She isn't on a diet but we have been trying to eat more healthy and exercising once a day. She has been obese most of ther life but she told me that she have been the most motivated she has felt to do something about it. She even started taking some diet pills that her doctor prescripted (Those pills are meant to reduce appettite and are only a temporary measure). I actualy admire the courage she has to face this problem.
What I can't understand is that while we have been eating more healthy (eat more vegetables, whole food) when we meet with friends, all restrictions are off. For example, when their family invited us to their house this weekend(*), she started browsing for what food we can take. I mean, it's like a gathering is a perfect excuse to eat whatever she wants.
When my girlfriend ask me wether we should buy more cheese or snacks for a family/friend meeting, I feel conflicted. For one part, I don't what to be an asshole and judge her, and make her feel like shit. I don't want to make her feel her weight is something that doesn't allow her to do stuff. But, for the other part, it makes me angry that all tthe effort we put in to eat more healthy and exercise (I hate exercising lol) is lost.
What do you think? I am being to harsh on her? (we haven't talked about this, is just something I thought about it a lot)
- We are taking all precautions for covi by the way, we haven't seen some of her family for almost a year
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