TL;DR: I’d love to hear some feedback and how your dating life has changed after losing weight.
Low key/high key … this is a tough one to come to terms with!
I’ve had the unfortunate experience of more than one person telling me that I was a "nice girl" but I was just not fit enough. I don’t want to attack anyone for feeling that way—in fact, props to the ones who came out and said it rather than the ones who used another excuse. I will say, for the most part, men have truly been kind.
I personally have definitely noticed a huge change after dropping 30 pounds – 250 to 220. It’s kind of awful, but I feel like dudes don’t look straight through me anymore. Lol it’s hard being a human. I also have the confidence to wear less makeup and wear my hair un-styled and just air-dried. I'm sure there is a level of natural confidence coming through as well that people pick up on. You know, we feel each other's energies and what not.
I carry my weight in my midsection which is dreadfully hard to get rid of. But it seems to be fairly well hidden until … the clothes come off! Haha!
I’ve mostly used dating apps with the very very very occasional date coming from *gasp* real life. This is D.C. in 2020! We are unwell!
Anyway, let me know what your experiences have been. Very curious.
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