Sunday, October 18, 2020

Starting my weight loss journey for the thousandth time

Hello, sorry if this is long this is my first post on Reddit. I have been lurking in this subreddit, I have read the about/faqs and have just been contemplating whether to make this post. I am a 19F, 5’5.5”, about 195lbs, BMI of 31.96. I have a history of mild asthma that doesn’t really affect in physical activity. Although I know that I am still young, I have always been on the chubby side and overweight. I’m honestly just embarrassed and not sure how I’ve gotten here. I’ve just been feeling bad about myself especially after looking back on my hs grad pics and noticing some of my peers starting their own workout Instagram pages.

This is the heaviest I have ever weighed, and I haven’t had much luck over the last couple of years (A lot of fluctuations). My body, weight and appearance has been a source of my insecurities for years. I used to go to the gym 1x a week last summer in 2019 and was about 180lbs( despite not knowing much of the best workouts for weight loss). Over the summer( June to end of Aug) I started doing IF 16:8, I tried doing some sort of calorie deficit and I also started doing a walking for weight loss program for 12 weeks. Unfortunately it looks like it didn’t end up doing much for me when it came down to my yearly physical appointment in August. I pretty much gave up on that program due to that disappointment . My physician recommended that I do some weight training and resistance training when I went off to school but I have no idea what it is, how to start and what equipment I would need.

I am a college freshman staying at home unable to go to the gym right now but hopefully plan to be able to my next semester in January. My goal weight is about 150lbs so I would like to lose around 45lbs. A lot of my weight is in my thighs with some of it in my stomach and then arms and face. I usually eat once a day, I no longer eat breakfast and once in a while have small snacks on the side. I live in the northeast so it will be getting cold soon. I don’t have scale which may be good to invest in nor do I have any workout equipment. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions for things to do at home as well as workouts/ suggestions that I could do at a gym?

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Anyone else feel weird at times about being congratulated on weight loss?

I lost a lot of weight recently (from 198 lbs to 129 lbs) and I feel very weird when I'm congratulated on it.

No one congratulated as much on graduating from college, from grad school, or from securing an amazing job in an amazing industry.

No congrats for working at the frontlines from when the COVID pandemic just hit.

Nothing on volunteering. Nothing on pulling myself out of living by my bootstraps under the poverty line. Nothing about how I was once a cashier at Target, and how I once lived in a car, and I'm now a successful tech consultant.

It's so weird. What if I lost all this weight from a terminal illness?

I know I'll probably get some comments telling me to deal with it and that men and society care more about a woman's weight than anything else, but still.

It makes me sad cause at the end of my marriage my exMIL implied that my weight was the reason for bad treatment from my ex-husband. She ignored everything else about me and would brag about how she was 125 at 5'4" on her wedding day. How I would always be cooking out of love to make sure there was a homecooked meal out of the table (even though my ex never appreciated it and ate outside anyways). How I would contribute financially to keep the bills paid. How I never cheated on her son. How I excelled in my career and volunteer efforts.

I am very grateful that I lost all of this weight, but I'm not sure how to deal with it. I also want to make sure that it doesn't get to my head because it seems like being thinner and fitter allows people to have license to treat others like crap and get away with it (i.e. my exBIL and his SO- they'd make a ton of fat jokes aimed at me and my ex-husband).

I just have a very difficult time accepting these congratulations. I can barely get myself to say "thank you" because I am so angry at how I was treated when I was heavier.

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Over the halfway line!!!

22F 5ft8 SW: 161lb CW: 144lb GW: 128lb

Gone from BMI 24.5 to BMI 21.8 in just under 2 months, just another 16lb of weight loss to go and then I'm going to start trying to tone up properly 💪 I know I am lucky in that I don't have much to lose, and my journey is likely a lot quicker than many others, but these last 2 months have entailed the biggest change in mindset I've ever had. I'm no longer making excuses for myself and spiralling into self hatred and I feel so motivated and capable!

My routine:

Firstly, I worked out my TDEE. For reference, my maintenance calories are approx 1800-2000 calories, depending on how active I am that day.

Ultimately, I made lots of small alterations to my lifestyle. My calorie intake varies, I have weeks of sticking around 1200-1300, with some days more around 1600-1800. I'd say my average intake and the one I try to stick around is 1400, putting me in a daily average 400-500 calorie deficit.

I do exercise more now, too. I used to walk a lot when I was at University, now I'm unemployed and in a pandemic my steps still aren't so great most days. But I now do pilates and yoga, lots of stretching and I do work outs with small weights, including HIIT once or twice per week. I know that once I'm in a job and a proper routine the added steps will help me sustain my weight loss.

The most important thing for me was cutting out snacking calories. I was a massive junk food vegan, and the bulk of my intake was my dinner and all the snacks I'd eat afterwards. I'm talking a full pint of vegan Ben & Jerry's, a a full pack of Jammy Dodgers, a multipack of 6 packs of salt & vinegar crisps & 3 packets of strawberry laces in one sitting, after eating a full, big portioned dinner. I knew this food had to go, I was just eating out of boredom, tbh, and it was most nights, not occasionally, as I'd tell myself.

I started accurately counting my calories every single day using Myfitnesspal, using a food scale and measuring cups. I began to start streamlining my meals to improve my macros, switching from fatty oat milk to protein-fortified soya milk, from frozen curly fries to home-cooked sweet potato wedges, from regular fusili to wholewheat etc.

Breakfast:

Instead of having my morning coffee with oat milk and flavoured sugar syrup, I now whisk a quarter cup of soya milk in with coffee granules and a scoop of vanilla protein powder, microwave for a minute and then mix in boiling water.

I cut out bread for the most part, and began eating oatmeal with nut butter and fruit. If I have regular breakfast cereal on lazy days, I will measure out exactly 30g and have with a quarter cup of soya milk. I also sometimes go for Paleo granola (grain free, mostly nuts) and alpro yoghurt and fresh fruit.

Lunch:

I often used to skip lunch, but now I like to have small meals like a tofu or avocado salad, or avocado on one slice wholewheat toast, or pesto pasta salad, or use leftovers from previous dinners. I like to dress up my lunches with lots of hot sauce, balsamic vinegar, flaxseed, nuts, dried goji berries, nutritional yeast etc.

Dinner:

As a prolific evening eater, I knew I'd probably want to save most of my calories for my evening dinner. I generally have 600-900 calorie evening meals, whereas my breakfast and lunch rarely ever exceed 300 calories per meal.

I've been trying new recipes, like Vietnamese Pho, which is one of my new favourites, broccoli and cauliflower cashew cheese bake, roasted vegetable tart. I'm really enjoying trying out new methods of incorporating whole foods in my meals! I still eat a fair amount of carbs, but far far less than I used to, and I aim for 45:25:30 carbs to protein to fat. Not the best, but more easily achieveable for me with my vegan diet as there aren't as many lean protein sources available to me.

I've started using more protein sources, like lentils, seitan, tofu and quinoa. I used to have very heavy carb meals, for example, I'd have a vegan "steak" with chunky chips and potato cakes and peas, or veggie sausages, mash and beans with an unholy portion of buttery, creamy mash potato. Now, my meals mostly revolve around vegetables and a protein source, with perhaps a few starchy vegetables or a smaller portion of couscous.

Snacks:

Snacks during the day are mostly small quantities of fresh or dried fruit or a few nuts. I try not to eat mindlessly as I know snacks do add up. Sometimes I do still snack on biscuits, but the important thing is I rarely eat more than 2 rather than demolish the entire packet.

If I want a evening snack, and I have enough calories left, I'll measure out a serving suggestion of low calorie ice cream like Alpro Mango & Passionfruit, or Halo Top Dairy Free caramel, and rip up some dried banana to top it, or get a single pack of salted pretzels and eat with a low fat cream cheez dip, or a small pot of houmous.


I'd love to be at my goal weight by New Years, but realistically I know the last few pounds will take longer than the first few. I don't care when I get there, but I'm so happy to be well on my way! I actually feel like my choices are sustainable! Even though sometimes I do endulge in an occasional takeaway, I still eat ice cream frequently, and maybe have one two many beers once a week or so, I feel like I am better able to balance these indulgences with a healthy diet, and it is no longer the case for me that one binge means I keep bingeing.

Thanks for reading! If anyone has any further suggestions I am super open to hearing them. My focus now is on further upping my protein and trying to eat more iron, as its the one thing I am consistently deficient in.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 18 October 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Sick and tired of being sick and tired

Hey everyone, I am new to the community, and ready to change my life for the better. I am 19F and I currently weigh 300 pounds. I am 5'10, so my goal weight is 150. I have struggled with my weight my entire life, and it has done a number on me mentally. I started gaining weight around summer 2017, when I quit doing marching band and started working a job. I have an unhealthy relationship with food; I use it as a coping mechanism. Since I was making all of this money from my job and my time wasn't consumed with band, I starting eating out. A lot. This is what contributed to my weight loss. The lightest I have been since then is 277, and that is when I was sick. I want to lose weight for cosmetic purposes and to have more energy and stop having fatigue 24/7. I just want to overall feel better about myself. Like I said, I am extremely reliant on food. Whenever I think of food, I think how tasty it would be, and I can't refrain from that, so I eat it and feel terrible after. If I want to taste something, I will get it. It is a terrible cycle, but I am dead set on breaking it. When my scale hit 300 two days ago it broke my heart. I also saw my body in the mirror from behind and realized just how big I actually was. If it makes sense, I have never thought of myself as a huge person. I don't have that mentality. But seeing myself and the scale.... it was horrid. I am hopefully going to keep track on here of my weight loss journey, because this starts now!

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Saturday, October 17, 2020

I’ve lost 1.5lbs this week!

My weight loss has been rather slow these past few months and many weeks I’ve maintained which I’ve not been too fussed about, I mean it can be frustrating however better than gaining. This week I’ve weighed and I’ve lost 1.5lbs! I havnt been this light in two years according to my weight loss diary. I’m now 146lbs. My highest weight back in 2016 was 205lbs and my lowest weight is 120lbs (which wasn’t achieved healthily and I found it impossible for me to maintain happily) I am 5ft 4 also so not exactly tall. I’m finally starting to feel confident in my body again and also building a healthier relationship with food. I am still calorie counting and watching my macros but the last couple weeks I’ve left enough room for a small treat and it’s kept me from feeling deprived and because I’ve been within calories/macros I havnt felt the dreaded food guilt either. I’m working out 3-4 times a week, but active whilst at work. I’d like to get down to 135lbs perhaps but as for now I’m happy slowing plodding along and seeing where it takes me. No stress, just taking each day as it comes. I felt like I had to come and post here, I’m not very active anymore but often lurk in the shadows. Ok anyway thanks for listening. :)

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Weight loss, then gaining it all back plus more

Has anyone else here related to this?? About a year and a half ago, I reached my heaviest of 248 lbs (I’m 5’9) and was mortified. I then joined a bunch of fitness challenges and lost about 30-40 lbs. Since a year ago, I’ve gained the weight back plus 2 lbs (250). I’m just so disappointed in myself and my body. It’s even more embarrassing seeing people I haven’t seen in a while considering I gained all the weight back. A lot of factors went into my weight gain that I’m starting to realize, such as depression, quarantine weight gain, binge eating, hating my body, being in an unhealthy relationship where we enabled each other’s bad habits, the list could go on.

As of last week I’ve decided I want to actively make good choices for myself. The hardest thing for me when it comes to choosing a healthy lifestyle is discipline. For some reason I’m always making excuses for myself, but now I’m done. I’m ready to choose happiness. I’m ready to treat myself kindly.

Today I went to the gym and ran 5.5 miles. My goal is to do pretty consistent cardio and to stop eating like shit lol. Sorry if this is a rant I’m just so fed up with feeling like this all the time. It’s time to fix 2020 damage!!!

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