My highest weight was 223 lbs and I’m 153 lbs right now. My goal is 140-145lbs. I was in a long relationship (most of my twenties) and it’s been a year and half on my weight loss journey as well as being single.
Ive been getting attention these past few months with guys asking me on dates and I get so anxious about it. I spent so many years uncomfortable in my own body that being confident is just a work in progress right now.
I’m happy with how I look with clothes on... I got my shapely curves back instead of just looking huge all around. But being naked is totally different.
I still have some flab on my stomach and arms that I know will slim down as I continue to lose but it’s also my stretch marks on my stomach and a little saggier breasts that have me wondering how the hell I’m going to ever be intimate again. I just feel like these guys asking me out are very cute and in shape and I’m intimidated.
I just want to be like, “dude, I look different under these clothes.” Lol
I wouldn’t say I look ugly or gross but it’s just bothering me. All I can do is continue to lose more and tone but I’d love to be touched again soon lol. Ugh. Sorry if it’s tmi but I’m just wondering how to get past these insecurities after the weight loss so that I can feel more confident in being intimate?
Has anyone gone through this? How do you open up and dive back into the dating world after this journey?
I guess ultimately I’m scared that when he sees me naked he’ll be a little disappointed :( but then I’m like..well I don’t want a guy like that anyway...but I guess the even bigger fear is that I won’t meet someone who is physically attracted to me in bed... after all this work to better myself.
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