Wednesday, November 30, 2022

GF Wants Me To Stop Weight Loss.

A couple years ago I started losing weight. Standing on the scale and seeing 430 spooked me. I’m now down to 286, and tbh I could have done better. My girlfriend doesn’t want me to continue weight loss after I reach about 250, as she has a fear and disgust for men with knobby pointy knees. My first ideal goal was to make it down to 180 and then put muscle on.

Lil weird, but I love her and would like to meet halfway. I’m 5’10. Not sure how to meet her halfway though. What’s the changing point between knobby knees and bear dad bod? cause I’m looking for something between that.

Any input is appreciated if this post goes live lol, sweet dreams folk imma read this in the morning

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - December Sign Ups

Hello lose it folks!

It is almost December, the last month of the year, can you believe it? This year is almost done. And many celebrations that in America center around food & sweets. It’s going to be a month full of learning & possibly peppermint flavored everything.

For the newbies to the sub reddit, please start here, so much good info!

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/faq

And hey, maybe it’s not a bad idea to review them regardless of where you are in your journey.

Let’s get down to the business, shall we?

This is the sign-up post to outline your goals. Please don’t limit yourself to weight loss or health goals, we’d love to hear about your reading list, chores, whatever you want to do in the month ahead.

There will be a daily update post for you to post how your day went, you can use whichever daily post fits your time zone if that’s an issue too. Don’t feel bad for missing a day here & there, this post is to help you feel supported however often you would like to check in.

At the end of the month, there is a wrap up post to reflect on the progress you made or didn’t make & what you learned. Learning is progress, don’t forget that!

We try to foster a supportive, caring place to discuss the actual day to day of deficits & counting & caring so much about how we fuel our bodies & lives. So be kind, interact if you like & hopefully you feel supported and cared for. Leading by example, here I go!

Maintenance calories: Going for maintenance this month.

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): I need this both for my body & mental health! X/X days.

Do holiday stuff everyday that brings me joy: Nebulous, maybe, easy, also kind of. Maybe one day it’s taking a detour on the way home to look at lights, maybe another day it’s watching a Christmas special, maybe another day it’s chasing my cat with mistletoe. Who knows. I want to emphasize the parts of this season I enjoy so I can handle the stressful shit better.

Writing goal: TBD. I'll have this hammered out by tomorrow. .

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for -

Random self-care action I want to conquer today: Changing this one up a little so I remember to take care of me!

Now, onto the fun part, your goals. Please share & let’s end the year on a winning note!

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NSV: I’m on my daily walk right now and I just realized how easy this feels!

For context, even at my heaviest I’ve always considered myself at least moderately healthy in the sense that I’ve always been able to go for a long walk and/or do some pretty steep/tough hikes.

But as I’m walking today, I realize that even with only 10ish lbs of weight loss, I feel like I’m gliding! My steps aren’t so heavy. My legs aren’t rubbing one another. I’m not fighting to keep my leggings over my belly pooch.

It’s like my body realized after al these months of walking that it needs to change to do this a little better.

I’m not close to my goal yet. And this past 2 weeks has been a pretty big pause for any progress. But I love this little bit of improvement I noticed today.

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Hurtful comments that make you wanna just give up

Im 17f and i started my weight loss journey last year. Its been a big struggle for me as I have binge eating disorder. Today in class, a guy behind me kept repeatedly talking about this girl who got really fat in the past few years. He would just exclaim “SHE GOT SO FAT OMG” multiple times. Im the only overweight person in the entire grade so it was just really hurtful to hear all of the guys laughing about that. Ik it wasn’t any of my business but hearing how other people think about fat people demotivates me and makes me wanna cry.

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How do I build patience?

I have 104 pounds I need to lose. I know this is going to be a long haul process and even once I reach my goal weight I will go into the maintenance phase for the rest of my life.

I have been getting so mad at myself lately for not reaching my goal weight after only 5 months of calories decfict (I've only lost 40). My anger is irrational because I am losing at a healthy rate.

How do I develop the patience needed for a 100+ pound weight loss and maintenance afterward?

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Tuesday, November 29, 2022

I'm 15KG away from my ideal weight and I can feel myself trying to "speed it up", how do I stop?

(20F, 96KG --> 75KG)

SO, it has been an interesting few months since I started my weight loss journey. I began because I got on a scale the morning of going travelling, looked at my weight and realised that I was basically morbidly obese and that something needed to change. I'm going to the gym thrice a week and participating in sports on top of this, I've also managed to get my calories down from around 2500-3000 per day to 1500 and below.

However, over the past few weeks, as I'm now at 75KG and I only have 15KG more to lose, I can feel myself trying to "speed it up". Feeling bad when eating at maintenance, only feeling "good" about my overall diet when I've skipped out on meals, I get extreme guilt when I'm eating a "good amount" (maintenance).

I'm active, and I eat a balanced diet, but now as I'm reaching the last 10KG I can feel myself desperate to "hurry it up" if that makes sense. As soon as I reach my goal weight of 60KG, I'm planning to really work on strength and flexibility but I can feel myself beginning to do stupid things to try and "hurry it up". What are some ways to discourage me from this sort of behaviour? Give me stories and things that will make me second guess.

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20 Healthy Cranberry Recipes to Try This Season

Cranberries can be so much more than just a seasonal side dish. Their tart flavor and ruby red color fit into many kinds of recipes, from appetizers to the main course to dessert. Cranberries also are potent little packets of nutrients that may help prevent cavities, improve your heart health, and even lower your risk of cancer.

To help you put the power of cranberries to work for you, we’ve compiled this list of our favorite ways to enjoy them while you’re losing weight on your Nutrisystem plan. These healthy cranberry recipes include everyday favorites and special occasion dishes. We even have delicious and healthy ideas for your holiday meal leftovers. You’re sure to find a few cranberry recipes that you’ll want to make at any time of the year.

1. Whole Wheat Cranberry Orange Bread >

Whole Wheat Cranberry Orange Bread

What tastes like cake but is healthy enough for your weight loss breakfast or afternoon snack? This Whole Wheat Cranberry Orange Bread is made with sweet flavorings like applesauce, oranges, vanilla extract and dried cranberries. However, it fills you up with high-fiber whole wheat flour. Each loaf makes 12 servings, so you can slice it up and freeze the extras to pull out whenever you want a tasty partner for coffee or tea.

2. Air Fryer Cranberry Pecan Pie >

Air Fryer Cranberry Pecan Pie

With an air fryer, you can serve a perfect pie to your holiday guests that’s loaded with flavor and low in calories. The crust of this Air Fryer Cranberry Pecan Pie is made with oat and almond flours, cinnamon, brown sugar and unsweetened applesauce. The air fryer crisps and browns the crust while you whip up the rich filling. It features eggs, butter, chopped pecans and cranberries. The whole pie comes together in about a half hour, so you have plenty of time to mingle and enjoy the day.

3. Chocolate Cranberry Zucchini Bars >

Chocolate Cranberry Zucchini Bars

You don’t have to be a fan of zucchini bread to love these filling and chewy Chocolate Cranberry Zucchini Bars. They have all the fiber and nutrients you get from the classic bread, but we’ve added chocolate chips, super-sweet dates, real maple syrup, creamy almond butter and tart cranberries to raise the flavor to the next level. These bars are made with oats and no flour, so people who avoid gluten can enjoy them, too.

4. Slow Cooker Cranberry Applesauce >

Slow Cooker Cranberry Applesauce

After trying this fresh take on the favorite seasonal side dish, you and your family may never settle for ordinary jars of applesauce again. In this Slow Cooker Cranberry Applesauce, the familiar apple flavor is enhanced with spices such as cinnamon, nutmeg and ground cloves, along with tart lemon and fresh cranberries. All you do is simmer the ingredients together on the stove or in a crockpot until they’ve blended into warm and tasty sauce with a brilliant red color. If your gang prefers smoother applesauce, you can puree it in a blender.

5. Cranberry Brie Baguette Bites >

Cranberry Brie Baguette Bites

This simple but sophisticated appetizer will impress your holiday guests, but it also makes a satisfying snack you can enjoy anytime. You take toasted slices of whole wheat baguette (a kind of long and narrow French bread) and spread creamy brie cheese on them. After melting the cheese, you top each one with a flavorful blend of cranberries, honey, orange zest, and basil. The Cranberry Brie Baguette Bites recipe makes 12 servings, but you can easily double or triple it for bigger crowds.

6. No-Bake Cranberry Cheesecake Parfait >

No-Bake Cranberry Cheesecake Parfait

No-Bake Cranberry Cheesecake Parfait sounds like an indulgent dessert, but you can treat yourself to this version any day and stay on track to your weight loss goal. The cheesecake layer starts with light cream cheese and whipped topping, so it has a smooth and creamy texture. Layers of crumbled graham crackers provide crunch and a hint of sweetness. On top is a fresh cranberry sauce that is sweet, tart and a little zesty. This is so easy to make you can bring it to a party or share it with your family.

7. Warm Brussels Sprouts Cranberry Salad >

Warm Brussels Sprouts Cranberry Salad

Fresh Brussels sprouts are super-nutritious and they are abundant in fall and winter. In this enticing Warm Brussels Sprouts Cranberry Salad side dish, the leaves are shaved and lightly sautéed, then tossed with a sweet and zingy honey dressing. Mix in cranberries and pecans and serve warm. Don’t be surprised if your family asks for this veggie dish again and again.

8. Baked Cranberry Orange Oatmeal Muffins >

Baked Cranberry Orange Oatmeal Muffins

Best thing about oatmeal: It’s so filling you stay energized all morning. Most disappointing thing about oatmeal: It’s hard to eat when you’re on the go. Solution: These easy-to-make Baked Cranberry Orange Oatmeal Muffins. They are loaded with flavor from cinnamon, vanilla, orange zest and cranberries. A mashed banana adds sweetness and an extra boost of fuel for your busy day.

9. Crustless Cranberry Pie >

Crustless Cranberry Pie

Pie makes any occasion special. And with this Crustless Cranberry Pie recipe, you can enjoy it while you’re losing weight. Even better, there’s no need to pre-bake a crust for this pie. You just mix all the ingredients, including whole wheat pastry flour, Greek yogurt, eggs, cranberries, almonds and natural sweetener. Spread the mixture into a pie pan and bake for about 35 minutes. Serve warm and enjoy all the smiles around the table.

10. 4-Ingredient Chocolate Almond Trail Mix >

4-Ingredient Chocolate Almond Trail Mix

You can save money and steer clear of unhealthy ingredients when you make your own Chocolate Almond Trail Mix. It has just four basic components: protein-rich almonds, sweet raisins, tart dried cranberries and semi-sweet chocolate chips. Every handful satisfies your cravings and keeps hunger at bay until your next meal.

11. Cranberry Turkey Stuffed Sweet Potato >

Cranberry Turkey Stuffed Sweet Potato

If you have holiday meal leftovers or just want a quick lunch that’s as delicious as it is nutritious, try this easy Cranberry Turkey Stuffed Sweet Potato recipe. It starts with a sweet potato, one of our favorite high-fiber SmartCarbs. After cooking it in the microwave for about five minutes, you cut it in half, mash up the flesh, then pile on shredded turkey breast and cranberry sauce. Plus, you’ll add some goat cheese for creaminess and sautéed spinach for extra vitamins and minerals. You get rich flavor and complementary textures in every forkful.

12. Slow Cooker Apple Cranberry Crumble >

Slow Cooker Apple Cranberry Crumble

This season, you can fill your home with the warm aromas of baking while you relax and wait for this Slow Cooker Apple Cranberry Crumble dessert. This classic dish features fresh Granny Smith apples, along with cranberries, cinnamon and maple syrup, so it’s certain to satisfy your sweet tooth. It all goes into the slow cooker along with rolled oats and whole wheat flour, and it comes out hot, gooey and irresistible.

13. Air Fryer Creme Fraiche and Fruit Sweet Potato Crostini >

Air Fryer Creme Fraiche and Fruit Sweet Potato Crostini

Impress your guests with an elegant appetizer or make snack time just a little bit fancier. Sliced sweet potatoes are crisped in the air fryer so they can serve as the base for the toppings. Each slice gets a dollop of crème fraiche, along with crunchy almonds, dried cranberries and sweet figs. Set out a tray of these Air Fryer Creme Fraiche and Fruit Sweet Potato Crostini at any gathering and watch them disappear.

14. Pumpkin Cranberry Crackers >

Pumpkin Cranberry Crackers

Making your own crackers sounds hard but it’s so easy with this recipe. It showcases two of the season’s most popular flavors, pumpkin and cranberry. They’re mixed with only three other ingredients—whole wheat flour, coconut oil and water. The Pumpkin Cranberry Crackers come out of the oven in just 30 minutes, crisp and ready for dipping in hummus or plain Greek yogurt mixed with herbs.

15. Gluten Free Cranberry Scones >

Gluten Free Cranberry Scones

Scones are rich little pastries that usually are so loaded down with extra fat and calories that they’ll crush your diet. We’ve reimagined them so they are lighter, yet still buttery and flaky. Cranberries add a spark of tart flavor and brighten these scones up with their brilliant red color. The Gluten Free Cranberry Scones recipe makes enough for your own coffee or tea breaks and to treat your co-workers or friends at your next get-together.

16. Turkey Roulade >

Turkey Roulade

Elevate the standard turkey and stuffing dinner with this exquisite yet easy meal. Turkey breast is filled with a savory stuffing made from butternut squash, spinach, fresh sage, thyme and cranberries. The turkey is rolled up around the filling, tied with twine, and baked for about a half hour. When it’s done, just slice the Turkey Roulade and serve. That’s right, you don’t spend hours in the kitchen roasting and basting, and you still have a feast everyone will love.

17. Sweet Potato Cranberry Cookies >

Sweet Potato Cranberry Cookies

These Sweet Potato Cranberry Cookies are both delightful and diet friendly. The dough is made with sweet potato, so the cookies come out sweet, soft and high in fiber. It also includes eggs and whole-wheat flour, giving them that perfect cookie texture. Cinnamon and cranberries add the seasonal flavor. If you share these in the annual cookie exchange, be prepared for a lot of recipe requests.

18. Turkey Cranberry Salad >

Turkey Cranberry Salad

Get the tastes of the season in this Turkey Cranberry Salad that’s so easy to make! Just mix up shredded turkey breast, nonfat plain Greek yogurt, cranberries and pepper. You can enjoy it by itself, on a whole grain roll, or on top of a bowl of lettuce and other fresh vegetables. With the turkey and yogurt, you get a burst of protein that will fuel you up and keep you going for hours.

19. Cranberry Walnut Pinwheel Wraps >

Cranberry Walnut Pinwheel Wraps

Whether you’re going to a game-day tailgate, holiday party or any other get-together, these Cranberry Walnut Pinwheel Wraps are sure to be a winner. All you do is stir together tangy goat cheese and non-fat cream cheese with a little orange juice for sweetness. Toss in dried cranberries and crunchy walnut pieces, then spread the mix on a tortilla wrap. Roll it up and chill in the fridge for about a half-hour. Slice it into pinwheels and get the party started.

20. Thanksgiving Leftover Panini >

Thanksgiving Leftover Panini

Here’s an exciting way to turn the remains of your holiday dinner into another satisfying meal. Layer slices of turkey breast, cranberry sauce, Swiss cheese and leafy greens on top of a whole wheat sandwich thin (any high-fiber bread will work). Top this Thanksgiving Leftover Panini with another slice of bread and heat it up in a panini press or skillet until the cheese is melted and the bread is crisp. Now you’re ready to celebrate the tastes of the season all over again.

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Help me with figuring out my weight loss plateau

Hi! So i need your help figuring out what's going on because im at a loss here. So 3 months ago i decided to get back into the gym and start training / eating good again. I stopped going to the gym in 2020 due to obvious reasons and just never went back until now. In the meantime well... i got fat. Went from 70kg (150 pounds) to 91kg (200 pounds). So it was clear that i wanted to cut when i started and that's what i did. A tdee calc estimated my maintenance calories to about 2700, my guess was 3k so i decided to eat 200g of protein every day and 2000-2200 calories a day. That would be a 500-700 calorie deficit and it worked great the first 2 months. Dropped 5kg (11 pounds) in 2 months, but then nothing. No gain in weight no loss in weight, for a month now i have been 86 kg (190 pounds) consistently. I haven't changed anything in diet nor did i start any new supplements like creatine which i know can influence weight. I am very very disciplined when it comes to tracking calories so i know that i haven't been eating "hidden" calories in oils, drinks etc. .

So what's going on here? There is now way that my maintenance has dropped to 2k calories right? If not than why has my weight halted for so long? Thank you in advance.

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Why is it so hard for me to get out the of the lower ends of my weight?

I’m a 19 year old girl, 5’7” and I weigh 150-151lbs for reference.

Okay, so I’ve been on my weight loss journey for around 2 years now. And finally I’m down to an average weight.

But, I’ve noticed that every time I get down to the lower side of a weight like 150-152, 160-163, or even 170-172. My weight flucuates like crazy and I have to water fast to get out of it.

For example, I can get on the scale on Monday and it’ll say 151.8 and Tuesday it’ll say 150.6 and then the next 151.2? I did eat late last night, but it’s really annoying me to no end when my weight does this and it’s so discouraging.

Usually a 2-day water fast will help, but I’m wondering if there’s anything else I could do? Or if anyone knows why this is happening??

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11 Healthy Bread Recipes for Baking Season

The aroma of fresh-baked bread makes your home feel just a little cozier when the weather outside turns chilly. Eating bread straight from the oven warms you up from the inside out, too. But maybe you have heard that you have to avoid all bread recipes when you’re trying to eat healthy and lose extra pounds. We’re here to tell you that you can enjoy all of the sensory pleasures of homemade bread and stay on track to your weight loss goals.

With these 11 healthy bread recipes, you can treat yourself and the rest of your household to the tantalizing smells and the satisfying tastes of bread this season. Best of all, these recipes are so easy, you don’t need any baking experience.

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 1. Seeded Whole Wheat Bread Dough >

Healthy Seeded Whole Bread dough

Calories per Serving: 188

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb and 2 Extras

Baking your own bread lets you use deliciously healthy ingredients like sunflower and pumpkin seeds to add extra flavor and crunch to your sandwiches. Try this healthy bread to make a classic PB&J, toast it and top it with avocado or turn it into a perfect seasonal treat with a spread of fresh apple butter.

2. Whole Wheat Cranberry Orange Bread >

Healthy Whole Wheat Cranberry Orange Bread

Calories per Serving: 137

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb and 1 Extra

If you like healthy bread recipes that are soft and sweet, this simple loaf is sure to become a favorite for your breakfast or coffee breaks. It is low in calories—with just 137 per serving—and has no added sugar because the sweetness comes from oranges and applesauce.

3. Whole Wheat Herb Focaccia >

Healthy Whole Wheat Herb Focaccia

Calories per Serving: 129

On Nutrisystem, Count As: ½ SmartCarb, 2 Extras

Focaccia (pronounced “foe-KAH-chuh”) is a savory Italian-style flatbread with a texture like pizza dough. Enjoy it alongside soup and salad or just dip it in low-sodium, sugar-free marinara sauce. Bump up the taste of your focaccia with plenty of fresh herbs like rosemary and oregano, which are Free foods that add no calories but lots of flavor.

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4. Irish Soda Bread >

Irish Soda Bread

Calories per Serving: 109

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb

A staple for many bread-loving families, our Irish Soda Bread features the flavors of orange, vanilla and raisins. Plus, it gives you all the satisfaction of a firm and chewy loaf. We made it with whole wheat flour, so it’s high in fiber and just one slice leaves you feeling full for hours.

5. 5-Ingredient Buffalo Cauliflower Breadsticks >

5-Ingredient Buffalo Cauliflower Breadsticks

Calories per Serving: 116

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel and 1 Vegetable

For parties, game days or a snack anytime, these breadsticks treat you and your gang to the zesty flavor of buffalo sauce and gooey melted cheese atop a hearty base that’s perfectly crusty. You can have the breadsticks warm and ready to eat in under 30 minutes—even faster if you pick up cauliflower “rice” in the produce or frozen food sections of your grocery store.

6. Honey Yogurt Cornbread Muffins >

Healthy Honey Yogurt Cornbread Muffins

Calories per Serving: 110

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb

Muffins are the happy spot where bread meets cake—they’re soft and fluffy yet flavorful and filling. Sweet honey and tangy yogurt combine with savory cornbread to make these muffins tasty and oh-so-satisfying, but just right for your healthy eating plan.

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7. Air Fryer Garlic Bread >

Healthy Air Fryer Garlic Bread

Calories per Serving: 109

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb and 1 Extra

A side of garlic bread can turn any Italian dish into a feast worthy of your favorite Italian restaurant. Try this easy garlic bread recipe with our Four Cheese Manicotti or Meatballs in Marinara Sauce. We made our version of garlic bread in the air fryer so it comes out crispy and warm, yet easy on the calories.

8. Gluten-Free Banana Bread >

Healthy Gluten-Free Banana Bread

Calories per Serving: 150

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb and 1 Extra

Whether you’ve never made banana bread before or if you’ve been baking for years, you’ll be amazed at how quick and easy it is to whip up this tasty loaf. In just five simple steps, you’ll have a fragrant and moist bread ready to slice and enjoy for breakfast or as an afternoon snack.

9. Gluten-Free Maple Cornbread >

Gluten-Free Maple Cornbread

Calories per Serving: 98

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb

Whether you’re trying to avoid gluten or just love the taste and texture of warm cornbread straight from the oven, this version is the perfect side to soups, stews or our Chockful of Veggie Chili. The maple syrup gives the bread a hint of sweetness but keeps it less than 100 calories per serving.

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10. Easy-to-Make Zucchini Bread >

Easy-to-make Healthy Zucchini Bread

Calories per Serving: 114

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb and 1 Extra

This simple loaf is so soft, moist and rich in flavors like cinnamon and nutmeg, it’s almost like coffee cake. But it’s high in fiber because it’s made with whole wheat flour and shredded zucchini, so it keeps you feeling full for hours after eating it.

11. Cauliflower Crust Breadsticks >

Cauliflower Crust Breadsticks

Calories per Serving: 204

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 2 Vegetables and 1 Extra

Lots of mozzarella, Parmesan cheese and Italian seasonings load up these warm and crusty breadsticks with flavor. Even better: you can eat four of them and get only about 200 calories, plus 16 grams of protein and two of your daily servings of non-starchy vegetables. What could be better?

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Creating a Habit Loop for Healthful Eating -- How I lost 50 Pounds This Year

  • Conclusion first -- I want to start with the conclusion first. What worked for me is to get to a point where I only ate when my body gave me hunger cues and stop eating when I am full. That is way easier said than done. It took me all year to get to this position.
  • About me -- I am mid 30s. My starting weight is 250, I am 5'10, and I am now 200. I don’t have any metabolic issues (no thyroid issues, no diabetes, no insulin resistance that I know of) and followed CICO. I had about a 500 calorie deficit per day.
  • Tools used -- I used Macro Factor to log in my calories, to track my weight (to give me a weekly average), and it recalibrated what my daily calorie budget was based on my weight loss.

  • Steps I took.
    • It starts out with creating a habit loop. This part is the tl;dr of 2 really great books (1) The Power of Habit by Duhigg and (2) Unwinding Anxiety by Brewer.
      • People think will power is the key because the unsaid assumption is that people are thinking machines that sometimes feel. The problem with this view point is that brain science shows that people are feeling machines that sometimes think. The same part of your brain that does fight/flight/freeze can turn off the part of your brain that is responsible for will power.
      • Most of your behavior can be classified as a habit. A habit has 3 parts: cue, a behavior/routine, and a result (reward).
      • Anxiety is a habit loop: the cue can be from the environment, boredom, etc. It usually goes like this: Trigger - Stress; Behavior - Worry; Result - Avoidance/Distraction. But, sometimes worrying can be its own trigger. The anxiety is your brain's way of making you do something about having incomplete information.
      • Having this habit loop on means your body is super stressed all the time. It means you will have a decline in cognitive functioning. It can actually make you sick.
    • Applied to eating:
      • I took a note of everything I ate. When I ate it. How I felt before. How i felt after. I did this for 2 weeks. The trick is to not change your behavior just because it's being recorded!
      • What I discovered is how often I ate when the cue wasn't hunger. In fact, it was hardly at all. A lot of social cues (someone brought in donuts). A lot of stress cues. A lot of boredom cues.
      • What I did with this information: The How I felt after part of the exercise was the most eye opening. So many times I actually felt crappy. Eat a snickers bar, get a stomach ache. Eat a donut, feel nautious.
      • This shifted into mindfulness. I started to chew slower. When I ate only when I was hungry, I also made sure I savored the food. I would take mental notes about textures, flavors, etc. What I realized is that hyper palatable foods (e.g. McDonalds) actually tended to be too salty, didn't taste as good as I would expect or remember later when a craving hit.
    • Power of disenchantment.
      • Anytime I'd be triggered by golden arches or other bad habits, I'd remember how it actually made me feel. I remembered how it actually tastes. Over time, my brain naturally stopped being triggered by that cue because I realized it just wasn't doing it for me.
      • As far as boredom/stressed eating. Before I snacked, I always would ask myself: Am I hungry or bored? Hungry or stressed? I found replacement behaviors for some of the things. If bored, do something fun or do a quick chore. Or call a friend. That really brightened my day.
    • Power or processing negative emotions.
      • So, I can't say enough about this YT channel on processing emotions. The TLDR: Think about when you were a kid, your earliest lesson on emotional processing might be "don't cry or I'll give you something to cry about" from a tired parent that were doing their best. We are taught a lot of avoidance behaviors but not a lot of how to process your emotion. This YT channel explains it all way better than me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoCiHlFjo04&t=3s
      • The TL:DR is that you are not your emotions. You are not your thoughts. One way to unwind bad habit loops is to be curious. In addition to the YT channel, Brewer's book referenced above gives a strategy called RAIN. You Recognize the stressor and relax into it. You Accept/Allow it to be there. Investigate body sensations/how you feel. Note what happens moment to moment.
      • This helped me reduce the amount of stresses that are actually cued so I don't even need replacement behaviors.
      • The biggest thing that a lot of us can struggle with is "all or nothing" thinking. Getting discouraged is part of a diet. But dealing with it is the difference. You can say "fuck it" or have a "cheat meal" that turns into a cheat day. Into your bad habits that got you fat in the first place. Don't let one "bad meal" turn into a week. You can't get fat on a single donut, but you can if your overall eating habits are bad.
    • Calorie deficit. Okay, so this was about losing weight after all. Now we're getting to the practical food part.
      • I had to calculate my maintenance calories. I use Macro Factor, an app. But you can use this to get started: https://tdeecalculator.net/. I knew I had to get to 500 calorie deficit for my overall goal.
      • You have to get a food scale. You have to use measuring spoons. When you start out, you truthfully can over estimate how many calories is in your food. Your regular spoon full of peanut butter isn't an actual table spoon.
      • You have to be precise in measuring what you eat. It takes a while to unwind the non-hunger cue part of your eating habits. It takes a while for your body to get used to what 1500 (1800, 1200, whatever your goal is) calories really means.
      • The thing is that you need to update it once a month or so. Your calorie budget will change as you get smaller!
    • Scale weight. Another issue is people will confuse scale weight with fat loss/gain. Your scale weight is everything. Your poop. pee. Your muscles. Your skeleton. If you also start working out when you diet, your body composition can change. You can gain muscle while losing fat. Your body can retain water in various ways. Don't let a daily spike lose your momentum. Make micro adjustments if your week over week scale weight doesn't change. Also incorporate a tailor tape and measure your waist and chest, maybe your hips, etc. Log those somewhere.
    • Cooked most of my meals. So when I had 1500 calories, and I was becoming more mindful, I knew I had precious real estate.
      • I liked this habit of eating: Breakfast (usually smaller), snack, lunch, snack, and a bigger dinner. I usually liked light breakfasts and lunches. My first snack is usually a premier protein drinks I got from costco. My second is usually fruit.
      • So, that usually meant dinner is 500-600 calories per serving. I eat a lot of sheet pan recipes. They typically are a lean protein + leafy green. But you can get really tasty ass food.
      • The timing of snacks/meals has to do with hunger. So if I'm not hungry in the morning, I don't eat. If I'm not hungry in the afternoon, I don't eat. Packing the food at work isn't an obligation for me.
    • Going out to eat. So, sometimes I can look at the menu and ensure it's 500-600 calories. But some menus aren't as good. Usually look for stuff that's blanched, steamed, grilled. Avoid things that are fried, battered, etc. I usually get a lean protein + leafy green even at a resteraunt. If you have to do fast food, get taco bell "fresco style," chick fila, try to substitute fruit for fries.
    • 8 hours of restful sleep. This goes hand in hand with anxiety reduction. But if your body is stressed, your flight/flight/freeze reflexes are up, it also impacts your digestion. Also, stress hormones can cause your body to maintain fat reserves (insulin+cortisol are among those). You can't be chronically stressed and lose weight consistently. You will be chronically stressed if you aren't getting 8 hours of restful sleep. If you get 8 hours but it isn't restful, refer to the anxiety reduction techniques above. But also look at a sleep specialist. Sleep apnea for example is super under diagnosed.
    • If you snack, make it count. I make low calorie snacks. Low butter/salt popcorn is the bomb. I also love pickles. A lot of fruits, vegetables, etc., make fun mindless snacks for the times you just want to have a snack at a movie or whatever. You won't get fat on snap peas. But they have a delightful crunch and it's fun to snack.
    • Get rid of the "clean plate club" mentality. You eat slowly. You savor each bite. Take note of the textures, flavors, etc. But you stop when you feel 3/4 full. If you toss food, that's fine.
  • Menu planning. I think this an underrated aspect. Planning out the majority of what you eat will reduce a lot of your cues that lead you to subpar eating habits.
    • It doesn't take as long as you think. Every saturday, my wife and I spend 2 hours in total in looking up recipes, shopping, etc.
    • It's just the 2 of us, but we basically plan on 3 meals. They will make left overs and sometimes lunches.
    • Sun/Mo, Tue/Wed, Thur/Fri, then treat ourselfs out for Saturday.
    • Breakfasts are usually the same for me. I like oat meal (you can dress it up in a variety of ways. I like pumpkin puree + pumpkin pie spice + honey, or walnuts + brown sugar, etc). Or omelets (you can make with a variety of veggies or spices).
    • Lunches are left overs or a salad. I like premade salads from costco.
    • Dinners will usually be from recipes. We have a variety of cookbooks but also look online. Sometimes will google "600 calorie, under 30 minutes" type stuff.
      • Sheet pan recipes are the best. https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/photos/sheet-pan-recipes
      • It's how I got into parsnips. They're cheap but awesome roasted. Roasted veggies are great because you can fill up, lots of volume, without risking your waist line too much.
      • Soups are underrated as fuck. I usually get a soup for a full meal, especially when eating out.
  • If you're new to cooking, get this book: https://www.saltfatacidheat.com/.
    • It will teach you how to make a balanced bite. You have to have all the elements of salt, fat, acids, and heat.
    • It will also teach you how to equip a basic pantry and kitchen. It makes cooking for yourself easier if you have basic skills. Recipes usually leave out how to season from their instructions, leading to bland ass food.
    • This book teaching you how/when to salt your food properly makes it worth the read alone.
  • You will start really looking forward to your meals when you plan them out, actually. It's empowering to know that every meal will lead towards your overall weight loss goal.
  • Try to have most of your meals on point, but enjoy yourself every now and then, but lot yourself enjoy things when you are dedicated to only eating when you're hungry. Otherwise you may risk binging (at least I did).

Where I'm going from here: Well, it is the holidays. My goal is to maintain my current weight. In January, I'll start another round of calorie deficit. My goal is to get to 180. The why I am losing weight is because I want to be able to be healthy and energetic for my future children. My wife is 11 weeks pregnant and I want to be the best possible father I can be and starting with better health is my compelling reason.

I think it's essential that you have self-respect and confidence in knowing that your health is worth it. You can get through the negative portions of dieting if the reason for your suffering is compelling enough. But everyone's values are different so literally looking/feeling better can be compelling IMO. You need to have things to help you from getting discouraged if your scale weight spikes up one day for a number of reasons that it may.

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Monday, November 28, 2022

Which apps are good to use for calorie intake and helps with the weight loss journey?

I'm trying to find an app that helps me track how many calories I'm consuming and how to much do I need to intake everyday. I just know my weight but don't know bmi. Im 26 154pounds height 5"6 and my goal is to be 148pounds but idk how to get there. I guess people keep saying calories deficit. Does that mean eating less that what I was actually eating? Does it mean like cutting down on sugar foods and high sodium

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Coming out of social isolation depression and COVID weight gain rebound (100lb in my case) how do move face people again, especially at the gym.

I’m 34, struggled with obesity my whole life do to genetic and other medical factors.

Had spent 3 years prior to COVID losing that weight, and in one year gained it all back.

This has become a major block for me, I want to start working out again, and I loved my classes, and routine, but I can’t get over feeling unable to face to people that watched and were so proud of my weight loss, see me like this.

I feel so stuck, help!

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Realistic weight loss goals?

I am female, age 32, 5'3, 179 lbs (181 after Thanksgiving). Last year I was at my highest weight of 196 (possibly more but at some point I was afraid of the scale). At that time I started eating better, went on thyroid meds for my hashimotos, and stopped eating gluten which helped me drop the weight. I've been in a plateau for a few months now and at my last doctors visit my cholesterol was a little high. I'm really trying to create a solid plan to get down to a healthier weight. So far I've decided to do the treadmill for 30 min 4 days a week. I also know I need more protein so I was thinking about doing a protein shake to supplement. I'm actually not sure how many calories I eat in a day. Breakfast is 2 egg whites and 2 strips of bacon, but lunch is whatever I can get from the cafeteria and my bf switches dinner up all the time. Anyone have any ideas? I feel like I always try to do too much and give up quickly, hashimotos means low web net and brain fog even with medication so I get overwhelmed. In the kind of person who just needs to be told "do this" so I don't have to think about it as much.

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Does loose skin from excessive weight loss impact the ability to build abdominal pressure?

Hey guys, so this is a topic I've really found any answers to and only can rely on my personal anecdotal evidence. I've lost about 80 pounds 10 years ago and I've had loose skin since then.

My lifts always were impacted greatly by wearing a belt, but I thought of this as kinda normal.
Recently I started wearing some shapewear / compression belt in the gym, just because I wanted to try how running felt without skin moving and even this piece of clohting had an impact on my lifts. Ofc placebo might be in play here, but this got me thinking and lead me to me question and wondering if anyone had the same experience. I'm not sure if it would make sense, but I didn't find any studies or information on that topic.

Sooo, does loose skin from excessive weight loss impact the ability to build abdominal pressure?

Cheersss

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I feel like I'll never lose weight

I'm going to allow myself to be vulnerable on reddit of all places; hopefully I don't get torn apart!

I'm 38 years old, 6' tall and 280lbs. Recently completed labs for my physical and of course my cholesterol is high and blood sugar is at the upper end of the recommended range. I feel the steady decline of my health, I know I need to change, but I feel like I'm a lost cause.

I've tried weight loss before but always end up quitting. I have serious laziness and motivational problems. Worst of all, I'm a really picky eater and afraid to try new things. I don't know if it's my ADHD or what, but once I find something I like I pretty much stick to that thing. I don't eat vegetables, and I'm pretty sure that won't ever change. Fast food is a huge problem for me. Portion management is a huge problem.

Here's some things I've tried: - Counting calories with an app. I love technology and I find it very motivating. It's fun at first, but over time it stops becoming fun/interesting and I eventually give up on entering meals I eat. - Reducing or stopping the amount of fast food I eat. I have only a few things I eat at home (grilled cheese, peanut butter sandwiches, tomato soup with crackers, frozen pizzas). There's always that tendency to eat out. The longer I've been away from Chickfila or fast-food burgers, the more I think about and crave them. - Appetite suppressants. I've had the most success with this. Eliminating hunger feelings has been the best experience so far. My doctor recommended Saxenda but unfortunately my insurance doesn't cover it. And I didn't want to spend over $1000 a month for it. I ended up using Phentermine. The side effects sucked, but I stuck with it. I ended up losing about 25 lbs (got down to 250lbs from 275) and it was a great feeling. However, the medication started to become less effective over time and I eventually went back to my old habits. I stopped taking the medication at that point.

Here are my struggles: - I have a sedentary job. I sit at a desk all day. My hobbies happen to also be sedentary and involve sitting. About the only time I really stand up is to do chores around the house, mow the lawn, etc. - I'm lazy. It's hard for me to start a task, but once I'm doing it, I can stick with it. This especially applies to exercise. - I don't exercise. It's not fun at all. It's exhausting. It feels punishing for no benefit. And I'm not motivated to stick with it. I could probably do some weights/workout equipment at home but you would never get me to drive to a gym and pay a membership. I think my laziness is a big part of this. - I'm a picky eater. Love fried foods. Hate veggies. Some fruits are OK (I like apples but not bananas). This is a gag-reflex / texture / taste issue and I'm 100% sure I will never eat vegetables.

Here's some things I do or think I would enjoy: - Cycling I love. But I won't do it in cold weather. It requires getting dressed up and stuff which just makes it harder to be motivated and get it going. Once I'm on the road, though, I can go forever. - I have a wife and she's very very supportive and encouraging. I feel like I want to do everything with her, so I'm hoping doing some activities together will help motivate me and hold me accountable.

I've done a lot of googling/searching about this and most of the advice comes down to: - Don't like food, too bad, you have to eat those things - Stop being lazy - You're just being a child

I mean, I'm sure a lot of this is true. I fully acknowledge that I have problems. But the idea is to get some encouragement and ideas to help me improve my lifestyle which hopefully results in a healthier me. Part of my hesitation in opening up here, especially on Reddit, is that I'll get roasted. But I'll take the risk...

If anyone has advice, I'd really appreciate it.

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Is it even worth working on losing weight in December?

So just to be clear, I’ve been on a consistent workout schedule. My calories have been too high for me to lose weight, but I’ve put on good muscle, I can lift heavier and I’ve maintained my weight for 3 months. Even though I was hoping to be down at least 5 lbs in that time I’m still happy with my progress.

Now, I’m debating if to drop my calories and increase my cardio, but TBH I know from December 20th-January 4 I will take a break from dieting and exercise due to vacation. Yes I’ll be walking more, but I want to enjoy my travel, try new and exotic food, and just not stress about weight loss. It’s also the holidays so enjoying food and drinks with family is on the agenda.

So, TLDR: are you using the next 2 weeks before Christmas to continue weight loss goals, or are you just waiting till January?

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Sunday, November 27, 2022

I 🫶 high carb

I literally get so hungry if I try restrict carbs and then I overeat. People always tell you in weight loss spaces that high protein and high fat are the way to go, but fat doesn't satisfy me that much as it's low volume, and in order to even hit like 100 g of protein in 1400 calories I have to be constantly eating foods I don't like, or artificial sweeteners. Carbs actually keep me fuller longer, is that weird and am I just ignoring other factors?

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tips to stay patient during this process?

I'm one month into my weight loss plan and have lost 15 pounds. I know based on math and science that it will take me another 5 to 6 months for my to reach my goal, and an additional month beyond that to surpass my goal and hit my dream weight.

I'm really struggling right now with the weight of time, that sinking feeling I get when I think about having so many months ahead of me. I'm not really struggling day to day. I feel satiated at 1500 calories per day and am averaging about 1.8 - 2 pounds of weight loss per week. So, what I am doing is working. But why does it have to happen so slowly!

Add to that my current plateau, and I'm starting to feel like things are moving even slower. I understand rationally that this plateau will lift, but this plateau plus the time I have remaining is starting to drive me crazy. And I know there will be other plateaus in the future, which makes me feel even more discouraged.

I can't help but wish my body would cut me a break and give me a shortcut this time around. Can I just drop the next five or ten quickly and skip a few weeks of playing the waiting game?

How do you all deal with being patient during the weight loss process? How do you deal with wanting things to move faster than they are? It's driving me nuts.

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Can't stop binge eating.

Hey.

So I've made many posts on these weight loss subreddits.

But, I've realized, all my problems came down to one thing: binge eating.

So, ever since I was young I have been a compulsive eater due to trauma response, and I've been in a calorie deficit for a while.

I'll be doing good on the weekdays, and then overeat on weekends.

I don't know what to anymore, I'm a little lost. Please, can someone teach me how to fix this? Can anyone that's been through the same help me? I'd appreciate it.

Thank you ❤️

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Letting out the shitstorm in my head to bf. (27 F 34 M)

The shitstorm: I hate myself. My weight is constantly yoyoing, now I am going up and up. No motivation to exercise. No motivation to eat right. Lot of stress, no capacity for taking better care of myself. Since childhood I have been told by my parents that I am fat, haven't gotten any support from them regarding weight loss, so my self esteem is very low and this is very painful to me.

The boyfriend: our relationship is good, have been together 6 months, best relationship I have ever had, but he never compliments me, so I feel 10 times worse, cause it feels like he doesn't like anything about me (rationally this is not true). To make things worse (better), he is a coach and sports is his life and keeps making comments about how I should work out more (for health)

So I went extremely down yesterday and he is bad at communication and comforting me so it was a very long and terrible conversation and we got nowhere.

I figured I need to do this by myself, at least the emotional part for sure, with working out he helps. But the emotional side of it is so heavy, part of me would be much happier if it was the other way around. Today I ate right, no junk and went to the gym. I don't know if I can keep this up or will put my head in the sand and start binging again.

Thank you for reading this, I needed to vent. Let me know if you have any advice for me please.

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Purchased an Elliptical for my home, weight limit question.

Hey everyone!

I'm just beginning a new weight loss journey and have made a big purchase for an elliptical and ordered a bunch of cooking equipment to start making healthy changes. I've realised the elliptical I've purchased has a 275lbs max weight limit and I'm currently 310lbs myself, upon doing some reading it seems the difference is likely to only lead to quicker wear on the machine but I'm really worried I'm thinking about this wrong.

This was a fairly big purchase for me at £700 and I don't want to take any risks with that type of money. Does anyone have any knowledge/experience doing similar? I'm thinking of giving them a call tomorrow to see if there's a way for them to increase weight limit or suggest a different model but the model i've ordered was on sale from £1.1k.

Any advice would be appreciated :)

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Coincidence?

Hi all! I started my weight loss journey 1.5 months ago. My 2 months will be the 9th of December

I started at 224 now down to 205

Recently, I noticed I’ll experience a slight weight loss plateau for 5-7 days then I’ll drop 2 pounds over night

I try to stay at a 1300-1400 calorie defecit but I often eat over budget lol

My TDEE is 2000-2100 sedentary

Anyway, this week I was fluctuating between 209-211

I wanted to see if I could do something to break the plateau so I went the gym and did a brisk walk on the treadmill at a 40% incline. I did almost 3 miles at 3MPH but would take a break in between for a breather- I’d lower the incline and lower the speed then pick back up

This day I ate about 1600-1700 cals and burnt about 350 cals during work out (correct me if this seems inaccurate)

Once I got home I knocked out and woke up 205 this morning!

Do you think this was just a coincidence or did my workout have something to do with the overnight weight loss here

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Weight loss recs for gym?

I have about 2 hours every weekday that I can go to the gym, but I get there and am unsure what to do, so I usually do 45 minutes of elliptical or bike and a little bit of weight machines.

Does anyone have any specific recs of what you would do at the gym that would really help with weight loss?

There are treadmills, elliptical, bikes, a lot of weight machines and free weights.

I'm a 40s something ♀️.

Thanks!

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Struggling to get back into healthy habits after gaining some weight back

I (26 f) started a weight loss journey almost 3 years ago and for the first time I was successful. I was 290 at the start of it and the lowest I got was to 204, I’m pretty tall so it was a very noticeable change and I lost all the weight in less than a year. I was very, VERY determined and about 10 months in I was very set in my routine. I started with low carb but after I hit 230 and couldn’t drop any more I started calorie counting and that helped me immensely.

At the start I was working only one part time job (4 days a week, 32 hours) I would make a small breakfast, bring a lunch from home, fruit or veggies for snacks, then go home and later on eat my dinner and be done for the night. The days I worked I would get up early and go to the gym for an hour or so (I only did cardio) and the days I didn’t work I would go the night before just very late. I was very good at eating a wide variety of foods that were good choices, lots of fruits and veggies, not drinking calories, fueling my body instead of feeding cravings. For a very long time I didn’t eat fast foods and I was able to either say no to cravings or wasn’t having any cravings at all.

The problems started about a year into my weight loss. I was very self conscious before, never dated, was still a virgin, very socially anxious and shy. I slowly gained confidence and over time i slowly relaxed with my habits. I would eat good mostly, but treat my selfie occasionally, I stopped going to the gym as much, then soon stopped going at all. My weight went back up to about 210-215 and I would stay consistently in that range for another year and a half, in that time I put my dieting and weight loss on the back burner so to speak, I was focusing a lot on dating and my outer appearance, traveling, having fun for the first time and experiencing life as someone who wasn’t terribly insecure about everything. I live alone and the part time job wasn’t enough to pay the bills so I got another part time job, this past summer my main job offered me full time and I took it but still kept my part time job, both of which I’m still currently doing.

Due to the amount of hours I work I have been eating a lot of fast foods, and I have been overeating a lot as well, for context, I work from 7 am to 9pm Monday- Thursday, 7-3 Friday, and 3 am-3pm on saturdays. It’s easier to grab food 2-3 times a day than to cook it or meal prep 6 days in advance. My weight is now at 230 again which is the highest it’s been in over 2 years, I notice I’m a bored eater/emotional eater sometimes as well which helps nothing. My goal when I started was 180, though I think I’d be fine if I only hit 190 considering my height and body type.

This has turned into a bit of a jumbled rant but I think a bit of backstory and context is important, when I was losing weight the first time I was so dedicated to it that I never even considered eating over my daily calories (I stuck to about 1800 at the time) and I had a lot of control over my eating and cravings and portion control. I’ve sort of spiraled and at the current moment I’ve been struggling hard to get back into that mode of having control and forcing myself to stay consistent. Since it’s thanksgiving this week I have a few days off both jobs and I think I’m going to use this time to jump back in. I haven’t actually gone grocery shopping to make consistent meals in months, but I did today. I find that I have an easier time sticking to eating healthy when I eat the same thing every day for each meal (sometimes I would have 2-3 options I could choose from so I didn’t get disgusted with the foods I would make) I’ve decided I’m going to start tomorrow eating healthy again, but I’m scared that my mindset will be easy to go against and I’ll get fast food or just keep overeating. How do you get back into a good & consistent mindset?

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Saturday, November 26, 2022

I don't know what to do anymore

I will try to make this short. I was overweight in high school, lost about 30 pounds of weight to join the military. The military kept me pretty thin over the 9 years I was active duty because I was CONSTANTLY moving. Deployments made all of us shed fat like crazy even when we weren't trying. But the lifestyle change hit me hard. I got out of the military January 2021, but when the pandemic hit I went from about 165-195 fairly quick. Initially when I got out I was still maintaining 195 pounds. Mind you, I am 5'6' so at this point I am feeling pretty heavy for what I am use to.

Earlier this year in 2022, I lost the weight and got down to about 172....well guess who gained it back?! I am at 195 again (or even over). But my heart/mind is so over it. "I keep thinking just BE PATIENT with yourself, you did it many times and you can do it again!". I was so into fitness and being thin in the military, it was truly like my identity. I have lost that. I thought I lost it when I became a mom, but I lost all that pregnancy weight too and got into powerlifting. I ALWAYS picked myself back up.

....except now I feel like the fire has gone out. It has truly gone out. Since I have been out of the military I have felt so isolated. Completely alone. My mental health is absolute shit. I just don't have the fire or drive I use to have for ANYTHING... let alone weight loss. I am so afraid I will just keep losing the weight to gain it again. I keep thinking, what's the point?

People tell you "JUST DONT GIVE UP"...but when you have transformed so many times you get to a point where you feel like you have lost an even greater battle. Someone, anyone...just help me get out of my head. Help me get my life back.

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I've lost 50 pounds to finally be under 300!

I don't have anyone to share this with, so forgive the life story. I just had to write this out. Maybe someone else will connect with it? Sorry about the length and lack of concrete meaning behind it.

I've been constantly gaining weight my entire life, besides a brief stint in high school with extreme cases of strep (basically couldn't eat for months and lost about 30 pounds). Otherwise it's been constant due to never learning appropriate eating habits until I made it all the way up to 350 pounds. I couldn't want more than a few hundred steps without having to stop and take a breath, I needed seatbelt extenders to fly on a plane, sitting on my desk chair (instead of a well cushioned couch or recliner) for too long would hurt my tailbone, and looking in the mirror disgusted me so much that I stopped doing it except to look at specific features (like making sure hair is not too messy or my tie was straight, things like that), ignoring the bigger picture of how I looked as a whole.

At the beginning of August, I moved to a place very high in elevation so even for those in shape, it's noticeably harder to breath and for someone as out of shape as me, I could barely walk 10 steps without having breathing difficulties. It was what finally provided the impetus to change. When my household goods arrived, 2 days after my 28th birthday, I used the scale and saw I hit 350 pounds. I didn't make any significant changes for a few weeks, but just the increased activity from unpacking and rearranging everything brought me down to 345 at the end of August, where I started my weight loss journey in earnest.

I started tracking the calories I'm consuming (got a kitchen scale and everything, surprisingly nice!), going on walks, and more than anything, developing a healthier relationship with food (not eating because of boredom, eating until I'm satisfied not stuffed, etc.). There's still a lot to go and I know at some point I'm going to have to start working out in earnest and eat even healthier, but you have to start from somewhere.

My goal is to not be overweight by my 30th birthday, 189 pounds. Losing 161 pounds in 2 years, from the initial weigh-in. It's so daunting, but as of this morning, I'm at 299 pounds. Being almost a third of the way there already after just a few months is a pretty great feeling.

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My parents confronted me about my weight gain but I already started my health journey a month ago. Even when I AM trying to be healthier, they judged me because I’m still fat.

Disclaimer: I’m not one of those people that have a non-repairable or toxic relationship with my parents. Just came to vent tbh.

I (F, 25, 5’4”) am started off at 289 lbs. have a goal of losing 115 lbs. i lost 30 lbs, then I got stagnant/became lazy and I gained 25 lbs back…ugh! So now, i’m trying make myself more disciplined and have more control over my schedule. So as of late, I got myself back together and from Nov 1st to now, I lost 7 lbs! I am now 282 lbs. I’ve been keeping my health journey to myself though. I haven’t told anyone, not even my parents.

So, earlier last week my mom confronted me that she’s concerned because I picked up some weight after I was pretty consistent with my weight loss before. She talked about how she is genuinely concerned for my health. We sat down and talked about it. She offered lots of options, such as paying for personal training and other things. I declined because I informed her that I have my own workout regimen and I’ve lost 7 pounds so far, and I don’t need a personal trainer.

Then, a day after I saw my dad on thanksgiving, he called me to ask if I could come over his place so we could have an “important conversation”. He then. I came over, and then we had a long conversation, and he also explained to me about how he’s concerned about my health as well because of my weight gain (don’t worry, he did it with a lot of tact and grace. His approach was really respectful). He also offered to start working out with me and offered me a gym membership as well so we can go to the gym together. Once again, I told him no, because I informed him that I have my own workout regimen and how I’ve lost 7 pounds so far. Also, i explained how I have a treadmill and weights in my house. And my job came with a gym membership so sometimes I already workout after work, if I didn’t already workout in the morning.

I totally understand my parents concern. I mean at the end of the day, if you clearly see that your child is unhealthy, then of course you’re going to be concerned and do everything you can to try to see if you can rectify the situation before it spirals into worse health issues.

But still, it just kind of sucks. Because I am being more healthy and I am losing weight, and I’ve been doing that for about a month now. It’s just that the weight that I have lost isn’t noticeable so far because it’s only 7 pounds. But still, despite all of my hard work and efforts from November 1st up until today, I’m still getting bombarded by my parents about how much weight I’ve gained. Despite the fact that I restarted my health journey on November 1, I’m still getting called out by them for how much weight I’m getting. After I told him that I already started my health journey again, and I lost 7 pounds, they responded with all positive feedback, and we’re saying things like “great! That’s so awesome! I’m so proud of you! Keep it up!”. And that’s all totally great and I’m really happy that they encourage me and support my journey.

But still. It sucks that they think that I’m not being healthy, just because I’m still fat overall, and my weight loss isn’t noticeable yet. Like that really hurt.

Just wanted to vent.

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