Thursday, September 23, 2021

Anyone else get frustrated with their partner more after losing weight?

We used to be so compatible and I love her still, but it's so frustrating seeing her complain about her weight then overeating. I lost 120lbs with intermittent fasting, and all she's done is complain or say she can't do it. If I can do it, so can she.

I wish she could just stick to a diet like I did and we could be fit and healthy together. Whenever we go on walks or bike rides she complains the whole time and needs constant breaks and snacks. Just have a bit of willpower!! I've snapped at her a few times over it and I know it makes her feel bad.

She was upset yesterday because I now weigh less than her, but she then ate half a tube of pringles an hour later..

I'm trying not to be a controlling boyfriend but how hard is it to just not buy them in the first place? I don't like telling her what she should and shouldn't eat. Her overeating is a huge turn off too. She's gained weight in the relationship and I'm losing attraction, especially because I'm now fitter myself. I try and educate her about healthy eating and weight loss but it doesn't stick.

She gives up on diets after a week. It makes me kind of mad because I know how much she hates her body and how happy she could be if she managed to lose it.

She is also quite unsupportive of my diet too, always trying to get me to eat bad food or saying I'm starving myself or exercising too much. I'm not, I'm healthy.

She is a good girlfriend though. She is extremely loving and caring and does everything around the house for me. She was never bothered by my weight. I don't want to break up over this but our lifestyles are now so different.

How can I help her without getting annoyed??

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