My husband (overweight) doesn't give a crap. He will get on board then within a week encourage a cheat day which turns into weeks of binging. He also drinks everynight and I cave and join him because he asks me to and sulks when I dont. My mom lives with us (65, Diabetes, hypertension, high cholesterol, overweight) doesn't care either. I said I felt unsupported and my husband just said well your choices are your own. And he's right.
I know it is 💯 on me to stick to my weight loss and fitness goals no matter WHAT anyone does but I'm exhausted coming home from work cooking separate meals (I'm trying to stick to keto because it's how I feel best) for them and my children. I feel so pathetic when I cave it and I feel so deprived when they're eating all the crap around me. Or they make food that I can't eat and act offended when I can't eat it.
I'm going to meal prep for myself and just cook easy meals for them I guess. It's just so damn hard when you feel like you're the only one who cares. And who has to plan all the meals do the cooking because of that. They'll help.cook sometimes but not healthy food.
Please tell me your success stories when surrounded by apathetic people!
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