I lost 35 pounds in 3 months. It’s quite noticeable to people who know me. When I talk about it, I try not to sound preachy and judgemental of other people’s decisions. I try not to talk about it all the time. But to be fair sometimes when I hit my goal weight for the month or something, I want to share my happiness with someone I love, because I love all good news so if the shoe were on the other foot I’d be ecstatic for them as well.
Whenever I do try to share news with my friends or family, they get super judgmental and start shoving (wildly inaccurate) health advice down my throat or start critiquing my choices when we go out to eat, and i know they’d come down on me like vultures to a carcass if Lord forbid I put weight back on. I’m actually so disgusted by their behaviors.
I’m not really looking for sympathy or anything. I’m not trying to brag or make my entire personality about my weight loss, but it’s changing my life drastically and I just wanted to share the good news. Now I just feel guilty every time I open my mouth about it. I’m realizing that I’m really all alone in this journey. But I’m not super upset. It’ll just take some getting used to
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