

Thank you all, because from all the stories from this community, I could find the one that works for me. Your motivation, your feelings, your sharing, it all came to this: the realization that I can find my own means to achieve it, too. I hope you all can find yours.

And hey, I wouldn't complain about more trophies either. It's a great feeling, overall.

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250 lbs lost between two friends (she has lost 150 with calorie restriction and the help of bariatric surgery, I've lost 100 with keto) And neither of us are done yet!

First, the photo!

We are friends who met when I did an empowerment boudoir photoshoot for her when she was at her heaviest. We quickly became friends, and of course bonded over our strong belief that we all deserve to feel beautiful and love ourselves regardless of what size we are.

It was this ability to learn to love ourselves that allowed us both to finally begin our weight loss journeys.

The first of the two photos wasn't when we were both at our high weights, but neither of us were far off at that point.

For her, it was about being comfortable in her own skin that gave her the strength to finally be able to focus on her goals without feeling bad about her slip ups. It was seeing herself as beautiful, despite being a size 22, that allowed her to love herself.

For me, it was about finally getting to a point where I was tired of living with back pain every morning, and the constant worry about leaving behind my two young kids if I were to die prematurely. It was about learning to love myself and be happy in my life, despite my divorce a year and a half prior to starting my weight loss journey.

I inspired her to love herself, and she inspired me to make a change in my life. I wouldn't be where I am today without her, and she wouldn't be where she is today without me. Our love and acceptance for one another has helped both of us love and accept ourselves.

We still have a ways to go (she's fairly close to her goal, while I've got another 75 lbs to go), but we're getting there, and every time we see one another we are so proud of each other's progress, both physically and emotionally.

Here's to friends and weight loss and love and acceptance and empowerment and a life long journey of growth!

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