Monday, October 31, 2022

I went too far trying to lose weight and now I don’t know what to do

Throwaway account here, I apologize in advance if I don’t make much sense as I’m just kind of ranting off of emotions

I (M21) (5’8 in height) lost ~60 lbs (210lbs to 150lbs) around 2-3 years ago. I had been overweight all of my life up until that point. I was probably the happiest I’d ever been at the time, for the first time in my life I was considered a normal weight and I had more confidence, people began to treat me kinder, and I would get lots of compliments on my weight loss from people who knew me beforehand.

However, despite having lost so much weight, I found myself in a position of being skinny fat. Despite doing weight training at the time, once I hit my goal weight of 150 I still had noticeable man boobs (which I know isn’t gyno) and a good amount of belly fat. This took a huge toll on my already fragile self esteem, and things stayed this way for a while. I ended up maintaining this up until a few months ago, where I decided I’d had enough and went 3 months eating 1200-1500 calories.

My goal here was to finally, at the very least, get rid of my man boobs once and for all and finally be normal and have a flat chest and belly like all of my friends who are around the same height and weight. By the end of the 3 months I ended up at 131 lbs, but much to my dismay my torso barely looked any different and all I was left with were skinny arms that had lost any muscle they once had.

I had maintained this weight for about a month, largely thanks to a newfound obsession with calories. I would constantly think about food, immediately after eating my first thought would be “what will I eat later? can it fit in my calorie budget?” etc etc

Until suddenly my habits just shifted. I think the stress my schoolwork in college piled on top of my existing stress with food, my body refusing to lose fat, etc, and I began emotional eating. The current college semester began and for the past month I’ve been eating out constantly with friends, and if not that, I’m binging on a huge box of oreos that the local dollar store sells. I think I went to far and now I’m “yo-yo”ing. In the past month I’ve gone from 131 lbs to 140 and now I’m terrified I’ll eat myself back into being overweight and I’m not sure how to stop gaining and repair my relationship with food.

I just want to be normal and eat what I want when I want, be confident in my own body, and not have food on my mind 24/7. I just felt the need to rant here because I really don’t know what to do.

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203lbs -> 155lbs (CW) What I learned

This advice is not novel and entirely anecdotal. It is simply what helped me. I hope it helps even just one person.

  1. Start slow and small. If you try to adopt some insanely elaborate lifestyle on Day 1, you will not stick to it. Think of it like weightlifting or really anything in life that requires improvement. If you wanted to become jacked, you wouldn't walk into the gym day 1 and try to bench 500lbs. First of all, you cant and second its entirely pointless. Instead, you'd start at (for sake of example) 100 lbs. Next week you'd go to 105. Then, 110... etc. Same with weight loss. Yesterday you drank 5 sodas? Ok, drink 4 today. Iterative improvements are key to success in the long term.
  2. Don't try to be perfect. You are going to mess up. You're going to overeat or overdrink. If you try to be perfect, then this failure may derail you, which would set you back a ton. Instead, when you mess up, just wake up the next day and say, "What can I do today to make what I did yesterday not as painful?" Boom, you're back on track. And yes, it is okay if you mess up 6/7 days your first week. Go for only messing up 5/7 days the following week, and so on. The iterative improvement applies here.
  3. Eat what you like. This relates to point 1. If you condemn yourself to a strict diet of raw vegetables, and you don't like raw vegetables, then you will fail. You can eat what you like, just eat less of it. It really is that simple! Of course, actually doing that isn't simple and I'm not trying to diminish the effort necessary to do so. But, enjoying the foods you like while reducing quantity has been key in my success.
  4. Determine exactly WHY you want to do this. Since you're here, you obviously want to lose weight. But pinpointing a reason (or a few) down to an exact sentence is incredibly valuable. You can use this as a sort of mantra and remind yourself why you're on this journey.
  5. Replace your food addiction with healthy habits. When dealing with addiction, it is nearly impossible if you do not find things to occupy yourself with. Busy mind is a distracted mind. Distracted mind is a mind that is not craving food. These healthy habits can be anything, by the way! It does not have to be a physically active one, or anything. It only has to be something you truly enjoy doing.
  6. "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right." - Henry Ford. This quote is so unbelievably true. If you're reading this, that means there is a part of you that believes you can achieve this. Even if it is tiny. Cling to it like your life depends on it and believe in yourself.
  7. Don't expect immediate results. Maybe it is social media, or our shortened attention spans, but I constantly see the old, "Lose 10 pounds in a month" or "Get abs in a week." It's all crap. All of it. I'm not saying it is dishonest (although it probably is), but rather it is entirely irrelevant to your journey. See how long it takes you to reach your goals and don't worry if others are faster or slower. Just focus on the goal and the path to get there.
  8. Start loving yourself now. The act of committing to a new lifestyle to improve your health (or whatever the reason is) is evidence of you loving yourself and wanting to take care of yourself. You will not magically love yourself once you lose the weight. But, loving yourself will definitely help you to lose it.
  9. Extreme ownership is so valuable. Own your weight and all the reasons behind it. There is absolutely no doubt in the world that some (maybe all) of the reasons are not your fault. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter. You have to own it and own it all. Otherwise you'll just keep blaming other things (and likely rightfully so) instead of focusing on achieving your goals.
  10. A person who is not supporting you is not your friend. This includes potentially enabling your food addiction. If you share your goals and what you're trying to do with people, you will be able to tell immediately if they are your friend. If they laugh and say, "You'll never do that", well they are not your friend. Drop them and use their doubt to fuel your motivation to achieve your goals.
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A near 0 calorie solution to satisfy your sweet tooth with no artificial sweeteners

I know everyone's got their own unique weaknesses when it comes to weight loss, but mine has always been sugary beverages and the need for something sweet in the evenings. It ended up adding upwards of 500 calories to my diet. For me it was about something tasty to look forward to throughout the day while I worked. And so of course I had my noonish cup of coffee with cream and sugar + something sweet before bed.

After noticing the scale tick up though I figured I'd better find a strategic way to deal with this weakness of mine. I tried to replace these items with scented carbonated water and it helped a little, but not much. So I tried Drift drinks (carbonated water plus citric acid and a little fruit puree) and though they had a few calories (4-10) it didn't really satisfy the cravings either.

That's when I remember as a kid my dad used to grow these shrubs from the African Sahel that produced a small fruit that temporarily modified your taste buds to perceive sour and tart flavors as sweet instead. I'd use it as a party trick back in Highschool and college by giving the berry to friends then have them bite into a raw lemon (it would be deliciously sweet like lemonade.) The downside was back then the only place that I could get the berry was from my dad's 4 foot tall shrub, and it only produced a few hundred berries a year. I was so enamored with them that I did my undergraduate chemistry thesis on them.

Anyway, 20 years later a few places in Miami are producing the berry and freeze drying it for sale. I tried a few of them with Drifts, and I was gobsmacked by how effective the combination was. So for instance, one berry + a mango/orange drift of 8 calories tasted like Mango Lase. One Berry + raspberry limeade of 4 calories tasted like super sweet raspberry limeade. It was like drinking a soda minus the calories and sugar crash.

Now in the afternoon and evening I just sub out my calorically heavy treat for a 4 calorie or 8 calorie drink, and my craving for sweets is satisfied.

The only downside (or upside?) is that within 30-60 minutes or coating your taste buds with the berry it makes EVERYTHING with a tart or sour taste sweet. So for instance, ketchup, sour cream, plain yogurt, pickles, etc.

The other downside is that the berries are somewhat expensive. A drift + 1 berry will end up coming out to about $2, and if you are burning through 4 a day, it gets expensive (worth the weight loss for me, though.)

Anyway, if you want to try it out, they are for sale a few places. Just go to Amazon and Google Miracle Berries or Miracle Fruit (what I called them as a kid). The freeze dried ones work best.

And remember, the active protein needs to coat your taste buds to work, so you can't just swallow them (instead you swish them around in your mouth so they coat your whole mouth for about 30 seconds).

Anyway, just thought I'd share this interesting factoid. It's helped me with weight loss a lot and allowed me to cutout most of the added sugar in my diet.

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Sunday, October 30, 2022

290Lbs, Weight Loss Question, Male

I'm currently on my own weight-loss journey and I was wondering if this looks like a feasible diet for losing weight and adjusting to a better "life-style" in general.

Diet

Current Height: 6' 1" Current Weight: 290.5 Lbs Daily Calorie Intake: 2,451 Calories Daily Protein Intake: 251.8 Grams 

Workout

Strength Training: 4 Days / Week Cardio/Boxing: 30-45 Minutes 2 Days / Week 1 Rest Day [Sunday] 

I have a WFH job, so I have lowered the calorie intake from the recommended 2700-3000 calories, to 2,451, because I will not be as mobile during the work day.

I understand "lose skin" will be inevitable, but I would like to minimize it as much as possible, so please leave tips and suggestions for that as well.

Thank you! 🙂

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Losing fat everywhere except for my belly

So I’m in a weight loss journey rn, I was never overweight but I was on my way there. I gained 60 pounds I went from 120 at 5’8 to 180 in 3 years ago, I even became pre-diabetic.

So far since March I was able to lose 35 lbs, went down to 145 and I noticed that fat started to go away from my face, then my thighs and ass, I went a size down and now I’m able to see my ribcage but I still do have fat belly in comparison to the rest of my body and I’m not sure how much more weight I should lose and I don’t wanna go back to being 120lbs because at the time I thought I was too skinny.

What would be the best way to lose belly fat? Should I just continue on losing weight and hope it’s going to disappear once I reach a certain weight?

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When did the excessive sweating stop on your weight loss journey?

I’ve been on my weight loss journey for two months now and I’ve lost about 20 pounds or so. I’m a 5’11 male and I used to weight around 270 and now I’m 251. Being sweaty all the time was probably one of the worst parts about being overweight for me. It caused me to have a lot of social anxiety because the moment the slightest bit of heat touched my face, sweat would start dripping all over my face. If I was a heavy sweater on my body/pits I probably wouldn’t mind as much. But sweating constantly on my face is so annoying especially in the workplace or social events. I avoided any events that I knew wouldn’t be in a cool setting.

I noticed that I lost fat all around my body except my belly/man boob area. I still have a pretty big gut which will probably be last to go. I’m assuming all the extra body fat around my upper body is still causing a lot of insulation which is making me sweat more.

So when did y’all notice the sweating caused by excessive weight stop? I’m hoping by the time I get to 200-220 it gets better. Please share your experiences!

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Early morning workouts and weight loss

Starting to train before work, around 5:30am. If you’ve done this how have you sustained it whilst trying to loose weight? Any tips and tricks?

Do you eat before, snack before it or go in fasted with pre workout?

How has it affected you during the day after a workout?

Have you noticed any difference from training early AM to evening whilst cutting?

Potentially looking at doing weight training in the morning then cardio in the evening after work!

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The more weight I lose, the more I hate everything about myself.

Over the past 1.5 years, I [F25, 5'8", SW 230, CW 169] have lost 60 pounds and honestly my self-image has never been worse.

Before, when I was literally obese, I treated myself with kindness and care. With every pound that I shed, I knew I was doing something good for myself and I was fine with taking things low and slow.

Now I'm almost at my original goal weight and hate so many things. I've stripped away so much fat already but still don't like what lies beneath. I still hate my face, my body shape, I'm starting to think that, overall, the problem may just be... me.

I've already decided to reduce my "goal" by 10 pounds, but what if I still don't like things then? Have any of you struggled with a self-image that was apparently (paradoxically) shattered by weight loss? What did you do?

Honestly, any advice at all would be much appreciated. I'm really not sure where to go from here.

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Just need to share my thoughts on my weight loss

Hey you all,

I have started to lose it at the beginning of february, starting with 125kg. I was miserable with it. At the End of July I was down to 95kg and I was so fucking happy. Everyone complimented me on it and I feel so much better, feel more healthy, I am not snoring anymore and can walk up a flight of stairs, actually multiple, without being out of breath. I have started dressing nice again and just generally taking care of myself.
But then at the beginning of august I had to find out my dad has pancreatic cancer and will probably die before the end of the year. That really threw me for a loop. I did not pay that much attention to eating for the last two months because I had to travel a lot to help my parents and what not and I also used it as an excuse to eat unhealthy. Which really sucks, I don't know why I am doing this.

Anyhow, I am back to 100kg now, meaning I gained 5 kg in the last two months basically. It is really annoying. I still have come a long way so far, I lost 25 kg in a rather short time, but by now I wanted to be at 90kg not at 100.

Yeah, I don't really know where I am going with this, just needed to get this of my chest. Thank you for reading.

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It’s hard to just say no to food in social situations

So I’m reflecting on my eating today and I feel like I ate more than i would have alone.

I went out with friends to walk around downtown. Naturally, we were hungry around dinner time so I ordered a sandwich, and the rest of the group ordered as well.

They were still hungry, so ordered fries which I didn’t eat. I may have snacked on 1-2 fries but then realized I was full

We all went for ice cream after— I always order a kids size but they didn’t allow me to because I was an adult, so I ordered the full size because the group was getting their own. Then we walked around some more then stopped in a pop up booth for snacks and drinks.

Now was I hungry for snacks or drinks…. No but it felt like the social thing to do.

TLDR: I’m on a weight loss journey, but how can I still lose weight but not feel left out with the social aspect of eating? I know I can just say I don’t want to eat x but you get into the other people feel left out or your left out and it just sucks no matter what lol

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Saturday, October 29, 2022

Weight loss and online dating.

I'm fine with chatting, but I'm not at the point where I feel comfortable scheduling anything. I'm ok with that. It's so easy to accidentally encounter the wrong person, then they can say something that gets in your head and makes you want to make a bad nutrition choice. That can happen at a target weight too. But one thing I'm happy about is that I know I'm losing weight for myself because I'm not risking my journey to a healthy weight on others/dating. It's self care to be aware of your triggers and to find ways to be able to manage them on your terms. I'm too busy right now working on myself to meet for a date, but I'll definitely chat with you for now.

How are you managing weight loss, and dating?

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Lost 15 pounds, but it wasn't the win I thought it was going to be

I'm so frustrated about this!

So I was in the outback working with camels for 2 months (long story) and throughout my time there I lost 15 pounds! I was so happy! I was burning between 3000-4000 calories a day, and I don't know how much I was eating, but considering we were in the middle of no where it definitely wasn't junk lol, so I was definitely eating at a deficit.

But now I'm back in civilization and I got a body scan only to find out that half of that was muscle loss! I'm so disappointed. I feel like half of my recent weight loss success was just ripped away, and that all of the muscle gains from the last 6 months were too! It does make sense, I went from doing strength-focused HIIT 3-4X per week to not doing any dedicated exercise. While I was lifting things, a lot of the exercise was cardio-based (Walking up to 20 km a day some days). My cardio fitness has increased substantially, which is good because that was without a doubt my weakest point. But I'm still feeling frustrated that what I thought was a big win was just me losing the muscle I'd worked so hard to gain.

I don't know what exactly I hope to get out of this post. To be honest, I think I just needed to vent a bit! So thank you for listening to my terrible TED talk lol

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Saxenda weight loss experience (42M)

To anyone who might find this useful, I wanted to share my weight loss experience with Saxenda (drug you subcutaneously administer, daily). First comment - look at the FDA data for how people respond on average. But for those of you that want some first hand, anecdotal information (the least trustworthy for a scientist, but also sometimes the kind of information you don't find in an FDA report) here was my experience. (For background, the first 5 weeks on Saxenda, you increase the dosage from 0.6 mg to 1.2, mg, 1.8, , 2.4, 3.0 mg over 5 weeks so your body gets used to it.)

Day 0: Male, 42 yrs old, weight 223 lbs, height 5' 11.5 inches. BMI =30.5 (obese). Only health problem diagnosed was moderate sleep apnea.

Day 1 through 7 - 0.6 mg shots, daily.

This first week on the medication (taken at night before bed), I did not feel hungry, but my stomach felt empty. Like there was a void in my stomach. I could clearly recognize I was not eating as much, and my stomach was empty, but I was not hungry. On the third day, I said screw it, even though I am not hungry I will eat my favorite chinese food for lunch. That night, at 3 am, I woke up in horrendous pain, as I could feel the chinese food course through my bowels over 30 minutes, and finally be eliminated. My doctor had warned me "Listen to your body, don't eat fatty foods, eat high fiber foods, vegetables, and only eat when you are hungry." So I did listen to my body the rest of the first week. I was repulsed by the idea of fatty foods, and avoided them. (From watching a youtube video, it appears many people stop increasing the dose due to this type of experience.)

Day 7 through 14 - 1.2 mg shots, daily

By day 7 I was down to 218 lbs. This second week my appetite declined further on the higher dose. I listened to my body which wanted to avoid fatty foods, had no more bouts of middle-of-the-night bowel aches. Two side effects were, due to my reduced eating, I noticed my energy levels dropping a lot in the afternoons (probably sugar levels? but no actual test done) . So I actually started eating candy every other day in the afternoon. Secondly, I was not getting a good night sleep - tossing and turning in the middle of the night, but not fully waking up. I also noticed I was (for the first time) forgetting whether I ate lunch, and not being hungry from missing it. I will say that the "empty stomach, void feeling" from the first week was still there, just to a lesser degree.

Day 14 through 21- 1.8 mg shots, daily.

By day 14 I was down to 215. This third week, of the increased dosage, changed everything for two reasons. First, the higher does completely removed the "empty stomach, not hungry" feeling. Now, from Day 14 onwards, I was just not hungry. There was no signal from my stomach telling my brain it was empty. Additionally, for some reason, I didn't have the drops in energy in the afternoons. I was feeling good this week. The second reason was I realized that perhaps taking the shot in the morning, upon waking up, would be better than at night right before bed. It turned out this was huge. I'm a light sleeper, and Saxsenda, even without fatty foods, occasionally had my intestines doing extra contractions. They were not painful, they were just there, and my body registered them when I was sleeping - leading to listless sleep. During the day it was barely noticeable (I could distract myself with work). But at night, asleep, it would make my sleep agitated. Taking it in the morning meant I got a great night sleep, and lost weight. Specifically, I have observed that 4 hours after the shot, my intestines start doing a non-painful "dance".

Day 21 through 28- 2.4 mg shots, daily.

By day 21, I was down to 212. At this point, I was getting great sleep, feeling good, eating less, and listening to my body to avoid fatty foods. Additionally, I had more energy during the day. I strongly suspect my sleep apnea decreased (although not tested with any phone apps, etc!). Sleep apnea is strongly correlated with weight. And I seemed to make a transition - I was no longer tossing and turning - I would wake up in the same position I fell asleep in 7 hours earlier - and I had more energy. So overall was feeling good.

Day 28 to 35 - 3.0 mg shots, daily.

By Day 28, I was down to 210. No change in feeling from the previous 2 weeks. Got random complements from 5 different people - coworkers and family - that I was looking good. And got a girls phone number after meeting her on an airplane. (And no, that never happened before.)

One thing I will say that I noticed (which is an anecdote, and should be taken with a huge grain of salt) is that I think some spider veins on my cheek and nose became more prominent after being on Saxenda. Have no idea if this was caused by the medication. But again, this is an anecdotal report.

In summary, I have had a good experience with Saxenda. If you look at the FDA data, the median patient loses about 9% of body weight in the long run. So I might be just over halfway to the weight loss I can expect (median target = 202 lbs). Hope this helps anyone considering this weight loss drug. I know I would have found it useful.

Additional comments:

  1. Administering the drug was not painful, and left no marks on me.
  2. My insurance covers the cost for obese people (BMI > 30) or overweight people (BMI > 25) who have at least one weight comorbidity (such as sleep apnea).
  3. Once you start, you do not need to keep the drug refrigerated. So you can carry it around with you or when traveling.
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Dealing with stress during weight loss?

I've been dieting for a long time and struggled a lot as I used food as an unhealthy coping mechanism. From my experience, I've only ever managed to lose weight by following a meal and exercise plan, so that's what I am now doing.

Still, there's one issue--doing this stresses me out so much that I feel like I can't add other things into my life like studying for my online degree or working on side projects. At this point, I'm only working at minimum effort so I can afford to buy stuff. The meal and exercise plan is pretty easy to follow as well: I eat three meals a day with optional snacks Mon-Fri, eat whatever in moderation on Sat-Sun, and workouts are 4-5 times a week.

Things like working out used to energize me and kept me feeling good mentally but now I only notice the physical strength I gain with very little benefits to my mental health. I feel like if I add anything else to my goal, I would not be able to handle the stress and just drop everything completely. I was thinking it was because I haven't found a good replacement for my coping mechanism or a good stress management alternative. I also noticed as I was writing this that it sounds a lot like mild depression symptoms.

I was wondering if others on this subreddit have been through something similar. If so, how did you deal with it?

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Have you ever felt like you put too much unnecessary pressure on yourself?

Height: 5’0 weight: 123 starting weight: 185

So I started my journey back around April of last year and have been very satisfied with how far I’ve come and I look great. I feel great. Howeve I’ve noticed to have some intense feelings, especially with food.

I’m 3 pounds way from hitting my goal weight (120 lbs) but somehow I always feel like I’ve messed. I eat clean and do exercise during the week and indulge a bit in the weekend, nothing crazy. However, I’m way too hyper focus about the things I eat now.

I could eat 3 peanut m&ms and feel like I’ve eaten the whole bag.

I feel this also was caused when I went to a dermatologist about cysts I get around my thighs and how the weight loss benefits me from getting them less frequently. However she said “at your height, your ideal weight is 115” and that just thru me for a loop. she was very nice and I know for my height my weight should be much lower but it put me in this position of feeling where im not enough.

Idk, I feel I’m putting too much pressure and I don’t know how to stop

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Looking for a weight loss buddy

Hi everyone, I currently have a BMI of 31 and am looking to lose some weight. I have been trying to exercise and eat mindfully, but nothing seems to last more than a few weeks. I really want to permanently get rid of my extra fat by changing bad habits and perceptions about healthy living.

If you are interested and are willing to go on a weight loss journey with me, do give me a dm or comment below. If not, any tips on how to not think about food all the time will also be appreciated ;)

FYI: I am a female living in Sydney. I reckon it would be easier if we are in the same timezone, but am also keen to get to know people from other places :D

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Need help figuring out what I am doing wrong, stuck on a plateau after consistent weight loss

I started out last year at about 260 and now I'm at 195. I eat between 1200-2400 calories depending on if I exercised that day and I usually manage to get to the gym 27-28 days a month. I do 2 hours on the elliptical and a couple more hours of walking at home. MFP has my calorie goal at 2070 per day and other TDEE calculators tend to put it higher than that. Problem is I have been stuck at 195 for about a month and a half now and it is seriously discouraging.

https://imgur.com/a/iB3ts3B

These are the last 5 days and are pretty typical for me overall. I also log EVERYTHING and basically don't cook/make meals due to the difficulty in calculating calories so I only order off of menu's with listed calorie counts, usually fast food or prepackaged meals. I also have cut liquid calories and snacking completely out of my diet except for energy drinks, which are logged and accounted for. Any idea where the issue lies? Are the calorie counts I log for my foods higher than listed, are the calories estimated from exercise in app/on the machine grossly inflated?

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Friday, October 28, 2022

Stopping an unwelcome trend

Hello. Just asking for a bit of advice

I know losing weight is a process bug last few days made me a but worried i am slippin. I have been on my weight loss journey since june and was doingreally well. The pst days have been much more difficult though, i am eating too much again. I had some stressful events and wanted to do a lot at once before traveling so it was somehow bad for my overall mood and as i was used to turning to food to feel better that ks exactly what i dod several days. Not good and makes me nervous.

Any tips to go back to good habits? I was not undereating amd had enough protein amd stuff as per the dietitians advice but just have a problem with will power i guess

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medication to treat binge eating?

hi all!

im super new to this subreddit and im hoping this doesn't count as "promoting unhealthy weight loss". after struggling with BED for years, i've finally decided to make the decision to consciously try to lose weight and reduce my eating. it's been really hard and ive broken my progress multiple times. im not gonna quit, but i was wondering if anyone knows anything about taking medication to reduce appetite and/or prevent symptoms of BED. i've heard of certain medications like Vyvanse that can help reduce symptoms of BED, does anyone take this or something similar? has it helped you? and is it healthy to take such medication or should i try losing weight the "normal" way? i do plan to exercise, have a calorie deficit and eat healthier, but I think medication would help. thoughts?

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hoodwinked, tricked, bamboozled!

So I have ben on pretty strict healthy living kick since September( F,29,165cm,130kg)and I signed up for a personal trainer at the gym and have been going 3 times a week every week, weight training mainly. But the scales have hardly moved at all... But my my body feels smaller clothes fit better

I had been very very tired for all the extra exercise and a friend recommended I try increasing my protein intake, which I have done for about 3 weeks and I feel I have much more energy.

I have been tracking my kJs in My fitness pal and consistently staying in the deficit. So pretty confused why I'm not seeing more progress with my weight loss.

Yesterday I downloaded the 'lose it' and there is a big difference in the kJs intake goal compared to MFP, have I been eating too much and not actually been in a true deficit?

MFP recommends 6235kJs a day whereas lose it recommends 5583kJs.

Some advice would be appreciated on what I should eat and achieve foodwise to lose it weight and build muscle, feeling lost and confused, internet is so hard to find true valuable information

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super food greens and weightloss

SW: 245 CW: 209 GW: 175

I recently had a baby in july. I went from 195lbs to 245lbs during my pregnancy. I'm currently down 36 pounds and starting to take my weight loss journey even more serious with CICO diet & intermittent fasting. I work a lot and very early so I'm always so tired but have stopped drinking coffee bcs of the added calories/sugar. I heard super food greens in powder form are a good alternative as they provide energy as well as speed up the metabolism. But are they really worth it?? Does anyone here take super green powders like bloom? are they really beneficial in aiding in weight loss/ gut health?! please let me know!

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I am living proof that eating below your BMR actually CAN stall weight loss & it’s NOT always as easy as eating in a deficit

Quick background- I have struggled on and off with weight loss since I was a kid. I did weight watchers at the end of high school and then gained weight crazy fast in college- got up to 250lbs (I’m just under 5’10”, female). Then I did a 30 day juice cleanse and a year of a super clean vegan diet and got down to 195. Kept that weight off, never fluctuating more than 5lbs or so, for 10 years eating a balanced omnivore diet, playing tennis, walking a decent amount and hiking occasionally.

Suddenly over the holidays last year my body shot up to 212lbs in just a few months. Usually I’ll put on a bit over that time and then lose it in Jan but none of my usual stuff was working. I was so shocked that I got a bunch of hormone tests and blood work done but it all came back healthy and normal. I ate in a calorie deficit, between 1350- 1500 cals a day, exercised, even tried a month of intermittent fasting. But I freaking GAINED weight!! I was up to 220lbs when I finally got my RMR calculated and the associate told me I needed at least 1700 cals to function even if I literally don’t move. I was beyond nervous to eat more because that felt insane considering my body was piling on weight at 1400 cals a day.

But I upped my daily amount to 1800 and voila. I am down 11lbs in a little over 2 months of eating that way plus a couple “cheat meals” here and there. It’s been a slow process but still moving in the right direction and I feel like this amount of cals is way more doable/easily sustainable.

I know everyone has different opinions in this community and it’s all way more confusing and complex than it should be…but I’m SO sick of reading the thousands of comments about metabolic damage being a myth and how you can and should eat way below your BMR. I am literally living proof that too few calories can not only stall your weight loss but make you GAIN weight. Things like hormones and stress DO play a role as well. For the record and those who tend to question OPs about this all over this community- I have a food scale and measure literally everything (sauces, oils, etc), I almost never drink alcohol and hate soda, and I don’t include estimated exercise cals in my count for the day.

So if you’re in the position I was in, so stressed and confused and being told by strangers that you’re wrong about your body- you’re not.

TL;DR- gained weight at a more restrictive deficit eating under my BMR, lost weight adding 300-400 cals per day

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Thursday, October 27, 2022

Husband said something that totally changed my mindset

So we were talking a few days ago and I brought up (again) how unhappy I was with my body shape

For background, I’ve gained about 30 pounds since we were married almost 10 years ago, leaving me at least 10 pounds over a healthy weight.

Trying to be helpful, he said “Well, maybe this is just your body shape now!”

I understand his context, after 10 years of marriage, having kids and leaving our young adulthood and sliding into middle age, clearly bodies change.

But I don’t want this body to be my “body shape” now. I know he was trying to be loving and supportive of my insecurities, but it has actually kicked me back into gear- I need to lose some weight and get back to feeling comfortable in my own body. Settling for what may just “be my body shape now” isn’t good enough for me anymore!

I just needed to get that off my chest. I downloaded the LoseIt app this week and am looking forward to my latest, more slow and steady and sustainable weight loss journey!

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Is the amount of calories I’m eating the reason my weight loss has slowed down

Is the amount of calories I’m eating the reason my weight loss has decreased?

15, 5’7 and 88kg and I am eating around 1’500 to 1’700 calories a day on average. But I just did a TDEE calculator and it says I should be eating 2’900. And I read that you should eat 500 less than that. Is that why my weight loss has slowed down dramatically? Or should I just keep on eating my normal calories or should I go to 2,400?

Before I was losing 4kg a month but not it’s gone down to barely 1kg a month.

If you think that’s the reason please tell me. I’ve been so frustrated this past month because of it

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Journey to New Lifestyle

I'm a little nervous to post such a personal update. But I am reaching a new point in this journey and it's making me ponder a lot of things about the process and how deep change can affect all areas of your life. I don't know what maintenance looks like for me, but I do know I'm getting closer. Should I apologize in advance for a novel about the last year?!

BACKGROUND:

I was "bigger but active" in my childhood and teen years. My parents had a LOT of rules and value-judgements related to food, which led to secret eating and shame during those latchkey kid days. There was a lot of personal trauma and laziness, and I gained about 30lbs the first year of college, and it went up another 75lbs over the next 15 years, peaking at 315 after I had my baby. My mom always tried to encourage me to be healthy for myself, but she has her own body image issues, and as a fat person, I didn't want to hear some skinny bitch telling me advice from her momentous 8lb weight loss journey (eye roll). I also have a problem with doing the exact opposite with what people what me to do.

MAKING CHANGES:

In August 2021, I reached a new point of frustration with my life-long weight struggle, and I finally had enough. I had a 4yo at the time (now almost 6!), and I couldn't do anything with him. I was depressed, angry, resentful, exhausted, ashamed, and lonely. It was affecting everything in my life, including my marriage and my closest relationships. My back pain was unbearable. I finally realized it had NOTHING to do with anyone but me, and I deserved better.

I went to my NP, she recommended their weight loss clinic, and I finally made an appointment. I started working with a weight loss NP, and she helped me find a safe, non-addicting pain medication to help with my back so I could actually move. She also helped me recognize my anxiety and depression was no longer manageable alone, and we found the right medication for that.

I started with tracking calories (do this occasionally now as a check-in), low dose phentermine, added in dirty keto, then IF. Now it's mostly IF and dirty keto. All of this is with the supervision of my NP. I still can't bring myself to get my ass up and exercise, although I'm a LOT more active now just by being able to move more easily and not hating my life.

MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THIS WHOLE JOURNEY: THERAPY!

After a few months, my NP referred me to a therapist who focuses on weight and food, and she has been amazing! She has really helped me explore weight and food theories and patterns, which has only had positive impacts on other areas of my life (parenting, marriage, friends, family, work, kindness, empathy, confidence, moderating emotions). Every relationship in my life is now better and stronger.

Over the past year of therapy, I've really been able to identify how my mom's body image issues affected me, and it has helped me remove/manage some of those issues. I've been able to explore shame, and how I'm the only one to whom I'm truly accountable, and how being intentional in my choices can make life more satisfying, including food choices! I'm learning to truly listen to what my body wants AND needs (both in adding and limiting different things).

Everything is different now: portions, food choices, how I reward myself, timing, speed, how I choose restaurants, treats and drive-thrus, how I think about a day/week/month as a whole when choosing food. I'm starting to realize that I actually made a million tiny changes gradually and worked them every. single. day.

Tiny choices with consistency for a year. And all of it because I treated the source of the problem, instead of using a diet as a band-aid. This has been hard but life before was harder. I'm just choosing a different hard.

Anyone who asks me about losing weight should be prepared for a passionate lecture about the benefits of therapy, probably containing terrible analogies about how even racecars need tune-ups!

CURRENT SITUATION:

After more than a year, this morning I hit 91lbs down. I'm now the weight I was right after high school, but nothing is in the same place! None of my clothes fit, so thank God for old hoodies and leggings to get me through a few months!

My MIL asked me last weekend what I've been doing (she's looking for the easy miracle answer), and it made me realize that it has been EVERYTHING. After a life of dieting and wishing the weight away, I finally understand what it means to make a permanent lifestyle change.

I have COMPLETELY changed my relationship with food and shame. I don't do "cheat days" because I don't cheat on myself. If I want a treat and it's not "healthy," I eat it with intention and thoughtfulness, as much as my body tells me is right and no more. It's all just balanced together over time, all with the intention of contributing joy to my life. OK, I sound like I'm in a cult.

I actually don't know what my goal or maintenance weight will be. I've never had one so I guess I keep going until my body tells me I'm there?

If you're still here, good Lord, thanks for reading. I have a lot of thoughts and feelings to process as I close in on 100lb loss and keep going.

Progress photo because I don't know how to use reddit: https://imgur.com/a/mCcRi3r

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Messed up ankle plus stress causing weight gain

Hi everyone! I’m a 21 year old female, 5’4 and a half (I just say 5’5) who’s starting weight was 225 lbs and I recently managed to hit 196 lbs. I’ve been tracking calories since late August and added in some weight lifting earlier this month. Unfortunately, late last week I managed to roll my ankle which has resulted in a pretty bad injury. I still need to go to the doctor (haven’t had time as a full-time college student that commutes) but I do know I messed it up pretty bad as the pain hasn’t gotten better. I managed to do a small workout on Sunday, but now I fear of messing up my ankle more so I’ve been resting. Since I’ve been more sedentary, my calorie budget is lower. On the LoseIt app, my goal is to lose 1 to 1 1/2 lb a week, which sets me at a calorie deficit of 1,166 (which is under the daily recommended intake so I usually just consume 1,200) on most days but on weekend I allow myself to have a 1,341 calorie budget. Without being able to work out, I’ve been struggling to stay under my calorie budget which has been stressful. Additionally, I haven’t been able to cook as much as I usually do because standing on my foot causes pain, so I’ve been mostly having Chick-Fil-A nuggets for dinner. On Monday, I binge ate chocolate covered blueberries, and every night since I’ve been going through the bag simply because I am so hungry at the end of the day. I weighed myself today and I’m at 202 lbs. This whole month has been super stressful dealing with school burnout and personal things that seeing that I gained weight just adds on to me feeling shitty. PMS-ing has me craving nothing but chocolate and pizza. So much stress is causing me to want to binge-eat as as a way to cope. I also have a Halloween party on Saturday that I want to cancel not even because of just my ankle but because I know I’m going to blow through my calorie budget again. I’m really trying to not let this setback get to me but now I’m convinced it’s going to take me another 2 weeks to lose the weight I managed to gain back in only 5 days. And without working out, it just makes everything harder. I’m really looking for any advice, tips, or even simply words of motivation haha. I’m going to the doctor’s today about the ankle so I’m praying it’s not bad enough to where I’m unable to be active for a long time. This was the first week since I started my weight loss journey that I gained weight instead of losing so I’m extremely disappointed in myself. Just appreciate any suggestions, thank you! ❤️

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I need some advice here...

I've been on a calorie deficit since the 5th of September and I've recorded my weight daily at the same time.

I've hit a plateau and I just don't understand why. I weigh all of my food, any oils used in cooking, sauces etc and I have cut calories out of any drinks I consume.

I am consuming between 1350-1450 calories per day. I am 5ft 10in male with sedentary job, I work at a computer for roughly 9 hours per day.

I weigh myself at the same time every morning, I get out of bed, use the bathrooms and step on the scale.

For the last 6 days my weight has been exactly the same, I'm so disheartened and feel like quitting so much and since the 10th of this month as it's hardly moved at all.

What can I do? Has anyone else had something like this? I've tried cutting my calories a bit more, and increasing my steps each day, but I honestly feel so hungry, I feel weak some days which I know isn't good. I often feel so hungry when getting into bed that I can't sleep for longer than usual.

My weight loss:

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Wednesday, October 26, 2022

30 Day Accountability Challenge - November Sign Ups!

Hello lose it folks!

It is almost November, can you believe it? This year is closing in on the home stretch. And many celebrations that in America center around food. It’s going to be a month full of learning & possibly pumpkins.

For the newbies to the sub reddit, please start here, so much good info!

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/faq

And hey, maybe it’s not a bad idea to review them regardless of where you are in your journey.

Let’s get down to the business, shall we?

This is the sign-up post to outline your goals. Please don’t limit yourself to weight loss or health goals, we’d love to hear about your reading list, chores, whatever you want to do in the month ahead.

There will be a daily update post for you to post how your day went, you can use whichever daily post fits your time zone if that’s an issue too. Don’t feel bad for missing a day here & there, this post is to help you feel supported however often you would like to check in.

At the end of the month, there is a wrap up post to reflect on the progress you made or didn’t make & what you learned. Learning is progress, don’t forget that!

We try to foster a supportive, caring place to discuss the actual day to day of deficits & counting & caring so much about how we fuel our bodies & lives. So be kind, interact if you like & hopefully you feel supported and cared for. Leading by example, here I go!

2000 calories a day (lose two pounds this month):

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): X/X days.

Sober November: Feels like a good time to focus on health & clear thinking especially with all the family stuff scheduled in the month ahead. Some people in my life are genuinely struggling with sobriety. I don’t a have a problem with substances, however it’s good time to reflect on that. X/X days.

Nanowrimo: 1667 words a day & I want to make sure I'm out of the house somewhere writing at least once a week. X/50,000 words & X/4 write ins.

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for -

Random to do list item I want to conquer today: I’m a list maker but sometimes something needs a little extra attention.

Now, onto the fun part, your goals. Please share & let’s kick some butt in November!

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low bmi vs waist size risk?

Hi all,

Just wondering about people's thoughts here. I've lost a lot of weight and am really happy with my progress. I've got quite a slight body frame and was always very naturally thin as a kid and teenager. I put on a lot if weight in my 20s and early 30s due to arthritis and a terrible diet. Post weight loss I've brought my BMI down from just into overweight to 19, which is nearly the cusp of underweight (36F, 53kg, 167cm height) and the calculators always say to watch for any further weight loss. I carry all of my weight on my belly and have pretty skinny legs. According to the British Heart Foundation guidelines, having a waist size of 80cm puts me in the risk category so I still want to lose weight to try and bring my stomach size down. But I don't want to risk being under weight/unhealthy.

Anyone have any advice/opinions? Thanks!

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Having a physical job is like a cheat code to an active lifestyle

I (F/23) recently started working as a mechanic, which involves a bunch of standing, walking, lifting, pulling, squatting, being in unholy poses to reach certain parts of a car etc. and it's doing wonders for my body.

I basically went from sitting on my ass all day with 30 mins of HIIT every other day, to being on my feet for 10 hours from monday to friday + 6 hours on saturday and doing all the stuff I mentioned. I also do intense cardio for 15 mins after work to fully tire myself out and be a peaceful zombie while playing some video games at the end of the day.

After being extremely frustrated with my weight loss stalling for 3 weeks, I finally lost 0.5kg in the past week since I started working in the autoshop. (I do CICO and all the good stuff too, yes. Me being active is just a bonus.)

Gives me hope I might actually be able to reach my goal weight one day.

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Onederland! What has worked for me so far, and current challenges

I've been over 200 pounds for at least 7 years. During that time, I have flirted with 200 a small handful of times, but it's only now been able to stick. I haven't seen a weight with a 2 in front of it in days, the longest it's ever been, and I expect it will keep going down.

Here's what's worked for me:

  1. Diet. Obviously, first and foremost. I eat a lot more yogurt, muesli, oatmeal, and hard-boiled eggs for breakfast. I eat tons more fruit and vegetables. I try to increase protein, but it's hard to get it to suggested levels. I eat a decent amount of cheese, but not as much as I used to. I love nuts, but I've learned I have to stay away--I'll just eat all of them. I switched from oil-fried, buttered popcorn to olive oil on air-popped. I tried butter again at some point and I just felt icky--too much. I eat tons of salads. There's an Evergreens salad place in my office building. It's not cheap, but it's so good, and it's something I really look forward to. I eat at least 2-3 pieces of fruit (plums, apples, mandarins usually) a day as snacks at work. I still go out to eat with friends, but I'm just reasonable about what I eat. No appetizers. Stay away from fried, obviously bad foods. Weekends are still a challenge for me, often. I also still struggle with snacking between meals, especially on things meant for my kids. I rely on exercise to make up for these on some days. :)
  2. Exercise. This is going to sound like a commercial, but I'm 100% on-the-level. The single best thing I did for my own exercise habits was to buy a Peloton Tread. We bought it in early 2021. I originally thought I would just use it for when the weather was bad outdoors, and that my wife would like the classes, but no…. I love the classes too. I have never exercised as consistently and intensely as I have with this. It's literally one of my favorite possessions. I had also bought in early 2020 (right before the pandemic! lucky!) a barbell weight set and rack. I've done that fairly consistently, but I've focused in the last few months on more cardio and core workouts. (I've also had to move it around for some necessary home maintenance in the garage, so it's currently unusable, but it's going to come out again in 2023.) If I had space, I'd buy the new Peloton Row, no joke.
  3. Apps. I've gone from MyFitnessPal to LoseIt. I did Noom for 4 months. It was fine, but I didn't look forward to the check-ins after a while. Just didn't fit. The courses were great, though. I also use Libra (weight trends/averaging) and Garmin for workouts/everything. I use Peloton-to-Garmin to sync my workouts to Garmin. I currently have a 78-day streak on LoseIt, but have been using it for over a year.
  4. Water. I drink more than 100oz of water a day, most days. I have a 24oz contigo water bottle that I love and I go through it at least 3 times while working. Plus more for breakfast and family dinner. I almost never drink soda, and if I do it's usually a diet soda to get a caffeine kick for a specific time period at work. I don't drink coffee or alcohol.
  5. Book: The Beck Diet Solution. After tiring of Noom, I looked for some books that were based on a CBT-approach for dieting and found this one recommended in r/loseit. It's a great book. It has tons of good ideas. I need to read my notes again and re-absorb some ideas.
  6. Podcast: Half-Size Me. This is a very good podcast. It's a reasonable, no-nonsense, uplifting and inspirational approach to weight loss based on sound, simple principles. I actually no longer listen to it because I just got overwhelmed with the total number of podcasts I listen to, so I had to cut (See dropping things below). But if you're struggling and need some inspiration, give this a go.
  7. Meditation and Mindfulness. This is still vague for me. I'm still not 100% sure about it. I have done a lot more meditation (mostly with the Headspace app, which my employer provides free), and I have done food-specific meditations as well. Sometimes I find these very helpful, sometimes I'm not sure and I get very bored. I think that the biggest benefit is that it's forced me to slow down at the start of the day, and to be more mindful in general throughout the day, not just around food. I'm going to do it through end of year and evaluate.
  8. Journaling. I don't journal about health or food specifically, except by chance if it's on my mind. I have tried multiple types of journaling. I'm currently doing the 5 Minute Journal. Not sure if I'll keep that up. I also use journaling as a way to plan out the day, thoughts for life, making my thoughts concrete, planning future projects. I will often set a 15 minute timer and just sit with a journal, a pen, and no expectations. If something comes to mind that's important, I record it. It's kind of halfway between meditation and journaling. This is working for me right now. I also started writing down what I did for work each day. This has all helped me to be more intentional about my whole life.
  9. Dropping things from my life. I read less news. I watch less TV. I don't do social media (even Reddit is more rare now, and never on my phone.) The entertainment I do choose is more mindfully selected. I've always read a lot, but I've made it my default activity. I have had to drop or decrease hobbies. I have three children and a demanding job. I don't have the mental space to do well at work, AND a mentally challenging hobby, AND keep up with three kids and make sure they're feeling loved and appreciated. Something has to give. I need my health, especially to keep up with them, and to be present for my wife. So I've made some hard decisions about where I spend my time in this season of my life.
  10. I go slow. Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast. I've dropped weight faster before, and it's come back. If I overeat one day, I don't freak out about it anymore. I talk to myself about it. I talk to my wife. "That food was so good, but I ate more than I wanted. I'm a little disappointed in myself. Next time, I need to keep it to a single serving."
  11. Get organized. I have focused on my systems and processes, especially at work. I'm a fan of Cal Newport and have digested all his books, among many others, for years. But I've really honed it over the last year. I have worked hard to make my job less of a source of stress, focus on the things that will get me ahead in my career, and be very selective with my attention.
  12. More sex. I hesitate to write this. But really. Even when things are hard, or not getting along with wife that day. Don't wait to fix things to have sex. Sex can fix the things. This helps feed a virtuous cycle. Not going to say more.

Reading through this list, the thing that stands out to me is that I didn't just revamp my diet and exercise. I've been on a journey to rework my life in ways both small and significant. This never ends.

None of the above should be read as if I'm perfect. I mess up a lot, and I'm not always who I want to be in many areas of my life, but it's ok. I'm going slow and slow is fast.

Some things I still have challenges with:

  1. Negativity. Not everything has been easy with life, pandemic, family, children, my job, my faith, and more. I have a temper. I am really focusing for the rest of the year on being more positive in my outlook on life, and not getting frustrated with other people.
  2. Snacking. Oh, you bought those Nilla wafers for our 3-year old? Don't mind if I help myself… I have to remind myself to keep them out of sight in the pantry. Default to other things. I can eat as many fruits and vegetables as I want.
  3. Popcorn. Man, I love my popcorn. I try to stick to the air-popped stuff, but the kids like the Costco microwave stuff, and if I smell popcorn, I eat it.
  4. Sleep. I try hard to get adequate sleep. But syncing schedules with my wife, handling sick kids, kids who don't sleep when we want, it can really "mess" things up. I'm learning to just roll with it. If I can't wake up at 5am to get on the Peloton, then I can still get up at 6am and do something. I can try to get something in later in the day (rarely happens).
  5. Weekends. It's hard, man, it's hard.

If you've read this far, kudos to you. I appreciate it. :) I hope it's helpful to people who are like my past self. You can do it, I can do it, we can all do it.

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Has anyone else had more trouble running a deficit the more active they become?

I'm curious if others have struggled with this and what advice you may have.

Six years ago I lost about 45 lbs to get me right to the middle of a healthy BMI. I usually had 1600 - 1800 calories, leaving me with a 300 - 500 deficit. I'm not saying it was a breeze, but it felt doable and that I could beat my cravings to maintain this deficit. It slowed a little as I reached a BMI of 22, but I was able to do it and could see the progress.

Now, over the course of 8 months, I put on 15 lbs putting me close to an overweight BMI. I was able to take the first 5 off in about two months, but the last 10 lbs are evading me. The thing is, I'm way, way more active now than I was before and I feel like my body is constantly craving fuel. I do horse riding, gymnastics, martial arts, weight lifting, and running. So much more than I did six years ago! So I first tried cutting my calories to 2000, but I ended up feeling lightheaded during physical activity and was craving food beyond belief. I've now bumped up to 2150 calories with a "cheat" day on the weekend, but the weight loss has slowed to a crawl and I still find myself feeling hungry and unsated. I feel like if I cut all my activities, I could cut my food and be alright. But I hate the thought of skipping any of my activities or not performing my best in them due to cutting calories.

Has anyone else experienced this where being more active made a deficit harder? How did you find the middle ground between keeping your potential in your sports, losing weight at a reasonable pace, and not feeling hungry all the time? Any tips on super foods for being active and at a deficit?

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10 Best Non-Starchy Vegetables That Make Weight Loss Easier

Non-starchy vegetables are the real heroes of weight loss. They fill you up with fiber, nourish you with essential vitamins and minerals, and don’t weigh you down with excess calories or fats. Eat four or more daily servings of non-starchy varieties—you actually can eat as much of them as you want—and they will give you a powerful boost on your weight loss journey.

We know that many people don’t love all kinds of vegetables. However, with so many flavors and textures to choose from, you are sure to find a few you do like. Consider these 10 options that work extra hard to help you reach your ideal weight.

Pro Tip: Check out the link below to learn more about non-starchy vegetables!:

Grocery Add Ins: What are Non-Starchy Vegetables?

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1. Artichokes

fresh artichokes on a cutting board and inside a bowl

Why: Artichokes are high in a specific type of fiber called inulin, which enhances the body’s ability to absorb calcium, a mineral that helps stoke your metabolism, according to a report in the British Journal of Nutrition.1

Try: Quick-and-easy Artichoke Basil Hummus is perfect for dipping other non-starchy vegetables or Sweet Jalapeno Crisps. If you’ve never prepared artichokes, check our handy guide for simple instructions. You can also make enjoying this veggie easier with jarred or canned artichokes, which are perfect for chopping up and adding to salad and pasta.

2. Broccoli

fresh broccoli on a small cutting board

Why: Broccoli is not only high in fiber and immune-boosting vitamin A, it has lots of sulforaphane, a compound that reduced appetite and weight gain in a laboratory study, published in the European Journal of Pharmacology.2

Try: Roasting broccoli tenderizes the crunchy stems and sweetens the flavor of the florets. Start your day with a serving of non-starchy vegetables with our favorite Broccoli and Cheddar Breakfast Muffins recipe.

3. Carrots

fresh carrots on a white wooden table

Why: Carrots are a favorite of many people who are not veggie-lovers and they’re especially helpful when you’re trying to shed excess pounds. That’s because when you eat carrots with a meal they significantly increase your satiety, or the feeling of having your appetite satisfied, according to a study in the British Journal of Nutrition.3

Try: When you’re craving a crunchy snack, raw carrots are a smart choice and they’re great for dipping in salsa, a Free food when you’re losing weight with Nutrisystem. Our Honey Balsamic Glazed Carrots take their natural sweetness up a notch.

11 Cauliflower Recipes So Good You’ll Forget You’re Eating Veggies

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4. Cauliflower

colorful cauliflower in a bowl

Why: Cauliflower may be plain in appearance and mild in flavor, yet it’s loaded with fiber and a serving has 100 percent of your Recommended Daily Allowance for immunity-boosting vitamin C. It’s also an especially good source of potassium, which helps your body regulate its sodium levels and is a “predictor of reduction in body mass index,” says a report in the journal Nutrients.4

Try: Cauliflower can be ground into high-fiber, low-calorie “grains” that are a healthy substitute for regular white rice. It also makes a perfectly chewy pizza crust. For a quick and satisfying snack, try our recipe for Air Fryer Cauliflower Tater Tots—they’re crispy on the outside and delightfully gooey on the inside.

5. Eggplant

two fresh eggplants on a wooden table

Why: Eggplant’s weight loss superpowers come from the compounds that give them their bright purple color. These polyphenols help your body manage blood sugar, control your appetite and inhibit you from storing fat, according to another research report in Nutrients.5

Try: Choose small to medium size eggplant, which are more tender and less seedy than the big ones. Grill or roast thick slices of eggplant until crisp, then cover them with your favorite pizza toppings. If you love classic Italian food, try our recipe for 5-Ingredient Simple Eggplant Parmesan.

6. Hot Peppers

red chili peppers in a wooden bowl

Why: Do you like to light up your taste buds with a little spice? Here’s good news for you: Capsaicin, the compound that causes your tongue to tingle when you eat jalapeños, cayenne and other hot peppers, has been shown to pump up your metabolism. It also may also help you activate your brown fat, which is associatiated with “protection against obesity and metabolic diseases,” says research published in the journal Bioscience Reports.6

Try: You can use fresh or dried hot peppers to heat up all kinds of dishes, from chili to spaghetti sauce to veggie omelets. For a Flex meal recipe with lots of protein, creamy cheese and a spark of spice, try our Jalapeño Cheese Stuffed Chicken.

Are you ruining your non-starchy vegetables with how you’re cooking them? Find out at the link below:

6 Sneaky Ways You’re Ruining Your Veggies

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7. Mushrooms

fresh mushrooms in a wooden bowl

Why: Every meal gets a little heartier with the addition of the meaty texture and savory flavor of mushrooms. Even better, “regular consumption of mushrooms is effective in the treatment of metabolic syndrome, including obesity,” according to an article in the journal Molecules.7

Try: Mushrooms come in many varieties, from delicate chanterelles to thick portabellas. Keep a bag of frozen mushrooms handy to add to soups, eggs and meat dishes. Any day is like a party when you make a batch of Simple Stuffed Mushrooms.

8. Onions

freshly cut onions in a bowl

Why: Along with their zingy flavor, onions are rich in a compound called quercetin, which reduced the percentage of body fat in overweight and obese subjects in a study, reported in Nutrition Research and Practice.8

Try: Raw, grilled, or sautéed, onions boost the flavor of just about any type of food, from salads to sandwiches to pizza and turkey burgers. You can even enjoy crispy coated onion rings with our easy Air Fryer Onion Rings recipe–they’re oh-so satisfying and grease-free!

9. Spinach

fresh spinach in a bowl

Why: Like most leafy greens, spinach is among the most nutrient-dense foods. It’s also a good vegetable source of essential minerals such as iron and calcium that help to regulate your metabolism. An interesting study, published in the Journal of the American College of Nutrition, found that after consuming spinach the test subjects felt less hungry and experienced no “longing for food” for more than two hours compared to the control group who didn’t have spinach.9

Try: Raw spinach can be a tender salad green. It also blends so well in smoothies, you won’t even know it’s there. Our recipe for Creamy Spinach Stuffed Chicken treats you to belly-filling protein and the goodness of melted pepper jack cheese.

Get creative with your non-starchy vegetables! Check out the link below for some tips and tricks:

7 Creative Ways to Eat Fruits and Veggies

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10. Tomatoes

fresh tomatoes in a colander

Why: Eating tomatoes reduces the risk of metabolic syndrome, which includes obesity and diabetes, according to a report in Advances in Nutrition. The researchers found that lycopene, the compound that gives tomatoes their bright color, plays a key role in protecting against these conditions.10

Try: Raw and cooked tomatoes are rich in lycopene. Slices of raw tomatoes add a tangy flavor to sandwiches and wraps and keep every bite moist. The Nutrisystem menu offers so many choices that are loaded with the flavor of tomatoes, from our new Mediterranean Flatbread to the ever-popular Lasagna with Meat Sauce.

Sources:

  1. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12088518/
  2. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6110095/
  3. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16925866/
  4. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6627830/
  5. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4728631/
  6. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5426284/
  7. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6278646/
  8. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4819128/
  9. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4600649/
  10. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6370260/

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Tuesday, October 25, 2022

weight loss reddit or discord for men?

Today is day two of my weight loss journey. I was able to eat fewer than 1,500 calories two days in a row and a feeling proud of that. I'm 235lbs and hoping to get back to my pre-pandemic weight of 180.

I'm a 37 year old male and am wondering if there are any reddit groups or discords dedicated to men losing weight specifically? It would be cool to have a group of guys to talk to and support each other while I go through this journey.

Anyone know of anything like this?

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Why do people feel that a fat body is suddenly their business?

I have struggled my whole life with being overweight. In high school I tipped the scale at over 300lbs (not sure what my actual weight was because the scale just said “error”) and after losing down to 230 in college I have gone between that and 280 or so for the last 10 years. In April of this year I decided enough was enough and started my weight loss journey again at a starting weight of 276 lbs. Previous weight loss attempts went much faster than this one- the pounds melted off. I’m old now, I guess, and at 32 I have fought tooth and nail for every last pound. I just reached a 30 lb weight loss using calorie counting and exercise. I have a streak of 203 days on my fitness pal, more than any previous attempt. My BMI is below 40 for the first time in 5 years. I have a tentative goal weight of 145lbs but what I really want is to be healthy.

Every day I use my lunch break at work to go and walk. This adds about 3000 steps to my daily total and has helped me immensely in reaching my 7500-10000 steps a day goal consistently. When I come back from my walk, I just grab my packed lunch and eat it while I’m working. I’m a pharmacist at a hospital and so 90% of my work is computer-based order verification. It takes me much longer to eat this way but I needed to slow down anyway.

Today I came back from my walk and heated up my food in the microwave in the break room. It was half of a potato with homemade turkey chili, a half serving of low fat cheese, and one tablespoon of light sour cream. A total of 394 calories by weight. My goal is <1711 per day, so this was well within my calorie budget for a meal. The break room was full of people and as I am pulling my food out of the microwave one of my coworkers says “oh, if i ate like you every day I would weigh 300 lbs too.”

I was not sure what to say to that. She said this in front of the entire room full of people. It was embarrassing and demeaning and made me feel awful. First of all, I don’t weigh 300 lbs. I weigh 246 lbs. I know that a loss of 30 lbs doesn’t look like that much on a frame as large as mine, but surely I don’t still look like I weigh 300lbs? I didn’t even weigh that much at the start this time. I haven’t weighed that much for 15 years. I just left the break room trying not to cry.

So many things went through my head. Why did she feel the need to say that? Is she trying to tell me I need to go on a diet? Is she just trying to be mean? I ate about two bites of my potato that I had previously looked forward to, and threw the rest away. My appetite was gone and I felt nauseated at the idea of others seeing me eat- a phobia that I’ve worked on with my therapist for years and was finally making strides on, as I’ve been eating while I work in the same room as others for almost half a year now.

So many toxic thoughts came back into my mind- I don’t deserve to eat at this weight. I can’t let others see me eat because, as I knew all along, they’ve been judging me with every bite. I feel like all of the blood, sweat, and tears I have put in to losing weight has been for nothing because not only do people not notice that I’ve lost 10.7% of my body weight, but they’re telling me to go on a diet in front of the whole pharmacy!

I spent the rest of the day trying not to cry and then went up to the gym after my shift and did my normal workout routine. I wanted to go home, eat a bag of flaming hot cheetos, and cry. But that would prove her right. I worked out, came home, and cried in the shower. Now I’m struggling to force myself to eat enough to reach at least 1200 calories for the day. I know starving myself is not the answer. But it is so disheartening for not only my victories to go unnoticed, but a perfectly acceptable and calorie-counted meal was judged harshly, even in a room full of people who went to the hospital cafeteria and got an 1100 calorie plate of burgers and fries, and it was due to the size of my body.

This turned into a bit of a rant. Long story short, I have busted my ass and lost 30 lbs. I have remained disciplined despite the process taking longer than I would like. But people just look at me and see “fat person- her lunch must be unhealthy.” Why do they think it’s their business?

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