Hi guys,
I am a female in my late 20's. I have wanted to meet someone for a while but my weight always held me back. I started at 235lbs (5'2) and I thought I would start dating whenever I got down to 170lbs. I hit 170 and was like nope, no chance I need to drop another 20lbs before I download tinder. I am now 145 and I feel the same way.
The old me would have been over the moon to be 145 but because it isn't 120 (my goal), I can't visualise myself living my life until I am there. I am convinced I won't be happy or be able to date until I am lean. I have heard bad things about dating while being overweight, I am about 10lbs or so from a healthy BMI.
Did anyone here start dating while overweight or before reaching their goal? What was it like? I am unsure if I should bite the bullet and just go for it or wait. I am sad that I am not happy about my body after the amazing progress I have made. I guess my concern is that I will reach 120 and still feel this way.
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