Thursday, September 9, 2021

How do you feel about people commenting on your weight loss?

Not sure if I’m being sensitive but I really don’t like when people comment on my weight loss. It doesn’t matter if they are saying it in a “good” way, it’s almost always backhanded. They’ll mention how I look “better” just because I lost weight.

I personally wouldn’t comment on anyone’s because I know how it feels. The only exception i have for it is my sister because she has mentioned before she likes it for validation.

I’ve currently lost 30 lbs and 2 people at work (one coworker and one customer) have commented on it and it makes me feel so uncomfortable. Particularly my coworker of mine, she has told me in 3 separate occasions about my weight. She pretty much asked me how I lost weight and congratulated me on it and told me I look so much better. And what makes it worse is she told me something in front of people. It only made me so uncomfortable because I hate drawing attention to myself. And my weight loss is not something I talk about with anyone. Am I overreacting to this?

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