Monday, March 1, 2021

Is there any way to help my obese brother, or do I have to let him “figure it out on his own”? 😩

I’m not sure if this is the right place to be posting this, but I feel that you wonderful people who have lost/have decided you want to lose weight may be able to offer me a unique perspective.

I’m very close with my big brother, who for all of his younger years was a very skinny, lanky dude. Somewhere in his mid twenties he began gaining weight steadily and has now been what I would consider obese for about a decade. Over Covid, similar to the rest of us, he has just gotten worse. He recently admitted to me that he is well over 300lbs.

Now I could care less about what my brother looks like, but he is SICK. In a recent outdoor family adventure he couldn’t keep up at all and looked like he was going to pass out (mind you it was fairly mild activity). He had to sit out the rest of the day about halfway through. He suffers from migraines all the time. He stayed over my house one night recently and I almost cried listening to him try to sleep as he has severe untreated sleep apnea.

Long story short, from the perspective of those who have been in this position, is there anything I can say or do to help him? He has mentioned to me that he wants to lose weight, but he has NO concept of a healthy lifestyle. My spouse and family tell me to stay out of it, which I have done for 10 years now. But I’m beginning to worry that he’s going to die young, and besides the fact that I love him to death, he also has small children that need him.

I thought about offering to join in a weight loss journey with him because I have some Covid weight I’m looking to lose, but my husband thinks this is a bad idea. Did anyone here undergo an “intervention” of sorts or have loved ones that successfully spurred you on?

Thank you all for reading, I appreciate it SO much.

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Parents vs Weight Loss

F 20 5’3 (SW 192)(CW 158)(GW140)I have struggled with my weight my whole life up until recently. I’ve always been relatively chubby or “thick”. However, during 2019 I went through some emotionally hard times and the only way I knew how to release my emotions was through food. I working at an office job at the time and in a relationship where food was our main activity. After being 170-180lb ish during my teen years, I eventually got to 192. I was miserable and my family would mention my weight gain and make me feel even worse. Keep in mind, my weight has been a topic to my family my whole life. Cut to September 2020, I had just gotten a new job that kept me constantly active so I decided to try IF. The weight just started coming off by itself. No CICO, no exercise, just consistent IF. Now, my family is concerned that I’m getting “too skinny” and they keep telling me not to lose any more weight. (For context, I have a brief history of drug use, but that was never a factor in my weight loss.) I am still determined to get to my goal weight and achieve my dream body. (I plan on incorporating an exercise routine + a healthy, but not restrictive meal plan soon) How can I reassure my family I am not unhealthy and that I’m happy with my lifestyle changes?

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I see no difference after 65lb weight loss?

Hello, I've been lurking here for a while and I really appreciate how much this sub has helped in my weight loss journey. I (25f 5'5) went from my highest weight of around 203lbs to now at 138lbs I still have a bit more to lose, my goal is about 125lbs. I know I've lost inches, none of my clothes fit any more and family members have made comments about me looking slimmer, but I can't see a difference when I look in the mirror. I didn't take progress pics which I really regret now. I just wondered if anyone else had experienced this? It's quite frustrating to have gone through so much effort and not see a difference!

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Sunday, February 28, 2021

Accountability post after regaining weight - 24F 5'1

9 months ago I was so proud of myself. I lost 30lbs and was my lowest weight since I was in high school: Old Weight loss post. Sadly I gained most of that weight back :(

It was my fault. I started to workout less and eat more instead. Being stuck at home instead of taking the time to work on myself more, I would instead eat unhealthy food and watch Netflix. I stopped doing my daily walks, cardio and weights I used to do before. The weight slowly crept up on my and before I even realized I am now 154lbs (70kgs).

Right now when I look in the mirror I don't like what I see. I don't like how both my face and body looks right now. Whereas 9 months ago I loved what I looked like. Every time I caught my reflection I loved what I was seeing. I wore some jeans today after not wearing any for a few weeks and my size 8 jeans are really tight and I know if I keep wearing them, they will rip after a few wears. 9 months ago these same jeans were lose and I was putting them in the dryer trying to shrink them to fit me.

There isn't much I can do by dwelling on the past. So instead, I should focus on what I can do instead. I know what worked for me last time.

Starting now I will start doing the following:

  • Drink 2L of water a day. Right now I barley even drink 1L a day, whereas last year I was drinking about 2.5-3L of water a day. This helped reduce my appetite and reduced any cravings I had for sugary drinks (ie. coke)
  • Do at least 60mins of light cardio a day. I know this can sound a bit intense but this is what helps me. Light cardio can count as elliptical, rowing machine (I have both at home) or going on walks. I'm short and I need the cardio to increase the amount of calories I burn since I suck at eating 1200 calories a day (I usually end up eating 1500-2000 calories)
  • Do weight training sessions. Currently my city is in lockdown so I can use the weights I have at home and follow workouts available on the SWEAT app. I really enjoyed doing this I just got lazy and stopped
  • DIET! My diet is the most important thing and I suck at eating on a caloric deficit. My plan is to eat a normal diet that the rest of my family is eating. But instead I will eat less. I will focus on eating more veggies and protein, and eat less carbs.
    • I will also follow intermetinite fasting. Not really anything new since I've been doing this for the past few years. I just never did it strictly.

My starting stats are as follows:

Weight: 154lbs - 70kg

Waist: 77cm

Hips: 105cm

My ultimate goal is to get down to 120lbs hopefully by July. This might be a bit unrealistic because that means I will be losing 2lbs a week. But I will adjust the goal date based on my progress.

This is my currently plan:

Starting: 154lbs - March 1

Milestone 1: 150lbs - March 15

Milestone 2: 145lbs - April 1

Milestone 3: 140lbs - April 15

Milestone 4: 135lbs - May 1

Milestone 5: 130lbs - May 15

Milestone 6: 125lbs - June 1

GOAL: 120lbs - July 1

I'll make an update post on April 1st :)

Good luck to everyone!

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From Nov 2019 to today: down 130 lbs & still a ways to go to my goal weight

I am 33 years old, 6'4 & 360 lbs currently. Here's how I've reached this point so far.

Nov 2019 I was in a very bad state health wise. I couldn't walk to get my mail & back without gasping for air, I was constantly tired & in pain from what turned out to be gallstones. Before my gallbladder removal surgery I weighed 490 lbs the heaviest I have ever been. I decided after having recovered that I had to change things or I'd be dead sooner rather than later.

At first I mainly focused on being in a caloric deficit I tried many diets to meet this goal like keto. I landed on not restricting any food group just to eat while non processed foods & avoiding foods/drinks high in added sugar. After I had lost 20 or so lbs by just doing that I began doing cardio by walking around my neighborhood little by little, it took quite sometime to build up my stamina I hit a bit of a plateau around oct 2020 at 430 lbs. At this point I decided to switch my primary care Dr & she recommended I try a injectable weightloss medicine Saxenda that helps you feel satiated sooner by mimicking a peptide that signals fullness to your brain. From there I also got serious about not keeping junk food & other foods I tended to binge eat in the house & the weight started to come off again at the rate of about 10 lbs a month.

Another thing I've done is started using myfitnesspal to track everything I eat & make sure it's mostly whole non processed foods. I have also as of two weeks ago introduce weight lifting to maintain/build muscle as not to lose much if any during my weight loss. I can now easily walk for 3 miles no problem when this time last year I couldn't walk across a parking lot without chugging for air. I've also been able to stop taking 2 of the 3 meds I was on for high blood pressure & am only taking 1/2 of the one I'm still on & no longer taking a water pill for swollen legs.

Most importantly I'm feeling great & so many things have improved especially my depression while still here doesn't have as low lows as it used to reach.

progress pictures

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 01 March 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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