I've been consistent with my diet and exercise routine for a while now and this makes me excited, but at the same time nervous. I'm starting to see changes in my body which is awesome, but I've realized that this is serious now and other people will also notice my body.
I don't mind it when family, friends and female acquaintances notice... actually it motivates me to keep going. But I'm scared of the eventual male attention my weight loss will bring. I've been overweight/obese my whole life, and when it comes to guys, I've either been mocked for the way I looked (until high school), or ignored. Some guys wouldn't even want to talk to me because they felt embarrassed to be seen with me.
I've had many thin female friends and most of them (if not all) have experienced being catcalled, hit on by a creepy guy, or have even been followed by one or many men. I'm really scared that it'll happen to me because I won't know what to do at all.
I keep up with my diet/exercise anyway because at the end of the day I want to feel pretty and be strong/fit for myself. But as an introverted and rather anxious woman, I'm scared it'll bring me more anxiety than anything else. But I don't want to stay big. It's very conflicting.
Does anyone else feel that way, or used to feel that way? I'd really like to hear some advice or ways to cope with this. :( I don't want to care about what guys think of my body.
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