Saturday, October 23, 2021

I need help balancing my lifestyle

Maybe this is more a rant than anything. My boyfriend and I are back living with our own grandparents/parents (around here apartments are scarce and after we moved out of our last place we couldn’t find anywhere to move to next). At my house, my grandma and I eat our vegetables, grilled chicken, fish, fruits, etc. She never pressures me to eat if I’m not hungry, either. I have a better sense of routine and can better track what I’m putting in my body. We’re both on a weight loss journey and I’m about 15 pounds away from being at my gw. However, my boyfriend and his mom are both obese. They eat out for every meal and my boyfriend has a habit of overeating. Whenever I go over to stay with him he wants to get fast food even if I offer to cook for us. Whenever I tell him I’m not hungry he thinks I’m feeling bad about my weight and am trying to starve myself; so he gets me something to eat anyways. Whenever we go to his family gatherings, which is often, they continuously offer me junk food. When we lived together it wasn’t so much a problem because he could see I was eating and I had my own groceries. I don’t know if I should ride it out until we move or if there’s a way to do things differently but I’m getting frustrated being so close to my gw. It IS getting to the point that I think about it so much I am becoming insecure again.

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