Do they do it intentionally? It seems like every time I’ve told someone close to me about a step I’m making or a plan I’m excited to try, their behavior changes towards me and my eating habits. People will bring me a treat, encourage me to “live a little” or consistently make bad choices around me.
I know that only I am responsible for my actions. It just feels strange that people who love me and care about my health seem to react negatively when I actually start losing. An ex-boyfriend who was encouraging me to lose had the opposite reaction after a little while. A friend tried to convince me to go to McDonald’s four times after I said I wanted to cut down on fast food. Etc.
I know that these people love me but their actions and messages, whether intentional or not, are confusing. Has anyone else experienced this?
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