I'm 20f, and I've lost 18kg in the past 6 months. I've gone from a UK size 16 to a size 8 now. And one of the worst things I've had to get used to is how absolutely rude anjealous people can act.
Especially other girls. That I thought I was close to. Ive received comments that I "looked better before", "lost my curves" "look like a stick". So much body shaming. I was never body shamed this much when I was actually almost obese.
And then the same girls are asking me for weight loss tips. And beg me to help them. Its so gross honestly. You literally will not be able to predict how people actually end up reacting to your weightloss.
Ive had people I wasn't that close to, give me such genuine compliments and tell me I've inspired them. And then some I thought I was close to have started isolating me. They'll take any chance to make demeaning comments. Especially when there's guys around. They'll purposely leave me out of pictures. And "forget" to invite me to things
I've distanced myself from anyone who's acted this way. If you can't even be happy for your friend, what kind of friend are you? But anyway I've done this for myself and although their reactions do sadden me, I'm incredibly proud of myself. And living my best life with friends who are bringing me up, and not in some weird competition with me.
Have any of you other ladies experienced something like this during your weight loss journey?
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