My husband and I have been having problems relating to sex and appearance due to his porn addiction, it has been very hard on me and losing weight was for me but felt wrong. My husband starting becoming worried and insecure about my weight loss and worried about me losing weight that he unintentionally would self sabotage around me. He would invite me to eat out buy fast food or junk, food was a big part of our bonding, my life style change was starting to hurt our relationship more. I had decided to stop and focus on trying to lessen his worries and be supportive so he understood that I want to make him comfortable, this led to a lot of talking a lot of crazy fights about body image and problems we have dealt with for years.
The end result was he now is joining me on this journey and life change and I am so proud of him. He is counting calories, exercising (even if he does not want too), and he is pushing himself to be better and healthy. I am so happy, we have been doing this for 4 days now and I am successfully and swiftly dropping, he is too. I just wanted to share this because I am so proud of my new journey partner and am excited to know I have already lost 4lbs, I feel like this is the support and lift I needed and encourages me to push harder!!! :)
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