Sunday, April 21, 2019

How do you deal with the unwanted comments?

Looking for a little advice please :)

A little over a year ago, I started losing weight. I've lost over 90 pounds and am so close to my goal weight! (I have less than 5 pounds to go). I've lost weight through CICO and exercise. I'm 5'4 and am 150lbs, goal weight is 145.

The last few months, others have started to notice my weight loss. While most of their comments are nice, I've noticed that more and more comments have been difficult to respond to. Usually these comments start off with a compliment then someone feeling the need to comment on my body. It's frustrating because I've worked really hard to get where I'm at and I'm not soliciting these people for their opinions or advice. Most of these people are coworkers that I'm not close to, so I'm having a hard time figuring out how to respond to these comments in an appropriate way.

Some of the strangest comments I've received lately include: - if you lose more weight you'll lose your cute face - I think I like you the way you are now. Don't lose any more weight - I'm seeing lines in your face, that means it's time to stop - you were beautiful before. You didn't need to lose any weight - you're too skinny now, you shouldn't lose any more weight

How do you guys handle comments on your weight loss?

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